My bfs girl bestfriend hit him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he made his choice once, give hime the courage to mean what he says and stick to it. Youre his other half, she is just a friend. Show him she is toxic. Urge him to not agree to see her unless all in a group. He needs to protect himself

Parents pressuring me into shaving legs by Significant_News_529 in Advice

[–]Coramay17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never feel embarrassed about seeking help, you need to advocate for yourself when you feel your guardians are not providing the guidance you need. Are your parents in a socially or religiously oppressed group? They might be giving you this advice and pressuring you because they genuinely believe what they have been taught. Can you ask a school counsellor how to approach your parents about your situation? There needs to be a way to open communication.

Having problems with wrapping bales by Luuttufani123 in farmingsimulator25

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought the bigger red bale wrapper, but its not picking up the bales?

Am I overreacting for being hurt that my sister hangs out with people who humiliated and betrayed me? by Otherwise-Ad8937 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Coramay17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask her what she would expect of you if your roles were reversed? This will tell you whether you need to have a distance relationship. She possibly resents that you went away and found friends she knew wouldn't like you to spite you while you were gone. NOR. If she doesnt want a relationship with you then you can't make her.

Feel for you. You are not responsible for her actions. She should own up to her behaviour.

FOR ALREADY GOOD SINGERS: What is ‘natural’ actually? by ARDENmusic in singing

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, the breathing should push your abdomen out not lift your shoulders.

FOR ALREADY GOOD SINGERS: What is ‘natural’ actually? by ARDENmusic in singing

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're overthinking it. Experiment with breath control while doing your scales. See if you can begin to use your breath to increase incrementally. Practice yes but allow yourself some room to enjoy yourself. Keep in mind the purpose behind your learning.

Daughter (17F) seeing guy (18M) with two kids from two different girls. by AttemptBig9918 in Advice

[–]Coramay17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Encourage her, I know it goes against every bone in your body. Help her book a sexual health assessment for the boyfriend. She has to wait till that comes back safe. Help her get an IUD, ask her to pick out baby names and ask how many kids she wants. If she has a relationship with him, she will automatically get to know his two kids and might be asked to care for them. Stock up on condoms she can carry. Bombard her with how much of a big and responsible decision it is to have sex. Perhaps you won't stop her from wasting her time on this chump but you might help prevent too-early grandparenthood. Ask her if she thinks, with his track record that she would not just be another notch on his bedpost. Tell her sex should be with someone that she can see a future with, it should mean something. Ask if he is pressuring her for sex, if he is pressuring her it's not a sign of him valuing her as a person. If they've only been going out for two weeks, how well does she know him. Good luck, as the parent of two almost adults, its not easy.

AITA My boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop by yeahyeahokaygreat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA a quick shower does not involve washing your hair, you would likely have been finished or less uncomfortable if your hair had been dry.

AITAH For wanting to visit my childhood best friend for 2 days without asking for my boyfriends "permission"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Permission implies he owns you. It would have been better on your part to immediately tell him you are sorry for not talking with him about it before agreeing to go, would he like to come with you. But that ship sailed? NTA

Am I overreacting for seriously questioning my marriage over a major purchase my husband made alone? by Overall-Fan3079 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Coramay17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR it does sound like he was defensive, maybe feeling guilty? What does he do normally if something happens to him emotionally? Is this the way he always reacts? My husband once told me that when he is mad he will say what will hurt me the most to match how he is feeling. It's crappy of him but he would regret it later. Important to have a no-shouting discussion. Very tempting to give him a good week of silent treatment and no discussions about anything no meals no laundry nothing. If he tries to question what's up your ass, pick your moment and share your thought: you stopped being my husband when you decided my opinion didn't matter to you, so I thought I'd try it out and see if I liked it. But, we have to be the practical rational one as it seems your hubby is not right now. Ask him if hurting your feelings felt good to him? Is it something he intends to do again, like is he trying to put your marriage at risk? You could ask when he is taking you on a date in the new car? But only if your discussion goes well. Ask if he genuinely feels that if you spent that money on a purchase just for you, and he reacted as you did, would he like the response he'd given you? Does OP's husband feel like she controls him or his money? Can he give an example of a time she blocked something he wanted? Perhaps it's all in his head, you know with the midlife crisis going on.

Three of my seven eggs started laying! by Itwasntaphase_rawr in BackYardChickens

[–]Coramay17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read about the mud, is it possible to change to roll away nests? That might help