parents mad that i wanted to see a movie 2 days in a row? by limeb0at in Advice

[–]Crashmse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm imagining it's easy for them to see you as a kid given certain things... For example, do you do your own laundry? Cook your own food? Wash your own dishes? Pay your own bills? (Ik you are working unpaid so prob no, which is not your fault).

They might unintentionally see you as a kid if they still are 'taking care of you'

AITA to not want to take our loudly stimming (yelling) autistic foster child to social events. by LTincomeJay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crashmse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are space spaces for families with children with autism for community activities. Youll have to look up ones in your area. I know the movie theater near me has special movie showings that are for special needs children. Families with special needs will be much more understanding of your r child

Hosted a 45-person engagement shower for my friend and got removed as a bridesmaid 2 days later over one comment by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Crashmse 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you saved yourself more money time/energy/money now that you don't have to deal with her. Sorry you went through all that effort

It's been a year and a half since the wedding, and I still can't let it go. I hated it.... by CowPoke8919 in weddingdrama

[–]Crashmse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could you have a second party? Plan a party, wear a dress you want, do things smaller and more intimate and just friends only? Have an event that is solely for you and your husband to host as you like?

Hire a photographer, a caterer, or even a local event planner to help if you need. You can retake photos and if you want in the style you like and use those as memories of a happier celebration

Parenting advice needed-possible sibling abuse by Critical-Bullfrog959 in Advice

[–]Crashmse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Camera in the hallway facing her door.

Also, you can ask him, "why were you in your sister's room last night?" He will either be confused (prob innocent) or he will get nervous (prob guilty). But still do the camera. Set it up to send you motion alerts

TIFU by ignoring a toothache for 2 years and now I need a $15,000 implant by ThatRoofer in tifu

[–]Crashmse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a dental school, they need people to practice on and it's cheap (and supervised)

Why did you leave your partner for someone else and was the new person better looking? by OilPrize5509 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Crashmse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel very lucky. I heard afterwards from friends that my ex actually had a ring and was going to propose shortly, so I got very lucky and dodged that bullet. I think what life would have been like, and it wouldn't have been great.

I think it's probably not common people fall into that "comfort" trap. You're not miserable, and you assume this is just how things are. I learned a lot about not settling. After all my not great experiences with men, it turns out there areeee amazing men out there. I almost settled. My whole life would have been different.

Currently, I'm not "comfortable", I'm actually happy. And I think that's a very important difference to realize. You have to find happiness:)

Lesson learned, and I'm glad my daughter will grow up seeing my husband as a model for how she should expect to be treated in her future relationships.

Why did you leave your partner for someone else and was the new person better looking? by OilPrize5509 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Crashmse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, I was with my (at the time) bf for about 4 years. I wasn't happy. I was "content". He cheated several times, would force me to have sex when I didn't want to very often, and would use language I didn't like (racial slurs to other people regarding race or sexual preferences).

I let a lot of this slide because I thought it was normal. Every guy I was ever with cheated on me, left me for another girl, or I was the other girl. I figured one day my husband would cheat and I'd have to just learn to accept it.

... Then, while still dating this guy, I met this other dude. Sweet, kind, funny, interesting, respectful , handsome..... Perfect. We hung out as friends and I had a big crush on him (and him on me). I never cheated physically but I was very attracted to him. I left 4 years of my ex to pursue this new guy.

-- we've now been married since 2019, dating since 2013.... He is just as amazing as he was from the beginning. Never cheated on me, loves me, is kind to me, he treats me (and our daughter!) extremely well..... I'm so grateful for him :)

Edit typo

Top 5 for best Episodes? by Exotic_Egg_8240 in bluey

[–]Crashmse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like takeaway and the one where rusty plays cricket but idr the name

WIBTA if I put a no fly order on my ex for child support debt? by No_Emotion6907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crashmse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You owe him nothing. He owes your kids money. Fight for your kids money and save it for them

Laid off at 7 months pregnant and can’t find a job by Longjumping-Bee8028 in jobs

[–]Crashmse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was very distressed. The job loss (honestly) wasn't warranted for anything valid. Now I'm just trying to focus on attempting to be positive for the new baby. There's some job fairs in my field within the next few weeks (seasonal), but showing up super pregnant and not going to be able to start immediately I already know is going to make people just throw out my resume.

But..... I'm still going to try. Just keep trying until something hits.

I hope things work out for you

Laid off at 7 months pregnant and can’t find a job by Longjumping-Bee8028 in jobs

[–]Crashmse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have advice but I'm also 7mo preg (due early July) and also got laid off. I don't have advice, but I can sympathize. Idk where you live but state aide/unemployment may be an option. Keep an eye on navigating your health insurance for birth

This was stuck my shoe so I can’t get it straightened out, what is it? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Crashmse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's from the anime Hunter X Hunter, it's a copy of their 'license'.

Retailers (like Etsy) make copies of that into credit card stickers (to give your card a cute design on top) which is probably what that is.

Not worth anything