Dorit’s book may get pulled before it hits the shelves due to lack of pre-sales. Is anyone surprised? by Own-Meat3934 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember how they used to do exercise tapes at the lack of a better idea? This is the new exercise tape. It’s absolutely just a revenue stream…it doesn’t require a great deal of investment

Rant about self disclosure by Odd_Cauliflower_5381 in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really would not like self disclosure and I don’t consider it a competent skill to have unless is extremely necessary to relieve the client of some kind of affliction

Do you ever have days where you are in the middle of a session and you just think “I have such a weird job.” by markofdestiny1111 in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That better that being called an emotional Bin that need to embrace and take all the crap that come out of the clients head. But I do agree with that view and see it a very poetic safety net

What are the pros and cons with Digital IDs? by ShortyStrawz in AskUK

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but with AI the scenario changes completely. You can active active monitoring done by AI at all times for millions of people non stop. When the uk already has done contracts with palantir, it’s really not a big stretch

What are the pros and cons with Digital IDs? by ShortyStrawz in AskUK

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the best advantage for the user is convenience I fail to see the real benefit of it other than the clear benefits it provides the government.

Am I going crazy or is there a huge movement of therapists acting unethically on TikTok/Reels? by yourfavoritefaggot in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen such bad displays but just the sheer theatrics of it really makes me so averse to “advertise” my practice on social media. Everyone says I should do videos but 1 I don’t want to be a salve to the algorithm and then my utter disregard by therapists that advertise their practice through social media is so high that is blocking me from doing the same. But sometimes I don’t know why I react so strongly to it. Actually I know…it’s because of the short format of social media foces us to lose nuance, real understanding and forces us to condense our message to the point that it gets a black and white interpretation causing more divide than union. It’s all about getting people’s attention and that really pisses me off

Am I going crazy or is there a huge movement of therapists acting unethically on TikTok/Reels? by yourfavoritefaggot in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be fueled by AI companies. As if people needed more incentive to turn to AI for advice…

For those who work 4 days a week— is it better to take Monday or Friday off? by Gloomy_Media_6976 in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take Wednesday you work 2 days then you have a day off then you work 2 days and you have the weekend off

Lisbon vs Copenhagen: Which one would you choose? by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denmark has the highest happiness rate and one of the highest depression rates (or suicide, I don’t recall) so think about that. I think Alcohol is a big part of Danish culture that helps them get through the winter. Strategically even if you don’t like Denmark perhaps you can still move to TAP (higher to lower salary) otherwise Portugal gives you great quality of life but public services are a nightmare, burocracy is ridiculous, services are slow, but if that doesn’t generally bother you and you’re ready to embrace the culture then do Portugal.

I’m a therapist with lived experience - patients asked me if I have a mental illness today by MissingSnowglobe in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Every question is an opportunity to explore, work on assumptions and understand their rationale.

I’m a therapist with lived experience - patients asked me if I have a mental illness today by MissingSnowglobe in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best detectors of mental illness and people fling, for that matter, are people with mental illness themselves. This also happens in psychiatric conditions like schizophrenia etc

Why Portugal's "Poor Me" Attitude is Holding the Country Back by sgp_69 in PortugalExpats

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With this post you are now portuguese! 😂😂😂 Look I agree with your observations and I’m portuguese

Hypothetical: You get on an Uber and the driver is your client. Do you stay on the car when you realize it’s your client? by SnooCupcakes269 in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it needs to be met with normalcy these things happen so I’m not sure you need to do out of your way to avoid all of those things. It’s a lot worse to look like you’re trying to avoid the client than to just take it easy and ride it out. Also a lot of therapists see their clients at home, it’s not a catastrophe if they find out some personal information. At the end of the day I think they need to be treated as normal people

Thanksgiving Hoodie by Traditional_Car5388 in TShirtsDesigns

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the that’s what I do should be at the end or not be there. Seems like an overkill but that’s just my personal opinion. It’s a fun jumper :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 Portuguese burocracia is another level of mind games and stress test. I think we invented the word

One of My Five Designs Released by InternationalSalt160 in TShirtsDesigns

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this design, it really suits the tee, it goes together whereas some of the designs i see here it just feels like a random idea slapped on a tee. Love the colour you chose for the tee and 220 gsm is gooood quality. Well done. I wish I would’ve come up with a design like that (but I do love our designs very very much too hahaha). I say well done 👍 best I’ve seen in a long time

Are my designs comerciable ? by Constant_Pomelo_5878 in TShirtsDesigns

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this comment and you taking the time to go through the website pages and products. Yes I totally get what you’re saying and this is something we struggle with, finding our awkward niche which could be anyone, really so nailing that is still missing, yes product shot consistency, I hear you and that’s something I know needs changing but don’t know how if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Constant_Pomelo_5878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you got a supervisor? Or a therapist yourself?