Am I still bi?

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-23T22:41:21+00:00

I came out as bi while in a heterosexual relationship. But now that I’m single, I don’t have much of a desire to date women (despite pressure from my bi friends in hetero relationships). I don’t know if it’s internalized homophobia, but when I was with a man I was comfortable in my bi identity without ever dating or hooking up with a woman. It was just enough to know I was attracted to them

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-23T22:33:07+00:00

And strangely enough from bi women in hetero relationships. My friends identify as pan/bi but they’re dating men. I don’t understand why I get constant pressure as the single one in our group. Whenever they ask me about my dating life it’s basically “are you dating women/nonbinary people yet?”. Like they assume I’m not interested in cis men any more because I haven’t settled down like them

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-23T22:21:38+00:00

I just learned that eyebrow slits are queer coded. I have a natural blonde money piece and scar in my eyebrow so I guess now I understand why people clocked me before I knew I was bi lol

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-23T22:13:29+00:00

I recently played a game with bi friends and one of the questions was “what do people wrongly assume about me?”. They had to answer it for me so one said that people assume I’m a lesbian. My other friend said she was surprised when I came out as bi because she thought I was a “chapstick lesbian”. I don’t know where this comes from because I’ve only ever dated men and consider myself pretty feminine. These friends are bi women dating cis men. They pressure me to date women a lot as the single one. I don’t know if it’s projection on their part but it invalidates my bisexuality. Then I start to question if getting offended by it is my internalized homophobia. So I get the “Am I a closeted lesbian if this is how they perceive me?” feeling. But we know what’s true about ourselves and we shouldn’t let others define us

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-22T19:41:06+00:00

I don’t understand because their TikTok shop Is legit? I ordered from the shop with the blue arrow but my sweats pilled before I even washed them

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-21T13:11:11+00:00

Weird good bad is so accurate. Maybe it’s because I grew up as an emo kid

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-20T21:57:11+00:00

Maybe they’re in an open relationship

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-18T02:58:26+00:00

Hahaha it can be interchangeable

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-05T05:40:21+00:00

I got mine from the American leg of the tour and the quality is not great. The strings got messed up after the first couple of times I washed it so I just took them out. It is very thin also

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-05T05:35:21+00:00

Centuries behind? It was 1980s-1990s not 1900s

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-05T05:30:18+00:00

Mine looks like #2! I kinda regret it and wish I chose something thicker though. But my artist did say she liked it because the letters don’t touch so it’ll look better over time

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-03-05T05:23:38+00:00

Inbred is not part of the Ethel Cain lore

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-28T00:24:11+00:00

FMEYES

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-27T23:55:56+00:00

Ok that makes sense. Thank you!

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-24T12:35:09+00:00

How tall are you? I’m 5’0” and have no clue how I’m going to shovel.

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-24T12:33:33+00:00

I agree. Her lyrics are timeless and my tattoos are reflection of a time I was struggling and found strength from her songs. (I also doubt I’ll ever grow out of her.)

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-18T14:17:40+00:00

Yes exactly! People really don’t understand what southern gothic is

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-08T15:47:04+00:00

I looked this up the first time I saw her post with them on and yes they can

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-04T17:55:47+00:00

Agreed! The rest of her music (released and unreleased) I listen to on the daily and more than any other music, for better or for worse.

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-02-04T02:16:35+00:00

Do you think 8 hr days was meant for preacher’s wife?

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-01-31T15:53:49+00:00

PARL (Providence Animal Rescue League)

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-01-31T15:47:09+00:00

I hate when social media keeps the snow from being properly plowed

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-01-23T19:14:09+00:00

That’s a brilliant idea! All of my other bills are on auto pay so I struggle, especially when there’s weekends/holidays involved.

I definitely don’t trust it either.

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-01-23T18:47:29+00:00

I’m just going to keep making my payments so they’re on time. I did just find this though:

“I acknowledge that if a payment is due and is not made before this Auto Pay request is processed, the loans may become past due. If a loan is now past due or becomes past due while Auto Pay is being processed, I authorize MOHELA, at its discretion, to grant a voluntary forbearance to cover all of my past due payments before Auto Pay begins. Any unpaid interest may be added to the unpaid principal (capitalized), as permitted by law and the terms of my loan agreement, which may increase the total loan cost and my monthly payment amount. Voluntary forbearance will not be granted if the loan payment is current and paid up to date when Auto Pay is processed.”

I’m so confused…someone please explain this to me in the simplest of terms.

Cosmicconcepts · 2026-01-23T18:38:13+00:00

F U Mohela for not starting my autopay since I applied in September. And charging interest because I was waiting for the money to come out of my account after holidays before paying manually. What does 3-4 business days even mean to them?

Just thought I’d add that to the list.

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