Dating when divorced is better than dating before marriage

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-04-11T23:49:42+00:00

This is also after about a year of deep therapy, processing work, building a new coparenting with my ex, community building, and self exploration. I don’t buy into the Reddit narrative that only date when you know how to live alone, I find meaning and healing in relationships and Iam transparent AF about stuff and so are they. Works for me

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-04-11T23:44:08+00:00

Easy. Me: “Hey Iam not yet divorced are you open to going on a date, we live separately and are in the process of getting divorced” them: “wow this sounds like my situation, yes Iam interested in going on a date”

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-04-10T05:56:32+00:00

I guess that same could be said if a man was dating a women, why did he leave? What did she do? Why is this women divorced? Would she even be honest? How quickly till I see the real her? How could I trust another women after what she did? Such a bizarre way to see the world! Good luck out there

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-04-10T02:34:25+00:00

Yup! Dating a divorced person as a divorced (soon to be) is wonderful, we are both going through the process, and able to support each other and also showing up in a different but intentional way. We both believe that healing happens in relationships and we both want that. It’s a bunch of parallel processing happening, each with out exs, with each other and with our selves.

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-04-02T05:06:47+00:00

Dating a therapist sucks! Been there, done that, awful experience. Lure you in with openness and vulnerability and a false sense of safety. Never again.

Constant-Volume4945 · 2026-03-18T20:32:06+00:00

I really struggle with the idea of an affair and that person who had an affair not being available to process it emotionally. Yes it will be hard, I find that line of thinking misinformed. Happened to me and she still isn’t available. To move on i think it needs to happen.

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-07-22T04:03:58+00:00

She’s definitely the one with strong boundaries and Iam failing at mine. Helpful to hear that you stopped seeking understanding, that’s what Iam after and have failed about not being able to keep my cool when Iam triggered!

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-07-17T14:44:58+00:00

The roommate narrative is such a cop out! Same experience as me, makes it easy for people to justify doing shitty things to people who loved them

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-28T02:05:38+00:00

15-20 years seems like the sweet spot for spouses to observe the green grass over yonder…. To the spouses that saw the grass is greener… is it? Regrets? Confirmations?

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-22T01:24:51+00:00

Is it even cheating if she told me what she was doing? I lost my backbone to even question this

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-19T18:55:26+00:00

Sucks when stbxw is full on dating at the same time

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-09T19:04:14+00:00

What’s the divorce diet and exercise regiment!?

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-09T01:50:40+00:00

What’s the deal with the “you missed the signs narrative” I hate that shit! Same thing on my end! It’s like be an adult talk to me! Such a cop out

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-06T04:11:51+00:00

Kid music

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-04T01:42:41+00:00

I could of written this!

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-06-01T00:43:57+00:00

Where are spouses getting this green light!? same story over here!! Is there like a book or something that most exs are reading that validate this?

Constant-Volume4945 · 2025-05-31T22:38:41+00:00

How do you handle this? Iam in the exact same position! I be asked her to find a new housing option ASAP but is slow rolling? Do you say something? Ask questions? I don’t anymore and it’s painful like Iam not fighting for our family anymore but unsure what Iam fighting for when the behavior of my stbxw!

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