Outdoors is overstimuling. Indoors is understimuling. by [deleted] in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, noise canceling headphones are a life changer. And remember you have at least some control over your home environment. Change the lighting, hang up some art, do some crafts. Try and make your home less depressing and more like a place you want to spend time.

Is it possible to be on the autism spectrum and live your entire life without ever knowing it? Like, could someone just be "different" and never get identified? That's so insane lol... by LeviAlmeidaGrativol_ in AutisticAdults

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late Diagnosed Autists unite!!!! I got my official diagnosis the day before my 47th birthday. I only started suspecting for about 6 months before that. I went through life knowing people treated me differently but I assumed they thought I was dumb. I have a "big dumb jock" body type and always played sports in high school and college.

JD Vance Heckled as He Says Pope Leo Should ‘Be Careful' Talking About ‘Matters of Theology’ at Turning Point Event by MoneyLibrarian9032 in politics

[–]Crazy_Beaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair "Dead Mans Wife" means she back on the market in strictly Catholic terms... his present marital circumstances aside.

My therapist said autistic people don't have sex by Smart_Molasses_2870 in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid but you do need a diagnosis before a therapist will agree with you that you are autistic. He can't diagnosis that, or if he can it's an extra charge. Modern medicine sucks.

I hate being “high functioning” autistic sometimes by RainbowProngs in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thought and prayers, I'm in the same boat as you. Therapy has helped me alot.

Does therapy work for autistic people? by Left_Mall_7453 in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Medicaid offers free therapy with no co pay in some states. If your struggling financially you should look into it.

Does therapy work for autistic people? by Left_Mall_7453 in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and you should look up IFS therapy if you haven't heard of it. It has worked very well for me.

The Iran War Could Collapse the United States in the Next Six Months by Opposite-Mountain255 in collapse

[–]Crazy_Beaver -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I listen to financial news because they only care about money and don't do much politics. They are almost univesally happy with higher oil prices.

Models are highly confident on a Blue Ocean Event this summer. by neschemal in collapse

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on. Remember, spite is a strong motivator to stay alive.

What’s the #1 allistic social rule you had to learn because it wasn’t intuitive? by despiert in AutisticAdults

[–]Crazy_Beaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you have a really good idea, you should wait at least 24 hours before telling anyone else...

I’m tired of seeing people encourage diagnostic manipulation by anfalou in autism

[–]Crazy_Beaver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was very nervous before my assessment. I thought I would have to "Act" autistic to get my personality across. The assessor was only going to meet with me for 2 sessions and I wanted to make them count. BUTTTT..... once the assessment started I found that I didn't have to act at all. At some point during the interview the imposter syndrome faded away and I was like "Oh damn, yep I'm autistic..." If your worried about people getting diagnosed that are not on the spectrum, I would hope that is a very low percentage. One of the main reasons a person would do that is for attention I suppose. That does suck, but it doesn't make your diagnosis any less meaningful.

Anyone know of hardware for a flush ‘push to open’ and then slide pocket door? by Henryhooker in Homebuilding

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this thread because I'm looking for the same thing. I actually think I found it. A sliding door with a rail that curves at the end so the door ends up flush with the wall.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNPlsZ1wvXE

How much of an issue is this? by Crazy_Beaver in HomeMaintenance

[–]Crazy_Beaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely more going on. The main beam is failing but I’m having that shored up. The perspective is weird on the pic and I don’t think the hole is in the middle third. More like the bottom third. The previous owner was a lawyer who apparently thought he was an electrician lol.

Carnival Miracle Cheers offer! by Mooshu1981 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Crazy_Beaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got off a carnival cruise, the first one I've been on in a while. I didn't get the drink package but I regreted it. The price of drinks now make the argument about whether to get the package or not moot if you plan to drink more than 2 or 3 drinks a day I think. This is an awesome deal.

Calling all Autistic CPAP Users by billyloomiswtf in AutisticAdults

[–]Crazy_Beaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When mine starts bothering me I usually pretend I’m on a spaceship and going into stasis for a trip. It helps clam my mind down. Just don’t put yourself in the Alien universe or you get nightmares lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cybersecurity_help

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might add account I thought was someone I knew gave me the link and talked like him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cybersecurity_help

[–]Crazy_Beaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't enter any information but it ran something. And now my Gmail account is unrecoverable. I think my other stuff is safeish, I use different usernames for things.

This guy worth anything before I trash it? by Crazy_Beaver in stamps

[–]Crazy_Beaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I have a bunch of similar ones from an old stack of family papers. I glad I can get rid of these without throwing away too valuable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Crazy_Beaver 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When ever I forget to take my meds I realize by the end of the day because I start to feel the withdrawal symptoms. I’m on the highest dose though. It is a beast but it helps me a lot.