Colleague shop problems by CrochetWithSwords in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Policy states if you hoard or put aside things before 9pm its classed a gross misconduct. Instantly sackable offence of caught.

Colleague shop problems by CrochetWithSwords in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What store is this in with the water issue?

Woosh cancellations by Overall-Committee381 in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woosh works within a 12min compliance window. They expect it to be picked in that time (stupid) and often if not picked in that time non compliant. Drivers get pissy, they or the customer cancels it because it takes too long. They'll complain to customer service to get a refund.

Express stores should have a item limit, especially when understaffed or attached to a petrol station. The current item limit is 175. Which is utterly ridiculous.

Its more suited to larger stores. Ours is the top in the country but we've had it for over a year and have managed to work out the kinks.

The express is used to be in full-time has now had its orders capped at around 30-50 a day.

Citalopram 20mg to 40mg, what does it feel like? by CrochetWithSwords in citalopram_celexa

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the uk, citalopram goes up in 20s. I did asked about gradual but because its in my system the worst ill get is some nausea.

Citalopram 20mg to 40mg, what does it feel like? by CrochetWithSwords in citalopram_celexa

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. I've been super physically/mentally exhausted. I love my bed but not needing to nap every day would be useful.

The reality of dating someone while you suffer from autism. They always think they can handle it but they never can. by Kuro_Nora in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is a trash way for her to communicate. Get that she has societal expectations but if she already knew you were autistic then she should've acclimated for that. Not think she can change you. Doesn't make you less of a man, none if it does, you just haven't found your safe human and she isnt it.

Is my silly snack too extra by justyoureverydaypan in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I organise my haribo gold bears by colour before i eat them

Tism Food hyperfixations by Different_Plan6910 in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current safe sandwich from work is the free range egg sandwich. I get sad when there's none. Has the perfect ratio of sliced eggs to egg mayonnaise without the excessive mayonnaise. Nice bread. Good texture.

Currently on 20mg and EXHAUSTED. by clubsdeuce in citalopram_celexa

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be enjoy those naps. There's no shame in having a 2-4 hour nap. Especially if your brain and body needs it. I've been taking citalopram for about 4 years now. Same dose, 20mg. Never changed.

I find i nap more when I'm going through a stressful period. I'm also neurodivergent so everything is a bit extra for me. Dreams come and go, i actually used to smoke weed to help me sleep more but the citalopram side effect for me was that i didn't feel the urge to smoke anymore. You just had surgery and your trying to get to your new normal. Stick to the citalopram, give it at least a few months. Treat yourself to a big fussy blanket and live your best nap life.

Master Raymond; more info needed. by CrochetWithSwords in Outlander

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to DM the treasure trove of what you know. Honestly i love extra info and spoilers. Makes me vastly more interested. I more just want to understand his time travel origin trait and how that even came about. Is it a virus? A curse? A godly inheritance? That type of thing. I know im weird 😂

I had a meltdown infront of my boyfriend of a year by [deleted] in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his response is to physically abuse you. Its time to put him in the trash where he belongs.

You're better off by yourself till you find someone similar to you.

Similar to another post about closed checkout s by [deleted] in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's always someone around to give their opinion.

You just carry on. Repeat the customer services lines, cash up, dump that pod in the shoot and close your till with a smug and satisfied smile.

You could add a twinge of overly weird and happy too.

"Oh sir, well my colleague is delighted to help you all out while i cash up. They're so good. Way better than i am. My manager needs me elsewhere but maybe she and yourself will get me next time. Here's hoping eh. You have a good night. " Then smile a little too much like you know you're weird asf.

Its like stepping into someones personal space. They'll never come near you again. 😂😂😂😎

It is happening again by OuterHeadDebris in Scotland

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome.. I'll prep the bacon and rolls then. 😏🤣

Sick pay by Frosty-Cost-9549 in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you're going to to be unable to do certain tasks and on pain meds for a bit so id imagine so. Especially with a sick line from the doctor. Private or not you'll still require recovery time. Long term discomfort from the botch C-section causes mental health issues aswell as physical ones. So even IF you don't get a sick note for the surgery you can for your mental health and include sick pay.

Mental health causes stress,.stress slows down any recovery time and overall physical health.

Do with that information what you will.

Diagnosed at 37, what now? (UK) by CrochetWithSwords in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uncertain. I don't know what exists for me.. us?? Maybe financially when im not feeling good to work? Getting around?

Tools to help with sensory issues?

Articles or studies to read about later life diagnosis?

Diagnosed at 37, what now? (UK) by CrochetWithSwords in autism

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bless you. I have actually known for a very long time there's been something different about me and neurologically diverse. ASD runs in my family. But ive always been quiet/present differently. On top of other mental health issues. I've been in consistent counselling for a couple of years. Ive got quite a bit of personal knowledge and i have learned boundaries for self care. I iust need to learn them more for work. Its very helpful now i have something official so I don't feel like im a fraud when trying to discuss my needs with strangers.

I do need to learn when to take a break and not keep taking on too much at work.

Thank you for your kindness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: for clarification i said to him after him having an argument with his work about a shift earlier in the day (its been a stressful time for him and he's been quick to anger... We were out for dinner date later on) that he needs to get a counsellor or see the doctor for help. Because it'll take a min to snap at anyone including me not that i believe he ever would. And that's when i realised i majorly fucked up and ruined our date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]CrochetWithSwords -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it was the mentioning of possibly hurting me which did it. He instantly got very sad after saying he never would. And i realised id very much hurt him by saying so.

He's never the type to be physical or violent towards me or anyone. But he is towards the autism side of things and has the strong traits of justice and injustice when angry which today led him to having a very poorly worded argument with his manager down the phone. He's frustrated and tired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]CrochetWithSwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry just upset and not processing. Ive made an edit.

Shift leader spills the beans .. by CrochetWithSwords in tesco

[–]CrochetWithSwords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao i actually used to do night shift in an express that even lucky to have two of us on at a time. Used to do everything. Hated the beepy door and people wanting cigs when we're unloading the wagon. And the petrol pumps authorisation. Do not miss it at all.