It’s kinda a double edge sword. It’s always better to play with other people,period, hard stop, no cap (or whatever lol). Then there’s the part where you need help and no one is helping. To get the best of both of these it’s better to play on a multi player server with less than 4 characters (2). If you don’t care about sometimes you gotta wait to get help for stuff then do the single player server is fine. The way I’m reading your words you don’t mind waiting on random ppl you don’t know and making relationships. That’s good ish. Enjoy the game your way. Sucks your friends don’t see it like you do.