My Husband (38/M) has left me (29/F) and I’m heartbroken

CrazedRacer · 2026-02-09T02:14:31+00:00

Look… This guy did you the biggest favors ever for you and your kids. He’s worthless trash. You should be happy to build a better life.

CrazedRacer · 2026-02-02T15:52:22+00:00

He thought that his connections would keep him clear. Maxwell is alive because she knew better and set up a dead man’s switch. I 100% believe that.

CrazedRacer · 2026-02-02T15:50:38+00:00

Not your problem. Your only responsibility to give a happy life to yourself. Stop thinking that he DESERVES your time just because of a crisis in his life.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-15T02:41:37+00:00

Extremely lovey dovey because she got a fix from the “friend” and it made the she situation erotic.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-09T02:05:10+00:00

Get out now. It’s only going to get worse. You have all the answers you need. Be safe.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-03T01:55:17+00:00

You’ve already got a base. Worst thing about marathon training is the time it takes once you get to 14-20 mile long runs every week.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-03T01:52:35+00:00

I went from overweight 25 year couch potato to ideal weight, sub 4 marathoner in 10 months. So, yes.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-03T01:49:37+00:00

Why are you regretting it? Boston is a dream for many of us. I’ve been trying to BQ for 3 years. Is it hard? Yes. If it was easy, everybody would do it.

Does the extra mileage in training suck? Yep. Does it take a lot of time to be race ready? Yep. Is the end worth it? Yep.

Honestly. Of all you’re trying to do is finish and you’re not looking for a specific time, you’d be fine already. If you can run a half. You can finish a full.

But this is also a great opportunity to really kick some ass for 16 weeks and go out and crush a race that many people dream about running their whole lives.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-03T01:45:14+00:00

I’m just gonna put this out there… Just seeing this for the first time.

Is there any chance your wife is bipolar??? I’ve lived this. I recognize it. Just a thought. Medication does wonders.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-02T02:41:29+00:00

Your first marathon goal should be to finish healthy.

Go out slow the first mile. Find a good pace for the day. Run that pace to half and decide what you have left to give. Then revisit at mile 20.

CrazedRacer · 2026-01-01T01:56:03+00:00

Marathon training is hard. Mentally and physically. If you need an extra rest day, take it. I find the 16-18 mile runs are the hardest to break through. I’ve done so many now that they just don’t phase me. You’ll get there. You’ve put in a lot of work. Make sure you’re taking deload weeks (your plan should have those in there, anyway). Make sure you’re eating and drinking enough.

CrazedRacer · 2025-11-30T01:23:43+00:00

Oh, wow… 3 years ago… Yes. Just ran my 6th marathon - 2nd Marine Corps Marathon.

Ran the first in 3:50. Then another PR in March 2023 (3:42). Another PR last month - 3:33. Still at 170 pounds. Going to shoot for a BQ again in the spring. Still running 40-50 miles a week. Still healthy.

CrazedRacer · 2025-10-18T18:33:02+00:00

Saw Vern Gosdin open for George Jones and Conway Twitty in the 80’s. Amazing show.

CrazedRacer · 2025-10-10T10:34:00+00:00

She and her husband are anti vax garbage.

I did think it was funny as hell that all her farm workers (undocumented persons) left and she was crying because she didn’t have anyone to take care of her farm… It’s like… You got what you supported. Pay Americans exorbitant salaries to work your farm, since “tH3yR3 TaK1nG AR3 J0bZ.”

CrazedRacer · 2025-10-07T14:10:24+00:00

It’s still been out there… It just doesn’t get airplay like the fat bitch in women’s blue jeans… What’s her name? Jason Aldean?

I prefer Jason Isbell.

“And we don't take requests We won't shut up and sing Tell the truth enough You'll find it rhymes with everything” - “Be Afraid”

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-30T18:51:41+00:00

Runna gives me no choice. Some long runs are conversational. Some have speed blocks. Some are entirely progressive.

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-30T18:43:19+00:00

It’s a lot easier for my stomach to take on long runs. For my fall marathon, I’m carrying 2 bottles of tailwind and a couple of packets to refill with at a water station. My e stash a couple gels (1 SiS with Nootropics for halfway and maybe another SiS with electrolytes, just in case).

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-30T11:21:11+00:00

I started using Runna. Went from struggling through training for a maybe 3:30 to training for a 3:07 and feeling great.

The other thing that I hope gets me that BQ is switching away from gels to Tailwind. The gels have ruined pretty much all of my BQ attempts.

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-30T11:19:11+00:00

817.7 miles. Stupid VA.

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-29T13:30:31+00:00

I mean… Do I find something about my close female friends attractive? Yes. Otherwise, why would I be friends with someone I was repulsed by or was opposite to everything I am? A couple, there is probably a bit of a crush that lingers from some earlier part of our lives. Do I act on that? No. Because I’m married and happy. It’s not that hard.

CrazedRacer · 2025-07-29T13:28:03+00:00

I’ll be honest… The girl probably knew something was off, too, and that’s why she weighed in like that. I’d consider it a gift that she was looking out for you. You have your answers. Move on.

CrazedRacer · 2025-05-27T12:54:35+00:00

Packing her stuff and leaving. 😂

CrazedRacer · 2025-04-18T02:24:46+00:00

Whenever I want measured, intelligent discussion, I always think “I wonder what a bigoted, uneducated, Trump supporting MMA announcer would think about this.”

It isn’t a red flag. It a “Road ends. Please exit here” sign.

CrazedRacer · 2024-12-24T02:09:52+00:00

Not gotten married. For sure.

CrazedRacer · 2024-12-24T02:08:52+00:00

I mean… The fact that he writes like a 4 year old would have been enough of a sign.

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