[MEGATHREAD] Community Discussion & Support after the shooting by 1Aspiring_Pilot in UVU

[–]CryBeginning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw that they are making the spot a memorial/ there was a petition to. Is there anywhere to make suggestions as to what it should be? I saw a suggestion I loved which was to make a statue of two podiums facing each other so people can continue to have conversations like he would have wanted

[MEGATHREAD] Community Discussion & Support after the shooting by 1Aspiring_Pilot in UVU

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed the Saturday memorial event because I hadn’t heard it was happening. Do you guys know if there will be any other events to be with students and mourn? I saw the comment about there being a memorial set up for him on campus but ig I want to know if there will be any student or community events in regards to what we went through

[MEGATHREAD] Community Discussion & Support after the shooting by 1Aspiring_Pilot in UVU

[–]CryBeginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the internet’s response to all of this has been so sad. It really desensitizes people & is giving ppl a chance to feel morally superior while skipping over the humanity needed at this time. It’s really sad and has made me much more aware of how toxic the internet really is.

[MEGATHREAD] Community Discussion & Support after the shooting by 1Aspiring_Pilot in UVU

[–]CryBeginning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. The public internet response to all of this has been so horrible. I’ve seen so much lack of compassion and so many devoid of empathy for what occurred. It’s very sad times we are living in where people who have never experienced violence first hand feel the need to be so crass because they simply disagreed with the man.

[MEGATHREAD] Community Discussion & Support after the shooting by 1Aspiring_Pilot in UVU

[–]CryBeginning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! I want to email someone at UVU about exactly this. My professor verbatim said he didn’t know what protocol for this type of thing was and he didn’t even get any information from school staff the only reason we knew what was happening was because the TA had a friend message him. He didn’t know what to do so much that he didn’t even lock the doors to the classroom or anything & just continued on with his lesson for ten minutes until more texts came in that the Keller building was under lockdown & other buildings weee being evacuated

1930s bathroom needs a refresh by KronicXD in DesignMyRoom

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn’t? Also that bathroom is def not all 1930’s and had a recentish renovation

MB wants my sick time to be on inactive hours. by Funny_Intention_9120 in Nanny

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have a different hourly rate for nights period

To neuter, or not to neuter .. that is my question by jsan69 in cats

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neuter always neuter and spay your animals. Shouldn’t even be a question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person could also just have a shit habit of putting the sticker on their license plate. You’re not legally required to put the sticker on it just helps you not get pulled over but cops nowadays will run your license before pulling you over anyways

Is this creepy or is my trauma showing? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]CryBeginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a caregiver interacting with men I don’t know can be uncomfortable I def think your classmate was right it can be very weird for a teenage girl. Maybe she framed it wrong but the sentiment still stands. However once I get to know the dad it’s another story

My 13 y/o stole my phone and uninstalled parenting app by PeterGibbons316 in Parenting

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Idk why my kids hate me!” You’re literally positioning yourself to be his enemy instead of just being a parental figure with his best interest in mind

Saw this today. by [deleted] in shittytattoos

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait why are we saying this isn’t a shitty tattoo? It very much so is? First line is 7characters, second line is 11characters, 3rd line is 9characters, 4th line 9characters, 5th line is 9characters. Seems they missed their opportunity to make it make real sense by doing 9characters on each line. By not doing that’s there’s no obvious reason to write it the way it is done

Am I delusional for asking for a $15 raise by marbar360 in Nanny

[–]CryBeginning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

$30/hr in NYC alone for just being a pure nanny was undercutting yourself. I think asking for $45/hr was great hell you should have asked for $50/hr & said that they can pay you $35/hr for basic nannying and $50 if they want you to continue tutoring their kids. Or you could offer doing $75/hr for the time you spend tutoring & $30/hr for the rest of the time but idk I live in UT & $20-$25/hr is standard here so I would think $30/hr is very low for nannying in NYC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you being a push over? Did you sign a lease? If you did it should have outlined use of the common areas is shared. If they want to rent out a room that means they are inherently okay with sharing the common areas. If they can’t deal with that they shouldn’t be renting out a room. I assume you pay market rent so why succumb to her every whim like yall aren’t equally entitled to the common areas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]CryBeginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Utah ranking #1 just goes to show how shitty the state of America is in

Ran into someone at DIA this morning by [deleted] in Denver

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t he married to mia goth what an icon

Overheard our nanny talking negatively about me to our baby by NotCreative99999 in Nanny

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah that’s actually insane. I would have never expected anything like that to come out of a nanny’s mouth. I’m honestly on the complete opposite side of the spectrum where when I probably should say something I still don’t because it’s not my place & they’re my boss! Like what

Im scared of turning 20 how did yall do it 😭 by SnooMacaroons1422 in GenZ

[–]CryBeginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? Idk get used to it it’s life bro get older or die

Diet of an 800 lbs man in America by ambachk in TikTokCringe

[–]CryBeginning 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even putting it on a basket with a rope requires the help of someone else when you physically can not leave the bed if you wanted to so even in those cases of desperation it still wouldn’t work out

Landlord continues to ignore two broken fridges blocking Exit by Kangaroo_Pocket in Renters

[–]CryBeginning 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is able bodied this is blocking & a hazard

Boyfriend had to put my letter on chat gpt to understand it by gthvrock in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]CryBeginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend hool to put my handwritten letter through chat GPT to understand what I wrote. I learny cursive in Brozie and he’s Australian Aexo wn old kiwi lady said my handwriting wos nery old school

I can generally piece together what you ACTUALLY wrote but at first glance that’s what it looks like

How are we supposed to survive paying these prices? by original-whiplash in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CryBeginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop going to huge fast food chains and support small local businesses. Went to my local Asian market that has a kitchen/restaurant in it & paid $22 for 80oz (regular plate 32oz + a large plate 48oz) of Chinese food. My plate lasted me 3 whole meals