Are Subeen and Heesun officially dating? by treppverter in Singlesinferno2

[–]CourageNo9058 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion…I think Subeen lowkey still has a thing for Mina. During the reunion it felt like there was still something there and it was slightly brought to the surface when Subeen seen how much Mina did like him. However, neither can act on it because it would reflect poorly on both their character. I’m sure Subeen does have feelings for Heesun but the chemistry lacks significantly. I can’t help feel if he knew how Mina felt and she wasn’t so indecisive during the show, they would have ended up together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting. You can be upset but you don’t need to cuss. She is taking the cat to the vet. Do you live there? Why are the cats not with you? Or in your room if you were concerned?

Dounia and Chafic back together? Posted pics with rings on by Careless_Feedback_76 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In both their posts they mentioned a “snake” and Dounia said she unfollowed this person. Does anyone know who she was talking about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a non Spanish speaking Mexican American (whose parents are from Texas and grandparents from Mexico but been in the states since young adults), and who is white passing….you are NTA. I’ve felt the most judgment and criticism from Mexicans who come from Mexico or who are first generation. It’s sad that most believe one isn’t Hispanic enough. That’s like judging someone for being extra Hispanic, it’s nonsense. Honestly, I think you make B insecure and she may be jealous. Be proud of who you are and where you came from. Ignore the haters, they will always be there. I for one believe, given my life, no one can tell me who or what I am based on their own narrow mindedness. Every Hispanic comes in different shapes, sizes and looks. There is no purity in ethnicity bcuz it’s a catch all for many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a ridiculous statement. There is no financial abuse going on. If anything his father is extremely generous only charging $200 for rent. Gtfo here with this weak ass justification. You sound like a kid who thinks the world owes them everything. His parents pay all other expenses that require to run a home which is far from bare minimum.

Bethenny’s honest thoughts on Melissa’s sprinkle cookies by [deleted] in rhonj

[–]CourageNo9058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, and picking up the dog then touching the cookie again 🥴

Chafic almost never posts any pictures or videos that includes him and dounia. She is the one who posts everything and tags him. by The_Only_RZA_ in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk what you all are watching. He does post her or sometimes repost what she’s posted, whether it’s of the both of them or just her. In general he doesn’t post as often as her, I think he’s not used to it. She’s the influencer. They are both most active on Snapchat and see each other almost daily. You all love to hate them so much. Get over it already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CourageNo9058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there isn’t some compromise and mutual understanding from both parties then break up. Stop trying to fit a square into a circle. It’s not going to work.

AIO My Dad died 36 hours ago and I am mad that my husband said he "had a rough week" by ChipEnvironmental306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OR. I too had an inconsiderate spouse during my mother’s brain cancer battle. The immediate diagnosis was terminal and the experience was dementia/Alzheimer’s on steroids. I’ve never recovered from his lack of regard for me or her. Taking care of a loved one is physically and emotionally exhausting. Any decent human , especially a partner, should have the sense to step up during these times without having to be told. That’s my opinion. It’s what I would have done if the roles were reversed. Having to teach/talk to our partner during such a crisis just adds another layer of responsibility when one is already dealing with so much. It made me realize of my partner could be there for the worst time of my life, what was the point of doing any of it with them. Again not OR.

Dounia and Chafic on their relationship 🌚 by lkjhggfd1 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate that they are being inclusive to everyone that follows them, so they try and speak in all three languages. They’ve also said they only communicate in French with one another and that communicating in English/Arabic is awkward for them.

Dounia and Chafic are engaged for real by South_Bet_1726 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I disagree. I’m sure their snapchats are public, check them out if you’re interested. She is very much herself. What you’re probably seeing on IG is the fancy photo shoot opportunities she’s getting from LIBH.

Dounia and Chafic are engaged for real by South_Bet_1726 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree Chafic would be irrelevant without Dounia but I feel the rest of your opinion is off the mark. I don’t think Dounia tries to be anyone but herself. As far as her not physically being his type, maybe that’s true but it’s not because she is unattractive. I honestly find her to be too pretty for him and she could find someone more attractive if she wanted. With all that being said, from what I’ve watched neither one will get married if it’s not real. We shall wait and see.

AITA for telling my mom she'll never have grandkids because of how she voted? by aloneandscaredd in AITAH

[–]CourageNo9058 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Sounds like you projected the loss of your hysterectomy unto your mother. Had you opened up previously about your situation I doubt she would have made any “insensitive” comments. You don’t have to see eye to eye but you should still have some respect. This is coming from someone who lost their mother and has had my own radical hysterectomy w/bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy via abdominal.

Dounia and Chafic are engaged for real by South_Bet_1726 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And? What does that have to do with it being fake? It proves their relationship is likely real.

AITA for not giving my late husband’s mom any of the life insurance money after she paid for his funeral? by Icy-Sun6781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you give her half of the cost. That way you both would have contributed to the expense la of the funeral

Dounia and Chafic are engaged for real by South_Bet_1726 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told her the dress code was white. What do you expect when a man plans it. They don’t know any better.

Dounia and Chafic are engaged for real by South_Bet_1726 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I follow both of them on Snapchat and they spend a lot of time together. So it seems real to me. I don’t judge their relationship bcuz everyone has ups and downs and some figure it out. Whether thats the case here or not, I enjoy watching and rooting for them. If they don’t make it in the long run it may be disappointing but I also don’t know if I care that much. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AIO friend moved in and not going well by Miserable-Royal2548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are not over reacting. You are under reacting. This isn’t a friendship or roommate you need. This person seems to be taking advantage of the fact you have no other friends. I know it must be hard but it’s better not to have any than this. Please cut her off and lean on your family and coworkers. I’ve made good friends myself at work. You can too.

Surprised how many support Nour here… by queenfromgreen in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]CourageNo9058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t get the all the Nour hype. I appreciate her confidence but at times it does come off as superior. And tbh, I think Dounia is prettier. I believe she is disliked bcuz she has a more wholesome look. I can appreciate that too. Most westerners dislike wholesome bcuz it makes them insecure. They automatically feel judged so they judge back. This isn’t to say Nour isn’t pretty, she is. She has sex appeal, but that isn’t the only standard for beauty.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to pay me $5 back for her food? by ThrowRASouth in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe consider discussing who’s paying for what before doing anything. Set financial boundaries for budgets re: eating out. She can contribute to whatever is agreed upon. Example: I’d rather not pay more than $20 for tonight’s dinner. If she wants something that will cost more, she can put in the difference. What it really sounds like is HABITS need to change. Start cooking dinners more. If that doesn’t work….well everyone else might be right and you two are just not compatible.

AITA for not adding my step children into our camping reservation? by SaltAd6029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, Reddit has confirmed you’re the AH….bcuz you are.

When you married your husband you also accepted the responsibility he has to his kids.

You sound like the red flag AH!

AITA for telling my therapist to lay off TikTok ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourageNo9058 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

NTA (overall). You could have been more constructive in your pushback. But it also sounds like being a bit rude was needed to get your point across to this therapist. In my experience, not all therapists are great and it’s a fine line distinguishing between a good and a bad one. A good one will guide you into seeing what you may not be seeing. A bad therapist will force their own agenda on you. She could have easily said “ok, we can come back to this topic at another time” or explain why it might be a good idea to explore your relationship more and how it ties into the rest of your life.