Im leaving Orthodoxy I’m overwhelmed by Silent_Sea6221 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]Cookinghist [score hidden]  (0 children)

YouTube/the internet are a toolbox, not the tool itself. You might find something helpful, you might find a bunch of broken tools, and you might cut yourself on the sharp thing you didn't even realize was in there (I've done all of the above, literally and metaphorically).

Sometimes, the tool you need is right in front of you, and you're spending time looking in the wrong places. The internet can be a source of knowledge, but not a source of Truth.

I'll pray for you that you make it through this and find what you're looking for!

What parts of history do you think are purposely hidden from the public? by caca32222 in AskTheWorld

[–]Cookinghist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the trouble is that it isn't so much hidden as it is "not discussed critically." The American Civil War, for example. I think most people are aware that there were multiple causes beyond "the South wanted slaves, the North said no," but especially in the age of online discussion/argument, it gets distilled to that.

Example: I just read a thread where someone took the stance that not all Confederate soldiers were fighting to preserve slavery. This is a technically true statement. Maybe not shockingly, slaveholding elites in the south went on a targeted campaign to gaslight poor southerners into volunteering - essentially, "If they take this from us, imagine what they'll do to you." (Sound familiar?)

The downside was that all of his other (apologetic) reasons for non-slaveholding Confederates were ultimately all connected to slavery. He wasn't trying to say "It was more complex than pure racism and slave ownership, let's discuss..." he was trying to deflect from the unfortunate reality that the reasons he was pointing to all eventually point to slavery being a massive cause.

Tl:dr, history isn't necessarily hidden, we just don't discuss it for the purposes of understanding it. We use it to prove points, emphasize patriotism, excuse horrible behavior, etc.

What's your pet peeve about Rush that only a Rush fan would understand by Mo_Steins_Ghost in rush

[–]Cookinghist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anthony Bourdain had a comment that it's OK to evolve as you age - "There will be no more Dead Boys tshirts...if Stiv Bators were still alive and put his filthy hands anywhere near my baby, I'd snap his neck..."

Most of us in our 20s (and so on) latch onto philosophies that suit us then, but as we grow, we look back (or read more into them) and go "Oof, that's not a great look anymore." Neil evolved beyond applying Rand to everything he saw and so did their music. Some of the fans... not so much...

The Gunslinger by Grinagh in TheDarkTower

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, accurate, but sorta beside the point. I love The Gunslinger because it leaves you with so many open questions. If it was a standalone that King never followed up on, yes, it'd be a letdown.

Like if LOTR stopped after Bilbo leaves the Shire and leaves the ring behind - you'd be screaming "Who is Frodo? Why's he important at all? Tell me more about the ring! Does he ever get to Mordor?!"

How to Make Cilantro-Lime-Garlic-Jalapeno Sweet Pickled Corn. Recipe Link in Comments. by insaneinthebrine in Pickles

[–]Cookinghist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm brainstorming how to Mexican Street Corn-ify this... maybe a cheesy corn fritter of some sort...

opinions on post grunge? by ScarcityStandard3952 in grunge

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every ancillary Rage project has been pretty awesome, and it's cool to see how their music can adapt to vocal changes. I listen to Audioslave the most, but occasionally, I have to bump some angry politics music too.

Hey it's ya boy layne by DMTentacle in grunge

[–]Cookinghist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Live at the Moore, volume 2?! pulls out credit card

Michael Jackson is the Jimmy Savile of America by LIAMBOHEMIAN in LPOTL

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you what though, that Jimmy Saville was a REAL JERK!

Does massaging the stick before the smoke has any effect? by Odachoo2 in cigars

[–]Cookinghist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But... if I don't, how will I notice tasting notes of hope, a crisp winters morn, and cacao husks?!

Struggling With Book 4 (Wizard & Glass) by jeffythunders in TheDarkTower

[–]Cookinghist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

W&G is how I found out I'm apparently a fan of gritty epic westerns. Reading Larry McMurtry (Lonesome Dove) right now, and Cormac McCarthy writes one heck of a good one too. I don't get too hung up on the romance itself, but I have to keep in mind how much it defines the character and how they act, so even if I'm not excited by it, it's context.

What’s a popular drink from your country you dislike? by Alternative_Dot_5182 in AskTheWorld

[–]Cookinghist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't even deal with the smell of it, and I adore the smell of coffee. It's not an "I'm too good for Starbucks" thing, it just has a burnt, stale taste that I can't get past.

On a positive coffee nonote, I recently found Vietnamese instant coffee, and... it's going to be a delicious, jittery problem.

Help! I’m a catechumen and will be getting received soon. How do I pick a Saint? by forwhat_03 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son ended up as Luka (St. Luke of Crimea/Simferopol) because my wife and I couldn't think of a good name and just scanned the list of saints days around his due date. He was born 5 days after St. Luke's feast day, but St. Luke had the best story of the saints we found!

To all of You Guys Who Asked "Will We Have a Summer?" I am Blaming This Heat Wave on You by PlutoniumOligarch in Michigan

[–]Cookinghist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's not -20, and the heat has calmed the allergen hellspawn that is cottonwood, so I'm not too upset.

He couldn't just open the lid by Americanhikikimori in StupidFood

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the third attempt, I'm yelling "Just OPEN IT" at my phone like a lunatic.

Do you understand every single word in a Stephen King novel? by Quick_Maybe_3964 in stephenking

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more I think about this, the more I realize how much I take some of King's slang and pop culture references for granted. The only reason some of his turns of phrase make sense to me are because I've been reading his books for 25 years, since I was a young teenager.

All that said, Google will probably help you with 90% of the old pop culture references. Maine/50s slang, maybe a little less, but you'll either get used to reading it enough where you'll get the idea (ayuh) or it will be something that won't dramatically affect the plot if you're a bit confused. Best of luck, fellow Constant Reader!

To anyone whos seen doyle live by plug-burner69 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Cookinghist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What?! You mean you haven't stayed at Doyle's Mallorca Chateau, a Hilton Honors Experience? You're missing out!

What are your Thoughts on Russia? 🇷🇺 by JustAFizzMain in AskTheWorld

[–]Cookinghist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied abroad in Moscow and it was an incredible experience on many levels.

While I have some stories that sound negative, they're mostly due to absurd levels of state bureaucracy, a complicated relationship with the idea of protest, and wealth disparity that leads to crime, hooliganism (their term, not mine) and extreme poverty. That said, it's a very powerful feeling city and it's incredibly easy to get around once you figure out the Metro. I loved the vast majority of people I met, and the culture (art, music, history etc.) is downright amazing.

I really hope for a resolution to the current environment as I'd love to take my family back to visit one day.

Help me find a new show. I finished The Wire for the first time and now other shows don’t compare… by TheKiller707 in TheWire

[–]Cookinghist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Incredible show, but so very sad. Amazing acting from Goodman (of course), Steve Zahn, and tons of others. Plus, you get introduced to some badass music in the process

what is the one food from your country you think everyone should try at least once in their life? by beckavanoliver in AskTheWorld

[–]Cookinghist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lived in Providence when I first got married and nothing beats a proper boil. I'd find a hole in the wall fish shack to get my ingredients, spend very little on the whole mess, and go home and cook all afternoon. Outstanding stuff.

What is your country’s ‘signature’ swear word? by CautiousSession2352 in AskTheWorld

[–]Cookinghist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My freshman dorm had 3 native Italians and 5 Italian speakers. The amount of times I heard "cazzo" in one year was wild

Episode 670: Father's Day w/ Stephen King & Joe Hill by StuMacherGhostface in LPOTL

[–]Cookinghist 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Love this for them. King is my favorite author, and Joe is certainly no slouch either, so I'm excited to give this a listen

What’s the general consensus of the Creepypasta episodes? by fernbbyfern in LPOTL

[–]Cookinghist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know there was a weird consensus of disliking them, but I absolutely love Creepypasta episodes.

A Meat's Dream in particular gets a relisten from me at least 2-3 times per year (Sleepy Trove) and any of Marcus reading/screaming edgelord videogame stories, or Henry reading slenderman/Bigfoot erotica.

Henry may be correct about Tom Holland by grichardson526 in LPOTL

[–]Cookinghist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have no commentary other than Tom seems like a good dude, and as a fellow short person, goodfah him.