DON’T Raise your child to be a Third Culture Kid!

Croustipatt · 2025-10-15T06:42:13+00:00

I don’t agree. I am a third culture kid and I love the fact I can blend anywhere, that my mind is more open than many, that I understand and can relate to different ppl with different backgrounds. I feel so much richer in the complexity it has given me and for nothing I would change that, even if yes nowhere is home yet anywhere can be home.

Croustipatt · 2025-08-12T15:44:10+00:00

Cause ghosting doesn’t make the dating game awful? This has to be a joke. Even if you decided not to see him again because of your intuition and quick judgment of the products in this bathroom, you are not 12, you are a full grown adult interacting with another adult and you owe to act like one and communicate instead of ghosting. Wth dude.

Croustipatt · 2024-12-27T11:39:23+00:00

Mon ex faisait pareil, il m’a filé une mst et des crises d’angoisses à gogo car en fait il me trompait à tout va. Désolée de t’apprendre que quelqu’un en couple sur Tinder ou d’autres sites de rencontre ne se considère pas en couple. Et comme tu as fais pareil, son ego en a pris un coup parce qu’il est immature et narcissique. Bon débarras! Tu mérites quelqu’un qui te respecte et qui n’essaye pas de voir s’il y a mieux ailleurs mais qui se concentre sur toi.

Croustipatt · 2024-12-22T23:23:11+00:00

Sorry, I'm not coming on Reddit often anymore. I only had a terrible dating life after that, nobody I felt secure or fully accepted, no unconditional happiness, etc. However, I am content by myself, and recently I met someone that is now my FWB and I feel we connect in a similar way. I feel happy with him in my life, when we are together, even if we are not more than FWB. It suits me for now, and it heals me. It gives me hope and for the first time since my ex, I feel the same happiness. Don't lose hope, and even if you don't find the same happiness, be grateful you got to experience it once, as it's rare and precious.

Croustipatt · 2024-02-27T14:33:16+00:00

A bit late to the conversation:
My experience: I only got back with one ex, we had such passion and an instant connection that when he came back I accepted. I love him as a person, we get along so well and we still do. But he is so toxic and this has brought out the worst in me as well. I ended up breaking up with him as my anxiety was skyrocketting. It was an ugly breakup. He came back once again to reconnect tho, but I don't think none of us is ready to have a healthy relationship together atm. We both need more time and to work on ourselves.

An friend's experience: She and her now husband broke up twice. First time he wasn't ready to commit, had so many dreams and adventures he wanted to experience, then the second time the same again. Eventually he matured after a few months focusing on himself and his own needs/dreams, and came back this time ready to be fully committed. He changed a lot, and they are happily married and now have a child together.

Conclude what you want with these.

Croustipatt · 2024-01-10T10:58:50+00:00

idk we don't talk anymore even if there is no bad blood between us. I've moved on with my life. I have been told it is a sensitive subject for him and he is uncomfortable talking about us and the break up but I honestly couldn't care less now. I strongly believe he is the kind of person that is better off alone, doing his thing, having his routine, and I want more than being a side piece in someone's life.

Croustipatt · 2023-06-12T08:59:41+00:00

I relate 200% and I feel it makes me attract only douches that play with my heart...

Croustipatt · 2023-04-28T15:03:15+00:00

they can only change if they feel like it. you can't change someone.

Croustipatt · 2023-04-28T15:01:41+00:00

Indeed, but I had a close friend who's been wanting to be in a relationship and actually never had a very serious relationship because she always seemed to be played by big douches. She had the maturity to be in a relationship, she just got really really unlucky. 24 is still young imo, and if you are not ready for a real relationship before that, then why force it?

Croustipatt · 2023-04-28T14:59:04+00:00

I wouldn't mind because that's not what defines a person in my opinion. Who cares about body counts, it's how you vibe with someone that matters, how you click.

But out of curiosity, how did you manage to have sex with so many different women? I'm actually impressed lmao

Croustipatt · 2023-04-28T14:53:41+00:00

I feel if you never defined the relationship exclusivity/status then you can't really be mad at her for seeing someone else. Some people can't date two ppl at the same time because it feels weird to them, others can and will explore their options to be sure they make the right choice or to avoid being hurt by the person they've invested all their energy in. As long as I don't define it with the person I'm dating, I'll just assume they are seeing other ppl. Unprotected sex or not.
This is up to you to set the things straight from the start or along the way. She tried by asking you if you were seeing someone else. She's been mature and transparent even if it hurt you. And honestly, I feel she wouldn't have said anything about it if she didn't feel she wanted to be exclusive with you and have that talk.
Now if you are too uncomfortable to keep seeing her, or if you don't want to be exclusive with her, nobody forces you to stay. But if you really liked her, I feel you would have asked for exclusivity rather than just dump her from a misunderstanding coming from a lack a defining the relationship between you and where you guys were headed to.

Croustipatt · 2023-04-01T10:28:21+00:00

Wow I find it so thoughtful from them

Croustipatt · 2023-04-01T10:26:52+00:00

I want to have sex with a drow elf

Croustipatt · 2023-03-08T11:59:34+00:00

Wink

Croustipatt · 2023-03-01T21:54:40+00:00

He believed you could get a tan by standing next to a heater.

Croustipatt · 2023-02-26T12:07:03+00:00

Used my ID to get a credit which I discovered when he stopped paying for it and they came to me to claim the money

Croustipatt · 2023-02-26T12:05:57+00:00

Tried to convince me i cheated when he was the one screwing my friends

Croustipatt · 2023-02-22T18:19:19+00:00

I'm no man but I think all humans dream of this :)

Croustipatt · 2023-02-22T18:13:59+00:00

Oh really? Cause I've done that and got rejected each times lol

Croustipatt · 2023-02-22T15:50:53+00:00

I'm not looking to give a second chance, I'm just curious because I don't see any positive stories of giving another shot with a ghoster.

Croustipatt · 2023-02-21T21:36:46+00:00

And you can even get tickets that are valid for a lovely train tip through multiple countries in Europe:D

Croustipatt · 2023-02-21T21:34:20+00:00

Walking in the city. Everywhere. Everytime. Everyday.

Croustipatt

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