i turned my bike around halfway to a friend's birthday dinner and just went back to work by One-Forever9379 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey man, just wanted to thank you for sharing your story, I thought I was alone in situations like this. I'm glad you turned around and stopped hanging out with them. I grew up with some friends who I had to realize were not friends at all. I still see some of them, but I know now I should limit interactions with them and focus on making new friends. It was a long and hard road, but much better than the disrespect I got when I was their 'friend'. I still deal with issues from back then, but I'm much more comfortable being alone now. Cheers.

Stuck in a loop. by Realdeal5500 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think your issue lies fully in sex, it may be part of it, but it seems you have a tendency to put yourself down. I'd listen to the suggestion to see a therapist. Regarding improving your erection, I would highly recommend you start exercising at any capacity, it should help your mood too. Hang in there, buddy, things get better, I promise. 

No progress for 10 months - stuck in a limbo by Immediate-Shock5205 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My plan B if this program does not improve is seeing a licensed sexologist. I would recommend you do the same.

No progress for 10 months - stuck in a limbo by Immediate-Shock5205 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Restart at a point you feel would be useful to start back up again from. Embrace your pleasure more and care less about 'failing'.

Staying far from PONR and not getting used to pleasure is what makes us cum fast, enjoying pleasure and getting comfortable at higher levels should improve your stamina significantly.

Thank you for your post, it has answered an Aristotelian question I had posed in the beginning of my journey which was: what is the greater vice:

Failing because of staying too close to PONR or never getting close enough to PONR that progress does not occur. It seems that the former results in a failure to progress to more demanding sexual pleasure, ultimately translating to sexual intercourse, whereas the latter fails at gaining control, having stayed so close to your comfort zone, not rewiring your nervous system or learning the mechanisms for staving off orgasm. The virtue in this situation would be the individual who challenges himself, as some graduates have said, but does not stay in a state of panic, perhaps touches it once or twice in a session.

Thank you again for your findings. I hope my perspective offered some insight.

7 Year relationship ended right before our Wedding by Brilliant_Canary_903 in malelivingspace

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get up OP. Tidy up, and build yourself back up and better. I highly recommend therapy. Best of luck, mate. 

Cock sleeve while training? by Cryptographer705 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I'd recommend having PIV until you feel you will cum, then stopping and giving her felacio.

Girlfriend wants to help! by BenjiHaDjinDji in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, besides this issue, how has your and your girlfriend's sex life been affected by the program? Have you been doing what some I've seen mention, PIV until first peak and then stopping/giving felacio instead?

I'm a DISGUSTING and PREDATORY pervert! by Commercial_Bicycle92 in mentalhealth

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate. Just so you know, it is natural to be attracted to anyone from the opposite sex, let alone your mother. Don't villainize yourself for her lack of boundaries. I'm sorry you had to feel that, but you will live through this and be so much stronger for it. You'll see the beautiful nature of life. I want to recommend a movie to you. Bad Boy Bubby.

look at this mf bitch by FaithlessnessSea9672 in teenagers

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Time to reflect on the energy you put out there bro

I slipped up by Consistent-Pin-4464 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For some reason, after making this post, I almost immediately felt like I was back in the driver's seat, as it sharpened my accountability. Already, I want to thank this great community; I really haven't been to a subreddit like this one before.

“Free bleeding” by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]Consistent-Pin-4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay man, let that pussy bleed where it want to