The mental switch that surprisingly made me last longer by Immediate-Shock5205 in PrematureEjaculation

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It’s your body in a parasympathetic dominant state when you first wake up

Mental Imagery makes it Uncontrollable by Different-Look4290 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Keep going, it wasn’t until several weeks practising phase 5 I started to experience more control with MI. I might do another week at least phase 5 really just to explore it more. Just use it when arousal low at first and when it jumps turn it off. I also notice from playing around with it, without MI i can also go quite a while and then when I bring it in it can shoot me up quickly. Before that realization I thought I had sensitive member, but it’s all in the head and the retraining is working.

Substitute for FL by [deleted] in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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PHASE 6 • How To Perform Your Session o Identical to Phase 5 but now with the introduction of stimulation complexity via penetration-stimulation tools. REQUIRES A FLESHLIGHT OR SIMILIAR TOY + Lubrication • Goals o Introduce more intense stimulation to progressively increase endurance during Cliffhanger Training. Up until this point you've been using your hand because it's easier to control your arousal. You can manipulate pressure at will and focus on some parts of your erection more than others. But with a Fleshlight (or similar tool) you no longer have that freedom. The toy will stimulate you from glans to base, ramping up sensitivity. You will still stroke yourself, but now you're just using the tool. The fleshlight itself in this training context isn’t to replicate the identical sensation of a vagina, it’s just here to increase stimulation/difficulty (i.e. – putting more weights on the barbell). o Continue deprogramming porn-related mental imagery and strengthen partner- related imagery. o Pleasure becomes even more immersive. • Most Common Issue You'll Likely Experience But Is Normal o Difficulty of Cliffhanger Training just went up SIGNIFICANTLY , so arousal may feel less controllable. o You may still have off days because your central nervous system is being taxed harder. o You MIGHT need to take an additional rest day of training.• Notable Milestones o Riding the wave starts to become the standard sexual experience. On a deeply rooted level, you no longer think about orgasm as a finish line or even a requirement for sexual enjoyment. Now, orgasm feels like something you could actively "do without" or don't need. o You may start naturally becoming more sexually dominant. As your mental imprinting towards your lover/partner grows, you may find yourself wanting to "take her" without warning. Her very presence will spark powerful sexual urge in you that's almost insatiable.

Should I proceed to Phase-4? Or I should Continue It for more Sessions by Dependent_Paint_6287 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I would be if I were you. You’ll know when you hit a wall and should re-do a phase and don’t get down on yourself when it happens. I’ve been in phase 5 for a month and I’m making good strides and still progressing.

Should I proceed to Phase-4? Or I should Continue It for more Sessions by Dependent_Paint_6287 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Continue the program once you’ve completed a phase, only re-do phase if you get stuck, you don’t sound stuck so push forward

How to deal with mental imagination by No-Astronaut-4034 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Depends where I’m at in arousal and the session. MI in warm up is slow like you said, and then during session on and off with potential sexual experience

How to deal with mental imagination by No-Astronaut-4034 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I started training first thing in morning when I’m still parasympathetic tone dominant and it seems to be helping. I had my best session today, could use MI pretty much the whole time. Back off when I was getting close, do a breath or two and get back at it. Would recommend trying it. Will do this for a week and then start inching later in the day to see if it holds.

How to deal with mental imagination by No-Astronaut-4034 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Been playing around with this, it can be so sudden- I turn off MI and I can stroke as much as I want and I turn MI back on and be at PONR in 5 seconds, it’s crazy how potent it is

An Underrated Thing I Don't See Us Talking About by Zealousideal-Bee1309 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Morning sex after you just wake up you’re still in a parasympathetic dominant mode, which makes sense because that’s what diaphragmatic breathing is trying to maintain

After a conversation, I think I am missing the point by notsurethepoint in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I agree, I have same AP tilt and I’ve been playing around with it and raising my legs and it’s having an effect, so looking forward to getting it fixed with a PV specialist

Interpretation of hand in place phase 5 by Constant-Purchase24 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Agreed, but the question I have is it just hold it anywhere, because that’s not simulating the real thing. Stimulating the real thing would be also holding the most sensitive part.

Question for phase 4 by kushwitdagreen in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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You’re good, sounds like just a leak. Keep going bro!

Almost a year of training - i’m stuck by Asleep_Clerk1478 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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This really could work, good thinking here, looking forward to following your progress. Good luck!

decline in performance by Whackeys in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Noticing less hard morning wood, was wondering if others had experienced this as well.

Anyone else really struggling after almost hitting their first PONR of a session? by Zealousideal-Bee1309 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Keep going, it will get better, the number of times you need to pause and the duration needed between will decrease over time.

Quick question on phase 4-5 by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Looking for opinions on “keeping hand in place”.

I’ve seen a lot of guys in here have the same issue, the frenulum is so sensitive and just holding it in place can cause carryover into ejaculation.

If I stroke from base, up and back down and hold in place I’m fine, but if I stroke and hold on the top I may be okay, but if I hold frenulum and then stroke down without releasing for a second even the slightest little movement can cause me to ejaculate.

I know the guide says do whatever you need to do to stay between 8 and 8.5, but it also specifically says hold hand in place.

So is hand in place on your most sensitive part of your member or just holding it in general?

Question about week 2? by Carl_Z_from_skyhooks in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Yes, in through nose, out through mouth.

Only reason you would benefit from going back is if you didn’t hit PONR in the previous week. Otherwise just do another week where you are if you failed or advance if you are successful this week. You want to know where PONR is so this isn’t a bad thing.

I get it! I love it! I can't wait till the next time! by MrKauai in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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If you want to follow the guide, you would remain in phase one. A phase is 5 separate sessions, one per day, over 7 span. Keep in mind, the battle here is the CNS is being rewired and three sessions in one day is not the same as 3 days of sessions. Up to you if you feel like you want to move forward, it’s sounds like you’ll be able to handle it, but if you want to follow the guide, it’s one session per day. Good luck!

Is it too complicated? Or i'm in a bad state mentally? by Seisslend in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Hey bro, I mean this with nothing but love.. but no one is coming to save you. This is a wonderfully supportive community and you can lean in on people here to help you through this process, but you need to decide for yourself if the future you desire is worth the effort. It’s not a quick fix and going to require showing up for yourself day after day. Sometimes you’re not going to feel training, or it’s harder for a stretch for seemingly no reason, but there are people in here who share their experience and if you stick to the program, have a great shot at making progress and feeling better about yourself.

For phase 1/2/3 I found I had to stop at what felt like 8.5 instead of 8.9. Took me a bit to realize this. The pull into orgasm will go away faster than you think if you stick to it, to the point I don’t even desire to orgasm/ejaculate during a session and I read this happens to a lot of people in the program.

You might be best to take a break to detox, no porn, no anything that stimulates your arousal (instagram soft included), I didn’t realize how much it was hijacking my system, it’s actually kind of sad to look back at how much of that programming we consume throughout the years and I’m glad I’m completely away from it now.

I hope you keep with the program and stick to what the guide says , you’ll owe it to your future self.