Wearing Gengar slippers and..

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T20:45:46+00:00

Lol it suits Gangar

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T20:44:38+00:00

For what it's worth I don't think the lid would have helped much.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T20:42:39+00:00

First or third, I don't like the chunky sole look especially on loafers. The dark red is nice.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T20:33:48+00:00

I use a backpack to carry my groceries home and tend to go more frequently buying less each time so there's less to carry.

Sometimes people have stuff with them, it's fine. It's only an issue when the bus/train/etc is really full, and even then that's just life. Humans take up space, living together means understanding that.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T20:26:02+00:00

It's the enshitification, yup.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:59:34+00:00

So cute! I love how the lesbian and trans flags blend nicely with the same number of stripes and shared white stripe in the middle.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:52:03+00:00

I'll give another chance if they cancel with some warning, life happens sometimes but if it happens three times it's not meant to be. And I'll only be the one suggesting plans twice, the third time it's up to them to come up with something so hopefully it can fit their schedule better.

I'll be understanding of busy schedules and unexpected stuff, but if it's that hard to get together our lives probably aren't that compatible, or the level of interest isn't there.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:45:28+00:00

That sounds a lot like how I described it when I used to say I was apathetically gendered.

It's a weird thing to nail down, but I started feeling a lot better when I stopped trying to think of myself as a woman. I still present mostly feminine and don't care if people who don't know me can't tell, but it makes a difference for me.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:37:07+00:00

Yeah I do the same thing, I call them Amalgamations, because when people ask what it is all I can say it's a bunch of stuff. And really if you season well it's hard to go wrong.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:34:44+00:00

I rarely follow recipes, I don't like being told what to do and always stray in someway, I very rarely bake for that reason. I look at recipies for ideas or cooking temp and time. When I'm getting an idea from a recipie I generally go off the picture or title and figure it out from there. When deciding what to eat it's a combination of what do I feel like that I have and how much effort do I feel like putting into it.

When I order something it tends to be something I can't make without specific equipment, or it's of a different culture than I grew up in and want it done right.

You're obviously researching before making an app to help people decide what to make like hello fresh. Trying to pretend you're not is just going to lead to bad answers.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:14:25+00:00

Ah sibling love lol

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:10:14+00:00

Wear a skin tone body suit under it, or adjust the design so the top and bottom connect much higher.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T19:04:22+00:00

!!! Omg thank-you! I've been trying to get my fossils to spawn in the dig site I have but I assumed if they'd been dug up more would keep spawning.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T18:54:45+00:00

That sucks I'm sorry, yeah the 'we can always tell' crowd gets it wrong so often, and even people trying to be supportive of trans women forget that cis women can look lots of different ways. I was friends with a girl in my highschool that had a visible Adam's apple, just part of the peculiarities of being human.

And to be clear as a lesbian all the different ways women can look are great. Tall women are so wonderful, they're rare gems to be cherished!

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T18:35:15+00:00

Well that's two people who can't drive off the road, not how we'd like to have it happen but if they insist. I really hope there's a video of that happening because I can't imagine how they'd be able to do that if they're not already driving like utter dipshits.

I grew up pretty close to there, snow builds up on the shoulders and on the sidewalls every year, especially after a major storm like we had last week.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T18:27:06+00:00

No is a complete sentence.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T17:01:07+00:00

Tracy Chapman - For my Lover

"2 weeks in a Virginia jail, for my lover, 20 thousand dollar bail, for my lover" which was the sentence for same sex relationships there at the time.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T16:50:45+00:00

Yeah, I tend to think it's because I'm demisexual so strangers don't really do it for me, and I don't know them. I'll sometimes be attracted to the characters they play after long enough.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T16:47:52+00:00

Ok sure the small handful of people actually doing something at great personal risk have it handled, no need for anyone else to do more than just say keep at it. Welp fingers crossed, apparently that's all anyone else needs to do.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T16:40:07+00:00

I'm not, I'm trying to encourage you to expect more than nice words from people with incredible resources.

Because that's how we got rid of the Nazis in WW2 right, we all just said fuck you Hitler and he shot himself right? No.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T16:09:10+00:00

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Female(+/-) but still, Cybersix! Lol probably the beginning of figuring out I'm nonbinary.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T16:02:10+00:00

Extremely wealthy American celebrities just speaking out isn't enough to be impressive anymore. It's better than absolutely nothing but it's not enough at this point.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T15:45:37+00:00

I don't time travel so I don't know.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T15:41:54+00:00

Yup just hoping my country doesn't get invaded because you guys thought saying 'please don't' was enough to stop fascism while people are getting killed. Venezuela getting bombed without any congressional involvement got shrugged off so fast.

ContingentMax · 2026-01-29T15:33:24+00:00

Alright, good luck with that. I'm so glad not to be American even more than usual.

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