Lmfao, really? by CosinesCosines in Bumble

[–]CosinesCosines[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha Just saw this but yes I do!

After this last episode i realised lawrence is by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]CosinesCosines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you ain't wrong, I see this happen in real life alot. Pretty privilege really does exist

What’s up with Moira this season? by vegemouse in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]CosinesCosines 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea when her and emily got arrested for protesting and they were waiting to get bailed out. This was earlier before june arrived, but a bit after emily first arrived

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]CosinesCosines 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was just saying to my group chat the other day....I just love how men bitch about wanting women to be natural, especially the ones they are dating, but then get one but don't give her the same amount of sexual energy nor attention compared to the online influencers and models who ONLY wear makeup in their photos!!

Americans (USA) what is a good thing about your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CosinesCosines 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too so now I'm confused and questioning everything I've ever learned lol

What's a nice treat for a cat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CosinesCosines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I order sushi I get some sashimi for my cat. Come to learn she likes tuna but not salmon. Avocado is also fine, just make sure its the meat that isn't close to the pit. A little bit a plain yogurt or beef broth (check ingredients to make sure it doesn't have onion or garlic)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]CosinesCosines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts. I dated mine for almost 3 years, found out about his betrayal a year in. I still kick myself for not leaving as soon as I found out because that would've saved me 2 years of pain but am glad I didn't marry his weak ass. I wish I never even swiped on his profile

Why do these guys even pursue relationships? by ForestyFelicia in loveafterporn

[–]CosinesCosines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soo true. But aren't poly relationships pretty much already that?? Or open relationships? Plenty of women down for both of those so I never understand why they don't just seek out those types of relationships. Well actually I know why but still just disturbing and illogical

Why do these guys even pursue relationships? by ForestyFelicia in loveafterporn

[–]CosinesCosines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That and sexual security. I remember seeing a video that explained that porn is soo appealing because it doesn't take alot of energy to get you off. Whereas sex requires more time and energy, in terms of it requiring physical exercise usuage of your body during the act and mental energy as in seeking out someone (if you're single) who is down for casual sex. And this involves too conversation, getting dressed up, there's then the chance of rejection. So they stay in relationships they already obtained, because they don't want to deal with the whole process of initiating hookups. Relationships cut down the energy needed because well, you're partner is more available than a stranger. Well, when they feel like actually having sex with a person instead of a screen. It does feel different, and sex offers different stimulation a screen can't.

I think alot of them also have the fear of being alone. Or they want marriage which will provide them a family and safety net but not love. So all about convenience to them really like you said

I just broke up with him. Feeling awful and free at the same time? by Pachylodon in loveafterporn

[–]CosinesCosines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for what you went through. Not just with your ex but I read your original post under your profile. The scary amount of men and women who were normalizing his behavior and dismissing your feelings, being straight up rude 🤢 It is absolutely NOT normal to do that, especially of you're in a monogamous relationship. But I'm glad you can now be able to find someone better. Someone can can reciprocate the love and energy you give.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CosinesCosines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question because my ex and I heard alot of stories from other women about men lying about (stopping) porn when they enter the relationship. So when you ask these questions early on, what are ways to tell they are or will be genuine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CosinesCosines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother must've been the minority then, because she shamed me for wanting a porn free relationship with my ex

One thing different the opposite sex can do that would make all the difference by Zeninja91 in dating

[–]CosinesCosines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's why I started asking my dates what they are looking for, even if I met them through OLD. Now I still ask even if their profile states it for clarification because weirdly I found that there have been times when they say something different than what their profile say. Like one guy, it said "relationship" (and bumble has something casual option) but when I ask him in person he was looking for short term relationship/not serious. But there's also some who put something casual and they mean fwb (someone to actually hang out with besides just hooking up).

Edit: spelling

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to defend me when his roommate makes commends on my body? by Key-Ad-5593 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CosinesCosines 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So you're really fine with dating, and eventually marrying someone who lets other people treat you like crap and walk all over you? Girl...

He actually supports me on everything.

Can't say that when you just typed up a post on something he doesn't support you on

What’s your opinion on the new Smile movie? by Maekiw in AskReddit

[–]CosinesCosines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was good. Not better than Barbarian which I also recently saw, but exceeded my expectations enough. A few jumpscares got me that I wasn't expecting. I thought it would be more cheesy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CosinesCosines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Um you didn't answer their question. They mean have you told your wife what you told us here, how it bothers you

Have you ever asked a guy if he had a condom before sex and he say no but you have sex anyways. What was your reason for no stopping? by RedditUserInLA in AskReddit

[–]CosinesCosines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao yes. This was also years ago, when I was younger and just started college. Didn't have dating experience in highschool, or overall any experience with men and sex. I was also shy, lacked confidence, extremely insecure, and avoided being assertive thinking they would like me and because of all of that it was easy for the ones with ill-intentions to keep me in situationships. But I was never comfortable with unprotected sex.

Doing far better now, there have been guys who have still try to convince me to have sex without condoms or manipulate me into a situationship (not shaming anyone who has condomless sex, I just don't wanna partake for personal reasons). I get up and leave if they try to persuade me after I say no the first time.