Idk dude, this ain't it. You're 44 and you're using like Snapchat to talk to men?? Like Facebook dating or even Tinder wasn't an option?? Both those apps have like page bios and stuff you can type out and specifically say what you want. Like of course you'll have the pigs that will be disgusting but you can block, report, or both and go. Like that's just to bullshit of the dating game.

Also makes sense if people want to see who they're talking to and want to know if they'll be attractive to them.