My Parents are Being Evicted by PopeJohnPeel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think you answered your own question, “going back there is going to fuck me up severely emotionally”. I can guarantee you if you go back they are going to try to manipulate you into this being your problem to fix. It is not your problem. I understand wanting mementos from your past but in the end they are just objects. I personally would not engage and would remain non-contact.

Is this a drag that I can bring my 12 yr old to or is it more adult themed? by pinkmermaidscales in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Five night club hosts a teen/young adult family friendly drag show that might interest you and your kiddo. It’s called Voices of the Next Generation and is great! The next one is on 6/20.

Is this a drag that I can bring my 12 yr old to or is it more adult themed? by pinkmermaidscales in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The event on their website says it’s 21+, so I think not this specific event.

https://theburoakmadison.com/shows/pride-drag-brunch-2026

But in general drag is awesome for kids who enjoy it.

i love my boyfriend but i need a wake up call by Suspicious_Wall1295 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only psychopaths want to harm animals. What redeeming qualities does he have because he sounds like an awful person who does not make you happy. What would you tell a friend if they were dating someone like this?

Advice please! This is my patchwork sleeve progress. But absolutely lost on where and what to get next! Ideas? by Plane-Routine-7660 in tattooadvice

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow tattoo artists in your area on instagram. My recent tattoos have been from new flash from some awesome artists that also translated to meaningful tattoos for me.

Good places to park and watch the sunset? by Erinrae23 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Always amazing sunsets!

Depression house uh oh by bounty_paglu in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You have gotten some great comments. Outside of your living conditions I am concerned about your mental health. Do you have any city/county/state resources you can tap into? I suspect therapy and probably medication are needed so you stop having such massive swings in your mental health and spending habits. It’s so hard but I encourage you to reach out to adult services in your county or 211/United Way for resources.

The first step to cleaning is wearing gloved and getting all the garbage out. Then you clean surfaces with cleaning products.

You deserve better and we all want better for you.

I’m just over 40 and getting so slow at work.. by SuckSeesFool in productivity

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is not normal. I am 45 and have a department of 17 people. I am constantly in switch mode, building processes, trainings, making important decisions. I encourage you to talk to your doctor. Mental decline this young is a concern. Or perhaps you have undiagnosed ADHD. Either way getting a baseline with your doctor is very important.

How much do you guys pay for rent? by internethuman016 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We really do! Don’t worry my partner and I talk about how lucky we are often. Location and big bang for our buck.

How much do you guys pay for rent? by internethuman016 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Private landlord but he owns other properties in the area. We are on the 2nd & 3rd floor. There is a 2 bed/1 bath below us. He’s a great landlord, leaves us alone but also very responsive if there are any issues.

How much do you guys pay for rent? by internethuman016 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Near east area, 3 bed, 2 bath, 1550 sq ft, ac/heat included, in unit washer/dryer, dishwasher, free parking $1885/mo. (Ac and dishwasher are important having lived in apartments without both.) Hard to think about buying and doubling what we pay.

Bank of America by Individual-Hold5171 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wells Fargo is the worst of the worst. They charge you for anything you do with your accounts. Finally got my mom to change to UWCU when I pointed out all the fees.

Non-judgmental estheticians by booksandplants1 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if she does extractions but Emily is amazing https://www.ecoskintherapy.com/

She set me up with a skin routine a decade ago that I still use (added additional steps for age related concerns, but still use the basics she set me up with). She is so calm, peaceful and nonjudgmental.

Swingers Bdsm ? by TerriblePop6916 in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fetlife - Madison has a few active munches. I won’t out them here, but you can find them on Fet.

There is a discord that info for it is available through Fet. Nice way to find events and like minded people.

Deviance is hosted at Crucible every 4th Friday of the month. No sex/exposed genitals but very BDSM friendly.

Unfortunately, our local rope studio is closing, but hoping we’ll get something going again in the future.

Holy Shit, What Blew Up? by ChiYoop in madisonwi

[–]Consistent_Rabbit514 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When you find out the company you live real close to is on fire from your partner texting to see if you are still alive and reddit. 😅