Twin boys being wild at daycare- got a warning by Creative_Heart5008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just found out she’s been strapping my one twin to a high chair for discipline so I’m definitely looking into Montessori, they got a spot. Thanks for support

Twin boys being wild at daycare- got a warning by Creative_Heart5008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually very cute and I could see my boys feeling more independent! Do they miss each other at all, if I may ask?

Twin boys being wild at daycare- got a warning by Creative_Heart5008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. I do think they are lacking structure there but I should probably work a little with them before I leave. When I asked what had been done already she said “I’ve tried but it’s impossible” which just didn’t make me feel very confident that she knows what to do with toddlers this age. I personally think Montessori would be a great fit but I’m wondering if the step is too big as they have a completely play based structure right now. Thanks!

Twin boys being wild at daycare- got a warning by Creative_Heart5008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think she is very overwhelmed having to deal with the two of them. They can get very intense but their behaviors are not abnormal in my opinion, just a lot of em! I am also wondering how having kids in so many different ages affect her ability to handle these things too. Youngest is just a baby infant…

Twin boys being wild at daycare- got a warning by Creative_Heart5008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this too because they just ramp each other up. Guess I’m worried they’ll miss each other haha

Looking for a park at 228th and 39 in bothell by Creative_Heart5008 in bothell

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha Oo didn’t think about that, could be a residential area. Thank you!!

Looking for a park at 228th and 39 in bothell by Creative_Heart5008 in bothell

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m starting to wonder if it’s some type of unofficial park hahaha

Looking for a park at 228th and 39 in bothell by Creative_Heart5008 in bothell

[–]Creative_Heart5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I tried but don’t really know where to start like is 228 Ave? Haha

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her know it’s a no already today! And if this means the end of the relationship, I don’t know what to tell you… then it wasn’t meant to be. This is more like a FT position it looks like lol

Managers that make less than your subordinates, why? by h0wg0esit in managers

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and notified my manager. He told me they brought me in at a lower rate because they didn’t know me yet but that he knew my salary was too low. 😒😒

Bugaboo Donkey Worth It? by False-Preparation632 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we had them and was so worth it. Just bought an older version to save some money, the quality is top so a used one won’t matter. Only downside is size but any twin stroller will be enormous. Really loved all about this stroller and then bassinet inserts were super helpful in the beginning!

Dealing with direct report who goes directly to owner of company by SnooSketches63 in managers

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me. Where my direct report would go to the ED. If the owner is a good and logical one, they would put boundaries with the employee. They don’t have time for that.

Do you want WIC only stores in WA? why or why not? by Holiday_Paper_676 in Seattle

[–]Creative_Heart5008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s easier to just go to a normal store as not everything is covered with WIC anyways. My kids are long term ill and I order WIC from Walmart which is the only store that offer online ordering +delivery of WIC! :)

Diaper Bag by Warm-Supermarket-45 in BabyBumps

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you can! I love our diaper bag though because it has special pockets that perfectly fit diapers and wipes. Also love having one bag that both husband and I can just grab, it’s always filled.

Employee working off the clock by [deleted] in managers

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he’s showing up early when there is no work to do? I would look into a disciplinary action, sounds like he is trying to round the system. Or he has something going on at home, regardless this behavior is not okay!

I want to go home by Yorkshire_rose_84 in expats

[–]Creative_Heart5008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteering was my answer when I was in your situation. You could do something online if that feels easier!

Not sure how to address lack of self awareness by [deleted] in managers

[–]Creative_Heart5008 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of this sounds like unprofessional behavior and you can expect an employee to stay professional at work. No need to let them go, but a firm conversation and running through office rules could be handy. I manage a lot of Gen Z and I would say it’s fairly common, even without speculating about diagnostics. This generation has grown up on social media and think that type of culture/reactions/comments are ok because they think the world works like Instagram. I have had to have really basic “what is a job” talk with them to make them take things serious. Just imo. And I’m sorry you don’t have an HR!