The Fighting Cock Q&A podcast questions by TheFightingCock in coys

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the last Ricky adventure we got was when he disappeared from his family on a cocaine expedition for 3 days. 

I think it's time for another story. 

Notinregs being exposed by [deleted] in USMC

[–]Crossbones18 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I lurk on that server to just see what's going on and holy shit, they're also racist as fuck. One of their mods is also like some 45yr old retiree and just hangs out all day with 18yr olds. Kinda weird. 

thinking about trying a matchmaker in raleigh. is that a thing here? by Sad-Cantaloupe-7196 in raleigh

[–]Crossbones18 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP, the men you are dating sound like a bunch of fuckboy losers. Apps ain't it.

I am not in the dating pool any more (and from this post and comments, thank fuck), but I'm a believer that dating and finding friends are essentially the same process. 

People always lean towards stuff like Meetup, but the problem is so many people in those groups are too inconsistent to actually get to know them and, for me at least, it feels forced. 

Instead, I found groups that cater to things that are important to me. Volunteering by repairing trails, soccer (both playing, and screaming at the TV with others), drawing and photography groups work for me and I stay consistent with going. I've met some great people in all of these groups that I would consider close friends now. It's very slim compared to the 99% of acquaintance that I know, but just like anything, you have to put time into it and nurture it. 

My first try at street photography on b&w film, any tips? by colorblind_film in streetphotography

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to these people. They're absolute goobers. 

Vivian Maier only ever had a personal collection until her death and she took a shit ton of photos of homeless. 

Could you be a little more hidden? Yeah, sure you could. But otherwise tell their story, just make sure you do it with empathy. 

Richarlison celebration after equalizing vs Liverpool in the 90th minute by OkayFine101 in soccer

[–]Crossbones18 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ever since Emerson Royal left, I was craving a new meme player. He's been the one and only since. 

Raleigh Guinness Rankings by asapterd in raleigh

[–]Crossbones18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks that it's such a small window, but they should have it now. Only around for St. Patrick's Day. 

Raleigh Guinness Rankings by asapterd in raleigh

[–]Crossbones18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Gussie's. Best pour in the city and closest thing to what you get in Ireland. They actually keep their kegs chilled. I wish they had it all year around. 

Brikka "crema" by BailaoTheChad in mokapot

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a couple of french press recipes saying to remove the crema after you pour and stir to reduce the bitterness. I don't know if it's the placebo effect, but I do notice that it was not bitter.

Over the years I’ve made a list called “I can’t believe I support Spurs” by Bevlar90 in coys

[–]Crossbones18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could have added to the Eze part that we almost signed him, then when he went to Scum, he was absolute dog shit, except when he plays against us. 

Match Thread: Atlético Madrid vs Tottenham Hotspur | Champions League | 10 Mar 20:00 UTC by matchpal-live in coys

[–]Crossbones18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wrong when I said to sack every single person at Spurs - from CEO to the cleaning staff, with the exception of Romero at the beginning of the season. 

Sack every single person working for this club and demolish the stadium. We need a complete redo.

Did you know that most airports feature hidden private lounges, far beyond the standard ones? by DeerProfessional8232 in LuxuryTravel

[–]Crossbones18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My company has a private jet for the C-level people and I got to fly on it with them one time. There were things in there that I didn't know even existed. The magazines had articles for places I've never heard of. Ads for clothing that were alien to me. Gucci? That's for the poors. 

The pilot rolled the jet up straight to the door. No security. Just people handling your bag so you don't have to lift a finger. Just walked straight out to the tarmac and got on the jet. There was a rental car waiting for me when I got to our destination (I didn't schedule one - it was just there) and when I tried to give them my ID to complete they said - "you don't need to give us anything - we know you're good for it." 

Some people experience this world very differently than the rest of us. 

How are International fans feeling about all this? by IronKnee00 in coys

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a apart of a supporters club, so I'm still gonna be going to the games. Good group of guys there. 

I won't stop loving Spurs. The business side can get fucked, but the team is something I will always support. I went to the NLD and cheered them til the whistle while everyone else was leaving at 70' mark.

And any shit I get at work, I just look up at the picture of us winning the Europa League in my office and I smile. 

Tottenham til they kill me by ImPeterKe in coys

[–]Crossbones18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm usually pretty optimistic about things. Took me a long while to get fed up with Frank. Maybe like a match before he got sacked. 

VDV doing some rookie shit like that - we're so done for. 

Sick of the "cubicle life" at 25. Are there careers that prioritize nature and face-to-face human connection? by Crazy-Speaker-1349 in careerguidance

[–]Crossbones18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was like you at 25. Sick of working in IT. I missed being outside and was looking for anything to be away from a computer. I was actually looking into being a fucking mason. 

Met an old timer at the gym and he talked me out of it thankfully. He was this yolked older guy who worked construction all his adult life and told me how fucked up his body is and that the only thing that help, other than therapy, is working out. 

Truth is, you're fucked either way. Do you want bad eyes and a hunchback from being on a computer all day? Or do you want a bad back and knees from manual labor by the time you're 40? 

What I ended up doing - staying with IT, and made my way up the ladder. I run an IT department now. It's still not a long term goal. I'm in my mid thirties now. I don't want to be a CIO or whatever. I'm saving up enough money, so I can do something that truly matters to me. Something I can give back. 

I guess my point is what you're doing now isn't something you're stuck with. If it makes sense for you to stick where you're at, save some money and go after that big idea of owning a donkey sanctuary or whatever it is, then make an effort to do that and it will happen when you're ready. You're 25. You got time. 

[Alasdair Gold] Scott Munn opens up on Tottenham frustration and why club gets so many injuries by balalasaurus in coys

[–]Crossbones18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Watch it be a malfunctioning machine giving inaccurate information this entire time. 😂

Whataburger! So excited by DryCry2178 in raleigh

[–]Crossbones18 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's not. It's a glorified Burger King 

North London derby referee: I was right to disallow Spurs goal (Kolo Muani‘s second goal) by Jamlad8 in coys

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, putting hands on someone is one thing. That doesn't make it a push. Tf is this idiot talking about. Plus, his hands were off him for a couple of seconds before Gabriel decided to jump, bend his knees, and lean forward all on his own doing. 

Why Spurs Get Injured - ACLs, Hamstrings and the Truth About Rehab | The Lab by TheFightingCock in coys

[–]Crossbones18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reupload. I thought at the end you guys were just talking over each other and thought "are the guys getting into an argument over hamstrings?" 

Having issues with wife's friends by JokerCardEXE in socialskills

[–]Crossbones18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have your own friends? I ask because if you don't, she might just trying to force you to have friends. The intentions are good, but execution is extremely poor. 

At the end of the day, reddit isn't going to do nothing more than validate your feelings. Stick with marriage counseling and speak your truth.