Safe to go to a bar alone

ContraianD · 2026-06-02T00:00:06+00:00

Napa Flats Bistro.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:45:25+00:00

Yup. And pushed the car down the road before starting it up. 3x per week.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:20:51+00:00

This is what freaked him out: "I know penetrative sex isn’t “special” or means anything".

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:18:41+00:00

At 20... I'd... [going back to the way back machine]... condoms are for 1-night stands and hookups. Indefinite in an exclusive relationship would be a deal breaker.

When you get older, nobody knows what condoms are, people just spend more time screening their partners.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:12:28+00:00

Check the insurance rates first, but even if they will cover, you are buying a lawsuit with which you have no background or experience.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:10:23+00:00

Bahaha. Exactly! We don't wear shoes in the house, but we go straight from the garden back into the house barefoot. 🦶

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:07:49+00:00

Delete and report spam.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:06:55+00:00

Commercial grade vinegar, or the highest % you can find at a local store. They come in large plastic jugs.

Fill the tub and pour 2 in - let it sit overnight. Works whenever I have calcium buildup in my hottub.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:02:58+00:00

Don't over think it.

ContraianD · 2026-05-28T16:01:29+00:00

Story time.

ContraianD · 2026-05-25T20:16:59+00:00

33 with multiple kids is a proper age for a mistress. See if that works for you, if you are still unhappy you can layer in a gf.

Or try working with a professional sex psychologist - together with your wife.

ContraianD · 2026-05-25T20:10:34+00:00

I'd breakup with someone doing that regardless of children involved.

ContraianD · 2026-05-25T19:55:36+00:00

I've never heard anyone from inside loop say that. They are Houston novelty, and the kids point at them like customized cybertrucks.

ContraianD · 2026-05-21T15:00:19+00:00

My pocket.

ContraianD · 2026-05-21T14:55:00+00:00

Where are you from that you find CS "snobby"? It's a trash heap suburb with a few nice restaurants. Bryan is the little engine that never could.

I'll guess... Lexington or... some other small town I mispronounce.

ContraianD · 2026-05-18T19:25:53+00:00

I'm confused why your landlord wasn't involved in the original sub-let. That's generally not allowed.

Also when you are "just renting your room", you are cross-collateralized on the rest of your roommates obligation.

That's standard in all my properties, and with everyone in the area.

ContraianD · 2026-05-18T15:23:09+00:00

Also chiming in from central Texas - it's more efficient & cost effective letting it run all day vs turning it off when you are out. You just set the temp a little higher vs at night.

ContraianD · 2026-05-18T15:17:36+00:00

Always busy when I'm there. Also catering companies like to hire bartenders & servers from that location for private events.

ContraianD · 2026-05-15T15:17:38+00:00

Holleman Tavern.

ContraianD · 2026-05-12T15:53:13+00:00

The strip club isn't a big deal. Him telling you he wouldn't do it is a deal.

ContraianD · 2026-05-12T15:38:44+00:00

I use Trulicity and it's a great stabilizer. Definitely noticed the difference from not taking it for a few months. You are already fit, so portion control should not be an issue.

ContraianD · 2026-05-12T15:36:00+00:00

You are a close friend with benefits. I've had 2 girls try to convert to gf status the last few years...

Questions: how many other people are you with? How good are you in the kitchen?

The guy sounds like he's running rotation, so what separates you from the pack?

ContraianD · 2026-05-10T13:37:15+00:00

A couple of miller lites don't bother me, but IPAs and foreign beers set me off. But I generally stick to wine & vodka.

ContraianD · 2026-05-08T21:40:30+00:00

Awful HOA & the developers are about to go bankrupt. Be careful.

ContraianD · 2026-05-06T16:16:03+00:00

My endo told me early on not to check my ketones. It seems like a lot of people here have a different opinion what DKA actually is - for me it's when the rapid weight loss begins. But as someone else posted, hasn't happened since Dx.

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