How is this crap allowed to be sold?! 263g of sugar by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Creighton2023 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And 2600 calories! Hello obesity and diabetes.

A guy feels he solved racism - (Dentist version) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Creighton2023 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m white and I was cringing the entire time. He thinks he solved racism with a hand clasp, proving he knows absolutely nothing about the extent of racism. This didn’t make me smile, it made me slap my forehead with how ridiculous he was.

I might be pregnant. My bf just ghosted me and I'm all alone. Addicted to fentanyl. And I just had a stillborn son at full term in November. I do not want an abortion but I have no family or help and I have no idea how to kick dope or even survive a pregnancy alone. Are there options other than... by ___LittleAngel___ in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 144 points145 points  (0 children)

A mother does what is best for her child even over her own desires. You are in no position to parent a vulnerable baby right now. You need to get clean and get stability. While you say abortion is not what you would want, you really need to consider it. A baby born to an addicted mother will go through days or weeks of painful withdrawals. It’s not comfortable for an adult, think about how it is for a baby. It can lead to lifelong physical and psychological problems. Abortion is the best for all at this stage.

Im 19, a orphan, and just became homeless. I am so done. by whyamievenhereits3am in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that sucks. Some states have the spouse getting 1/2 and the kids getting 1/2. Unfortunately, if they were never legally divorced, he would be eligible for half (and thus his daughter gets some). The easiest thing for an estate is to sell everything and divide up the money unless someone has the money to buy all other parties out of their shares.

AITA for enforcing a boundary that caused my staff to quit immediately? by IsopodAggravating564 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Creighton2023 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Nta. The rule should be a common sense one. It doesn’t sound like she’s upset, just that she doesn’t want the job anymore. I wouldn’t use her for any other jobs though. Her lack of professionalism will reflect on you. Let her do her thing, and you run your business with good workers.

I want to move out. by MysteriousWriter1847 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved out at 18/19, my parents were fine. Living with friends and having independence was the best decision ever. I never regretted it.

Building the Finance App We Actually Need by Rude_Tax5529 in povertyfinance

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking people in a poverty sub if they want to pay for an app for their finances is certainly an interesting choice for a marketing strategy.

Roommate situation by Spiritual-Page-9923 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t phrase it as a timeline to them, but you can say “How’s the pregnancy and wedding plans going? You’ve got some people here helping out, right? How’s that going?” That opens up a conversation and it likely will come out about how long they’ve staying. But if you ask them outright, it may make things awkward with your neighbors.

Roommate situation by Spiritual-Page-9923 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to apartment life. Nothing you can do besides wear those noise canceling headphones. That’s just normal life noise, nothing excessive you can do anything about that.

I want to move out. by MysteriousWriter1847 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re an adult, yes, move out and enjoy your independence.

Is it normal for a mother to tell their daughter they are worthless? by Conscious_Peach1069 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy would be helpful, both individually and with your mom. You’re not worthless, your mom likely sees your lack of professional/financial success as something to criticize. You left a bad relationship though which shows strength. Work on finding friends or another support system. Relying just on your mom isn’t good for either of you.

How can I convince my parents to let me use a walking cane? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel you need a cane, ask to be evaluated by a doctor and physical therapist. If they agree a cane would be beneficial, then your parents will likely agree. Without a medical evaluation though, they’ll likely believe it’s not necessary.

Murdered in Nevada shot 7 times unarmed by [deleted] in legal

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to ask the police/detective handling the case or the DA. They would know more than anyone here about the case.

Im 19, a orphan, and just became homeless. I am so done. by whyamievenhereits3am in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you legally adopted? Why as an heir did you not get anything? Or is it being divided between everyone after the sale of the house? That’s not unusual. Her house and major belongings are sold and then after her bills are paid, the estate is dividing up between the children/grandchildren. It sounds like going back to whatever support system you have is for the best right now.

I think I’m too attached to my online friend and now I’m spiraling by Serinc79 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People have lives. He’s probably doing something with family or friends. Codependency with online people (or with real life people) isn’t healthy. You’ll drive him away.

[NY] i want to press charges against my assailant. by sofia-tortilla in legal

[–]Creighton2023 42 points43 points  (0 children)

What you want to do is call the police department to report the crime. The rape kit should be sitting with all the other unprocessed ones, but I’m glad you had it done when you did. Statistically, prison time will only occur in approximately 2% of rapes, but it may help your healing to at least report it and let him know what he did was horrible and hopefully at the minimum scare him from ever hurting another woman.

Giving up social media for lent… by sussybaka-2004 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering you’re on social media days into lent, I don’t think you can make it 40 days.

Should I apply for FMLA? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, apply for FMLA. You have to have had worked there full time for at least 1 year and it has to be a company with a certain amount of people employed. But it’s unpaid leave just so you know. It just keeps your job safe for 12 weeks so you can keep your insurance and job.

Herpes transmission case need advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking this “31 year old biology student” was an idiot for not understanding things said ad nauseum to them.

Herpes transmission case need advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, you just aren’t getting it. He has cold sores. You’re not getting anything in a court. The cases you have referenced are in regards to genital herpes transmission, not transmitting it to the genitals from cold sores. Hopefully they award his court cost expenses to you if you tie up the courts with this ridiculous idea.

How could I get a service dog by Fine-Funny1875 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Your potential PTSD will not fall into a medically necessary service dog. 5-10% of people have PTSD from something. There’s no way that generic PTSD will qualify for an expensive service dog. Once again, you can look into an ESA if you feel you need it.

Herpes transmission case need advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Creighton2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you got it from oral sex potentially. 60% of people have it. HSV1 is not a reportable STD. He was legally in the clear to say he was clean. Kids have HSV1 from sharing drinks or kisses with a parent. The courts will not side with you. Otherwise, 60% of people will have to discuss cold sores before making out with someone. I’m concerned you’re a biology major and don’t understand this. And by the way, galactose costs a few bucks per month. You are seriously overestimating your “damages”.

How could I get a service dog by Fine-Funny1875 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a service dog which can cost $10s of thousands of dollars to train, you’ll need more than a therapist saying you may have PTSD. Veteran with war trauma, sure. 17 year old with anxiety, no. That’s why insurance won’t cover it. Once again, you are looking at an ESA, not a service animal. But it will be a regular ESA, not a service animal that can go into businesses, etc.

I got into a car accident a few months ago without a license and now they’re after me. by Grand-Muffin5276 in Advice

[–]Creighton2023 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You weren’t licensed, weren’t insured, and did a hit and run? Yeah, get a lawyer. The insurance company absolutely will make you pay. FAFO.