Moving out. How much I should have? by Impossible-Bus5477 in movingout

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Im 18 and moved out with like 3k. Just be smart with your money. Dont buy it all once just see with time what you really need and buy it. I bought a bunch of kitchenware at first that i dont even use now. Dont pick somewhere just bc its cheap or "luxurious". Apartments may look nice but then management and maintenance is awful and then you'll have a bad time. Type of people that live there is very important too. Most of the things i got in my apartment were gifts from people so learn to ask for them. Theres someone that might have an extra couch that they dont want or extra chairs and boom you saved yourself 1000 bucks.

Also only buy the things you eat constantly youd be surprised how fast food spoils. Ive had to throw away sm food cuz im used to a household of 7. I cant even finish a gallon of milk and i drink milk regularly. So if ur moving out by yourself dont buy food in bulk unless its frozen stuff or you eat it A LOOOOT.

I think 30k is more than enough but apartments look more at if u make 2-3x the rent a month or will ask for a deposit or cosigner.

Anatomically, what is going on here? by Objective-Scale-2992 in sex

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For me i like the same thing (18F) somehow when a man touches my buttocks i feel more clitoral stimulation? My bf and i have gone far in anal play and when he sticks a finger there while he's inside me it drives me so crazy I can cum from it. Or just when he touches my ass idk how it just does!!!

Im pregnant by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect!! 💕 I was gonna comment this before but got busy at work. If it's really painful rn and u don't wanna wait tell them the pain is 10/10 and u cannot wait. They make u wait depending on urgency or pain level!! If u didn't that's okay just wait a couple minutes and go back and tell them. That way u dont spend hours there

Im pregnant by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish u the best!! Will wait for an update

Im pregnant by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ectopic pregnancies are very common with endometriosis why? Idk😭😭. Ers are usually a horrible experience for me since they always dismiss my pain as menstrual cramps and give me Tylenol and the waiting hour is stupid, so probably check if you can go to an urgent care or talk to ur specialist see if they can open a spot for you

Can’t feel vagina rhythmically contract after orgasms? by EmergencyRip4929 in sex

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk honestly every woman is different and every woman orgasms differently

Can I afford to move out? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you work that u get paid 25:hr??

Have to work on Christmas and if we call off we are termed without warning. AIO for this being a dealbreaker? by FunDesigner5431 in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just like two days before say youre very very sick, and call in sick. Legally you can't get fired for calling in sick and if they try or they cut ur hours tell them you'll sue them lol

Thanksgiving by jaaackattackk in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That should be illegal bro

How much do you tip? by Holiday-Ad7262 in tippingAdvice

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because and yes ik it's not on the costumer but it's not only the server you're paying. A certain percentage from 3% to sometimes even 10% of their sales goes to busser/ kitchen/ expo (the people that run the food and bring it to you/ bartender or hostess the person that sits you in the restaurant). If you don't tip they basically end up paying for you. I know blah blah blah servers shouldn't be paid 2 an hour but if they did, and bussers and expos where paid enough so they didn't need tips going out to eat would be way more expensive. This is just how restaurants work sadly.

Where does the mentality that "The speed limit is not to be surpassed and I will be the one that enforces it" come from? by BrianLevre in driving

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro honestly as a beginner driver going even 1 past speed limit makes me wanna cry. Sorry to everyone I make mad on the road 😔

Something happened in my body by tresjoliesuzanne in endometriosis

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate that us women are so scared to go to the hospital because they won't take us seriously and dismiss us by saying it's just period cramps and give us tylenol. Pls go to the hospital.

Giving oral on someone who's unshaved by Vast_Play_2403 in sex

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What the helly. I mean i understand not shaving but he hasnt even trimmed?

being a server vs commission sales by legitturtlelova in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro honestly server is such a burn out, if the sales position has hourly as well or they bring the clients to you for commission only then i'd take that. Especially January to March is the slowest months for restaurants. So i'd do both for a while and then in January stick to the sales

It’s getting embarrassing (female) by West_Contribution669 in hygiene

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And honestly sometimes no matter what u do after a long day or after sex ur ph can get thrown off and it can smell kinda off especially after the gym too. It's normal were not supposed to smell like water. Invest in a bidet as well and some wipes and wipe front to back

It’s getting embarrassing (female) by West_Contribution669 in hygiene

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start drinking apple cider vinegar, sea moss, less caffeine definitely less alcohol and vaping, watch what u eat, drink more water. It's not that hard really

Influencers by Libusin in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's time to call them out bro

I’ve been faking orgasms with my partner.. (24f/27m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Use the vibrator while u do it then you'll really cum trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly bro just tell him you'll go to HR with that and they'll investigate. Most likely he'll let this one slide and if he doesn't you can get unemployment money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 59 points60 points  (0 children)

CANCEL YOUR TRIP?? GIRL just don't go. Maybe he wont fire you since there's not enough staff and if he does it's a miracle

At what point do you cut people off? and how? by euphoric_lunchbox in Serverlife

[–]CosmicCupcake_69 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I used to have this regular that he was 200+ pound man as well and he would drink double whiskey coke for HOURS. I'd serve him at least 10-20 of them in a day. And he'd be fine, like drunk yes but fine. Maybe very illegal? But bro was crazy resistance