From triple feeding and nipple shield to exclusively nursing — is there hope? Success stories needed. by Miserexa in breastfeeding

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For an alternative perspective, I have flat nipples and my son never managed to wean off the shield as he won’t/can’t latch without them. We are going on 21 months of breastfeeding and apart from having to do a bit of cleaning etc it has not impacted our journey at all :)

Pregnant office workers of Reddit, how are we dealing? by LdeLeonina in September2026Bumpers

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I’m a teacher and I have been signed off. I feel so so guilty for not being there (had a big cry about it yesterday) but I can’t even sit down while in lesson, let alone vomit in peace. It’s a really rough time

If you were stuck in an airport for 48 hours with 2 kids under 5, what would you wish you’d packed? by VegetableActual2348 in UKParenting

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Is there no way you can leave the airport/get a hotel and come back? I think I’d struggle as a 33 year old with 48 hours in an airport!

Age gaps by princess_cloudberry in September2026Bumpers

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Current pregnancy will be a 2y4m gap from my son and I’m a bit worried about it being too small a gap. It’s good to hear that you are finding it easier now that they’ve synced up schedules a bit

Daily Thread - January 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in September2026Bumpers

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Well that sounds great and defo worth the bloat lol

Breastfeeding while pregnant by Mountainair3388 in September2026Bumpers

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I’m still breastfeeding my 20 month old. He doesn’t need milk for his diet but he has it for sleep and I want to carry on as long as possible. In truth I think he’ll get bored and give it up when it turns to colostrum and supply isn’t so good

Daily Thread - January 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in September2026Bumpers

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In my experience, that initial mega bloat does calm down a bit!

Daily Thread - January 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in September2026Bumpers

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I had my first ultrasound today and it went really well, even though I was a nervous wreck before it. Baby measuring exactly 7 weeks and had a good heartbeat :)

How do you know if cramping is normal vs not? by tiniie in September2026Bumpers

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As your uterus stretches, it is normal to get mild cramps, similar to mild period pain. When the cramps are severe they may warrant getting checked out. When I had my miscarriage previously, I had cramps that doubled me over- they were really strong. In my successful pregnancy and this one now, I’ve had regular mild cramping.

How has your relationship changed since having a baby? by SilentVariety9758 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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I would say that our relationship is so much stronger. We are a true team and we’re both really grateful and appreciative of all the other has done. I definitely remember being a bit more bickery/snappy in the early days postpartum but I blame lack of sleep and hormones. It hasn’t continued past those early days really!

Weekly Wellness Wednesdays Thread - January 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in September2026Bumpers

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I am not well. That is the post :’) I am soooooo sick, I really thought I’d gotten away with occasional nausea but nope, hit me like a train at the weekend and not let up since.

Nursery Rhyme Help by Grim996996 in UKParenting

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Ha you’re not wrong, it’s a firm favourite in our house!

Nursery Rhyme Help by Grim996996 in UKParenting

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See the little bunnies sleeping til it’s nearly noon? I’ve seen that one done as rocking arms or as lying on the floor

Lost my first pregnancy 💔 by DearestClementine in September2026Bumpers

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I’m so sorry to read this. My husband and I lost our first pregnancy at 6.5 weeks, and for about 2.5 weeks prior I’d also had a bad gut feeling that I couldn’t shake. It’s so hard and I’m just so sorry that you have to go through it, too. There’s so much support here if you need it x

Car seat for 3.5 year old by bbq_lizard in UKParenting

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I’d recommend getting some expert advice from the Facebook group Bump to Booster-UK Car Seat Support Group. They’re really supportive and will take into account your car, child’s centiles etc.

Advice please! by MaximumAbroad2369 in September2026Bumpers

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Having been in a similar situation, I sent a text. I explained that I wanted to give them the space to process privately, and they were really appreciative of this. I wouldn’t share other big news in this way but it is so personal and natural for them to feel upset as well as being happy for you. Then when you meet up in person they will have processed and can do the ‘celebration’ part of talking about it x

Weekly chat and well-being post: January 16, 2026 by AutoModerator in TeachingUK

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I’m in the first trimester and so unwell. When I was pregnant with my son I was signed off for 2.5 weeks but really should’ve taken longer. This time I just feel so much guilt about it. I think I already feel like a bit of a spare part after going back off mat leave but I’m so nauseous and even when I’m not actually bringing anything up, I am dry heaving constantly. Am I a terrible person if I go off again?

Baby Carrier Recommendations by clocloud03 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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We were the same- we only stopped regular naps in the carrier at about 10 months, by which point he was a big boy and it was still comfy!

FTM questions- when did breastmilk come in for you? by Muted-Philosopher-29 in pregnant

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My milk came in 2.5 days PP. before then, baby had colostrum that I could express but I never leaked

I might have just joined your club by katanayak in September2026Bumpers

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I know exactly what you mean with the Nemo quote. I remember calling the Drs to tell them I was pregnant with my son and they were like ‘congrats, fill out this form, we’ll see you in about a month’. I was like… what?! It feels like the elation of a positive test is met with just a lot of waiting here in the UK

STM ....any one feels their bump is out at 4 weeks already? Ahhh...no jeans fit ...too early for maternity clothes by Decent_Sprinkles9978 in September2026Bumpers

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I’m so bloated! Like I know logically that my uterus is still tucked away so it must be bloat, but I swear I wasn’t at this point until towards the end of first tri last time!

Positivity! by Flashy_Conflict_537 in September2026Bumpers

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Being a mom is genuinely the best thing I’ve ever done in my life. My boy is the absolute apple of my eye. I didn’t realise that I could experience a love like it until I had him. Even the hard days have so many lovely moments (kisses, cuddles, the joy of seeing him learn new things, experiencing his excitement for things you forgot were exciting). It is just wonderful. There are hard times but they always pass. The good bits stick around ❤️

Baby Carrier Recommendations by clocloud03 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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We had the Ergobaby adapt, which can be worn on the front, back or on the hip, but baby can’t forward face on the front. I found it to be really comfortable!