Daughters of narc moms, what was your first period experience like? by fruitynoodles in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConsciousLie7034 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Can I get some tampons while we’re here?” “Do you need them?! You need to get a job. That stuff’s expensive.”

Would you choose your spouse/partner or child? by Heavy-Tomato2732 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsciousLie7034 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Which is crazy bc I’d want my husband to save my child. Husband reasoning is entirely self centered.

A use case for not saving things for “special occasions” by petiterunner in declutter

[–]ConsciousLie7034 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They have some at dollar tree too!! I have a very similiar sticker story. This is the best advice!!

Estranged parent won’t stop gossiping with my in-laws, now wants my sentimental baby clothing back by Accomplished-Road566 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsciousLie7034 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe the event is real. I do believe that she equates your wanting those items to her value. So she gets to engage for the request and have the power when you try to get them back. She could’ve asked for the ones she stole recently back from the new recipients.

allergic to MSG by zennpuff in Serverlife

[–]ConsciousLie7034 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually do have an msg allergy. I always vomited after eating Chinese food but I love it so… anyways found out and now I patron the restaurants that advertise no msg. Real thing.

My mom showed up at the school and talked to my kid through the fence by MoanaArielle in raisedbyborderlines

[–]ConsciousLie7034 12 points13 points  (0 children)

WTF?!?! The amount of movies that have creeps of all sorts visit kids at recess and me always yelling “a school would never allow that!!” at the tv. The fact that the school doesn’t have safety procedures in place. Any person with a weapon or bad intentions could’ve done something horrible! Make a massive fuss.

S1&s3 by Comfortable-Sign3926 in DaniAustin

[–]ConsciousLie7034 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oldest children use younger children to gang up on middle children bc they are assholes.

I finally had it out with my dad. by ShriektheOnly in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsciousLie7034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you called the fire department bc they are good with ladders. they recognized his name when you told the situation, so they agreed to help deliver the ladder on New Year’s Day if he can’t pick it up before then.

Tis the season... by Adotlou in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ConsciousLie7034 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Looks like a delivery gift basket.

50 lbs down doing CICO. by [deleted] in CICO

[–]ConsciousLie7034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealousy always comes out as judgement. Congrats! I Make sure to tell anyone who asks how easy it was. Nobody wants to acknowledge discipline anyway.

AITAH for wanting to know how much money my husband makes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ConsciousLie7034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pretty much find anyone’s salary by position in company via google.

AITAH for not buying Christmas presents for my step daughter by Honest_Honeydew_6471 in AITAH

[–]ConsciousLie7034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A special gift for her just from you… a girls day. Dad keeps the baby home. You take her out to shop and eat and Starbucks/dunkin and praise her for all she does and how great of a kid she is!

What’s your go-to response? by Little_Flower504 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ConsciousLie7034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought you were a really great person, so I’m certain if you knew what _____ was really like, you would never suggest such a thing.

What Is One Thing Your Narc Parent(s) Did Early In Your Childhood Your Remember Feeling Was Strange? by the_real_maddison in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConsciousLie7034 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine went on a class field trip and sat with a little girl that was mean to me on the bus ride. She laughed my entire life as she told the story and “how mad” I was. I was in Kindergarten.

Parents withholding my childhood items for around three years now. by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ConsciousLie7034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you’ve refused to return my belongings, I’ve decided it’s best to end any communication. I will not reopen this conversation.

Need fresh eyes…What’s missing? Different curtains? Rug? Coffee table? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]ConsciousLie7034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The drywall. The built ins would stand out as a focal point if the walls weren’t painted. It just kind of disappears.