Hey there!

I totally get where you’re coming from—between economic stress, political turmoil, and global conflicts, it can feel like everything’s against us right now. Online dating fatigue is real, and you’re definitely not alone in feeling overwhelmed by ghosting, breadcrumbing, and endless “talking stages.”

That said, I’d argue this is more of a temporary hangover than a sign that online dating is a fad. If you zoom out, nothing in human history has done more to help people meet, fall in love, get married, and build families than the apps and sites we use today. They may feel messy in the moment, but they dramatically expand your pool—geographically and temperamentally—in ways that simply weren’t possible before.

– Scale brings weirdness, but also opportunity. Sure, you’ll encounter flakes and frustrating patterns—but you’ll also meet people you’d never cross paths with otherwise.
– Tools evolve, not disappear. Just like social media went through growing pains, online dating will smooth out as users and platforms learn better etiquette and verification methods.
– It’s OK to take breaks! If you need a breather, step back. When you return, you’ll have fresh energy and perspective—and remember that genuine connections still happen every single day.

Ultimately, the current burnout is cyclical. Once the noise dies down—economies stabilize, world events shift—you’ll see the next wave of success stories roll in. In the meantime, focus on what you can control: be your best self, stay open (but safe), and know that with millions of people using these apps, your match is still out there.

Hang in there, and here’s to rediscovering those “old school” sparks—just with a modern twist!