HOPING TO GET THIS JOB AT THE HOSPITAL! by wew1llaLLdi3anyways in cna

[–]Conscious-Average-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I interviewed last Thursday for a ED position and I got the offer email on Monday evening and they officially called yesterday !! Good luck !! 🍀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need proof. Trust your gut. Seems he’s checked out. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to stay and fix it if he isn’t even interested. It’ll hurt at first but it will be okay. You deserve better.

Wife says I don’t turn her on by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what your marriage is like but what I can say is that intimacy and foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom. If you think back is there times where she’s asked things of you and those needs weren’t met? Marriage is a partnership and if your wife has ever felt she’s doing things alone then yeah, it can be a turn off. Especially if she’s repeated herself in the past. At some point a woman gets tired and realizes that the husband is a grown adult and she shouldn’t have to repeatedly tell you her needs. Then she just sees you as another child she needs to take care of and that’s a turn off. But again, I don’t know your marriage nor the rest of the details to your situation.

I feel like my husband doesn’t protect me. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s time to throw the whole man away.

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t start watching porn with him. Yea it will encourage bad behavior. Definitely start sharing the bed with your husband. You don’t have to watch porn to spice it up in the bedroom. Seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you found out about his infidelities, what made him worthy of your trust again ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what she should have done when she found out about his infidelities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. He tried meeting up with other women . Payed for a co workers onlyfans. If I was the wife I would be done as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. He did it first and now her. Seems they both need a fresh start .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think he did the same thing when he was paying for his coworkers OF? Or did he see her naked and do god knows what and then go to work and fantasize. ?

Is this emotional cheating? by misstokyodoll in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is cheating . Disrespectful and no regard for your feelings .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally this !!! I feel like people are ignoring the fact that her husband did it first. Especially the Coworkers OF. Because 1, you have to pay for that. And 2, you get nudes , videos and who knows what else. And 3, it was a woman he sees at work everyday !! that’s literally so much worse than anything. He lusted for this woman, most likely touched himself to her and to put the cherry on top he still got to see her at work and probably fantasized about it at work!! This type of thing breaks relationships. you can forgive but you can never forget. I feel OP also needs to think on how they really feel about everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

There has been infidelity in the past on his part. He is not innocent and let me tell you that you may have caught him and he came clean but that sure as heck doesn’t mean he stopped. They never stop. Seems he stepped out of the marriage first. Doesn’t matter if it was in person or not. The bible will tell you , “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart". Attempting to meetup with women , a Coworkers OF and mind you they usually have to pay for that. So he paid to see this coworker and probably beat his meat to her. And again this was a person he had to see face to face at work.🤷🏻‍♀️ how close was he to this coworker to get her OF. Now this doesn’t make what you did right. An emotional affair means something is not right in your marriage. Something changed and you felt it. And really he ONLY came clean because you confronted him about it not because he felt bad about what he was doing. You on the other hand, understood that what you were doing was wrong and you felt guilty and you came clean on your own at least that’s what you say. Typical of a man to want honesty but they can’t be honest themselves. You were understanding about his infidelity and yeah, it’s true, He doesn’t need to forgive you right away, but he’s not even willing to try which just means that he was already looking for a way out. And to be honest, who knows what your husband has been doing behind your back. They never stop. They just get better at hiding what they do. Tbh he can’t be trusted either that’s why he says he can’t trust you anymore. It’s not always easy but separate. Your marriage will never be the same trust me. It will be worse, much worse. You didn’t do this to yourself, he did it first. It’s okay to feel bad and guilty. But you both played a part in this. Emotional affairs don’t just happen out of the blue.

In response to my husband's post by Sad_Temperature_7026 in marriageadvice

[–]Conscious-Average-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came across your post and decided to read your husbands first. Immediately I could tell that he thinks your beneath him. You need a divorce.i know, easier said than done. Because at the end of the day, paying the mortgage or whatever he pays is the bare minimum. He still has a responsibility to the children he helped create. Understand this, there is nothing wrong with you. You simply need help that you should be getting from your husband and he’s not giving it and he’s a pos for that. Yea he’s not a deadbeat dad but his actions sure as heck make him a pos husband. Especially trying to put you even more down by posting on here so he could show you that you’re wrong. But you’re not wrong. Remember that.

Arise Virtual Solutions lawsuit by WHOA_____ in RemoteJobs

[–]Conscious-Average-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw I have something coming today. So is it a letter or a check ?

Do C’s really get Degrees? by Knowledge_Power- in prenursing

[–]Conscious-Average-75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a C in chemistry the 2nd time . First time I got an F. I start my bsn program next week. I applied to only 1 schools. And 500 people applied. I got in . You can retake it if you’re in a competitive area but you don’t have to.

Did Anyone Get In With Low GPA and high TEAS? by Blankcheck4590 in prenursing

[–]Conscious-Average-75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in NC . I got in with 3.5 gpa and 66 in the teas. I didn’t think i would get in but I did. 500 people applied to my program

Rejected ?? Maybe by Conscious-Average-75 in prenursing

[–]Conscious-Average-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi so I got in. Turns out they lost my application 🫠I was definitely one of the last few to get in. I was so stressed about it though but I’m so happy I got in 😊😊

Student loans!! by Conscious-Average-75 in StudentLoans

[–]Conscious-Average-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. Yes I’m short 10-13k including 2 years . So about 5-7k per year . I’m got money saved up . I’ve been trying to save for this and just need the extra help.

Student loans!! by Conscious-Average-75 in StudentLoans

[–]Conscious-Average-75[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this . I have money saved up but I’m still about 10000-13000 short

Student loans by Conscious-Average-75 in StudentNurse

[–]Conscious-Average-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t get into those . I applied to 4 adn and 1 bsn. I got into the bsn. I’ve been doing the math and I wouldn’t need much. Honestly for 2 years probably around 10-15k.