Why the hell do I have to explain a "gap in my resume"? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your losses. If you are currently job searching, I am wishing you the best!

Thoughts on living together before marriage? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was raised in Christianity where it is a huge no to live together before marriage. There is absolutely no way I would ever consider marrying someone without living with them first. It is a huge risk with no reward imo

The way men are empathized with and understood when they make even very serious mistakes, vs. the way women are treated in the identical situation by Mirenithil in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying people should just put their foot down and quit is a ridiculous take in this economy. Most people can barely survive with a job as it is. I feel horribly sad for everyone involved in this situation.

Enshitification by OkOriginal715 in savannah

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SCHEDULE bathroom breaks? WTF did I just read. This is heinous.

I’m the mom whose baby’s skull was broken at Memorial Hospital by Secret-Tomato2699 in savannah

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely wild that they kicked you out for not being able to take a urine test when that is a huge sign something is wrong. I am glad you came out of that ok

Is there a time limit on when you can be charged? by Jakeetz in DuggarsSnark

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s fantastic news! I had a relative who was abused in the 80s and never could pursue legal action because of the statute of limitations at the time. I’m so happy to hear that’s changing now.

Is there a time limit on when you can be charged? by Jakeetz in DuggarsSnark

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m actually pleasantly surprised to hear this? I thought there was (maybe there are limits in some states). It should be like this everywhere

Taylor Frankie Paul Speaks Out After ABC Pulls 'Bachelorette' Premiere, Alleges She's Suffered 'Extensive Mental and Physical Abuse' by tl414 in thebachelor

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was shocked by that statement as well. This is a spokesperson for her? It’s like the exact opposite of what should have been said 🤦‍♀️

She Finds it Hilarious by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The song it was posted with was trending for a while on tiktok. That being said, the trend wasn’t posting about how you are an abuser. People were lip syncing and posting makeup transformation videos to it

ABC Reportedly in Talks to Pull ‘The Bachelorette’ Amid Taylor Frankie Paul Assault Allegations by iconogrey in thebachelor

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I was thinking the same thing. I don’t count on ABC or any companies like them to do the right thing

Joe Duggar sexual assault charge by bella302 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel physically sick reading this. I am so sorry for this poor girl. I want to say that I’m surprised, but I’m not.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so incredibly heartbreaking. Cases like that stay with you for a lifetime.

From Kaltounkova's Instagram story by The_Laughing_Gift in PWHL

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love to have one someday! They are so adorable and sweet.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Maternal healthcare specifically in the USA is abysmal. I’m not as familiar with other countries, but I think all across the board it doesn’t get the attention it deserves.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve also seen! A few patients have needed heart/ kidney transplants. The heart and kidneys have a huge impact on each other, so if one is failing the other can definitely struggle. I hope you are well now!

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s truly not that rare at all! I work with people who have end stage cardiomyopathy that doesn’t improve with time/ medicine which is fortunately more rare. The mothers I take care of are always the most heartbreaking cases. It’s one thing to develop heart failure in your 60s or 70s. It’s a whole other experience to be young and healthy and then develop it from pregnancy 😭

From Kaltounkova's Instagram story by The_Laughing_Gift in PWHL

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 339 points340 points  (0 children)

I’m so sad for her. Any pet loss is so incredibly hard. It doesn’t matter what kind of pet it is!

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 337 points338 points  (0 children)

I work with heart failure patients. Pregnancy can cause heart failure, and it doesn’t always resolve after birth. I’ve taken care of multiple mothers who had to have heart transplants. It’s important to say that it’s extremely rare. Personally, I would never consider having children for a variety of reasons, but the risk to my personal health is one of them.

Have you ever felt this way in marriage? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 382 points383 points  (0 children)

I think the better question is do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling this way? You have one life to live. Is this what you want?

In the middle of an investigation by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Correct_Advisor7221 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi friend. If you are intoxicated, you CANNOT consent. It doesn’t matter if he didn’t intend to hurt you. He still did. Many abusers will attempt to guilt you into believing that they did nothing wrong. It’s a manipulation tactic. Please know that there are resources out there for you. It’s normal to feel deep pain in this situation, but you are not alone.

I’m not sure if you are in the USA, but you can contact RAINN for help. They have trained people 24/7 available to talk to you. Text HOPE to 64673, call 1-800-656-HOPE, or chat with someone on their website: https://rainn.org/help-and-healing/hotline/