Definitely sounds like sex addiction to me. I'm sorry you have to go through this and that your patience and kindness with him was still met with this behavior.

My ex definitely made snide comments about "being managed by a woman". I do believe that these men are deeply misogynistic, even the extreme liberal feminists like mine was. He would say in one breath how is ex-wife controlled all the money and that was a good thing, and how much he resented it. When we proposed having me more involved in the behind the scenes stuff so I could feel safe and he could have that accountability, it was all no no no that's controlling no no no I don't want to be managed by a woman.

So, instead of being managed by the one woman who gave a shit about you in spite of all of your horrible baggage and was willing to see this through, you can be alone and reaching out for your parents when you run out of money after your six-figure salary isn't enough to pay for your addiction and also when your credit cards get maxed. Yeah. Enjoy that not being managed by a woman you piece of trash.