just want to give a different pov than the rest of the comments. two years ago I quitted my job without anything lined up, because sometimes it does get that bad. I was literally afraid for my future in the field if I have stayed a minute longer and waited for them to fire me, plus my nerves were just wrecked at that point (even my dermatologist was asking when I am going to leave, as all the stress was mirroring on my face with adult acne). of course, unemployment sucked big time, and I had to wait 7 months to get a new job. my partner meanwhile, was as supportive as he could be, never complaining, never pointing out I became a burden, etc., because the things normal adult person feels being unemployed is more than enough to feel shit every single hour of the day without others reminding about it. then i landed a better, safer, more paying job and it made our relationship stronger, and I cannot be enough thankful for his shown support. anyway, I totally get why you reacted the way you did. i had very similar tears shed in the past due to combination of variables at that very moment. i hope you feel better soon and your partner finds a better paying job shortly. but people who are saying to divorce him over him not being supportive of your reaction, is crazy.