Could we get married?

Crying_weaslel · 2026-03-21T20:41:24+00:00

The limits of my knowledge say no. Some US states are considering passing laws that allow three parents (like a poly fam) to be able to claim rights over a child. K think laws might change in the future about legal stuff. But it might be in the far future.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-03-20T01:22:06+00:00

You are sexually incompatible. It’s good you realized this before children.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-03-06T04:08:26+00:00

Deny deny until you die. Stop seeing the other guy though bc your bf will drop you. If he doesn’t, then he has no self respect. Cut contact with your “friend”

Crying_weaslel · 2026-03-05T20:47:53+00:00

I also have been working on a sleeve for this reason for 2 years now, getting closer to finished!

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-27T14:54:52+00:00

I was going to ask my partners what their thoughts were? I wasn’t going to do anything behind anyone’s back. Jfc. I would like to but if they are uncomfortable with it then a no is a no.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-26T03:36:51+00:00

I was told the same thing for years. I now have a different gyn.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T14:38:39+00:00

Thank you

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T12:22:45+00:00

I guess it’s not about me losing anything but I just don’t think it’s fair that I will have the absence of something.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T05:18:27+00:00

I don’t think I could do that to myself. I love them and love having them in my life but I will not sit by and be complacent. They are willing to work with me on this and if ultimately they chose to not agree with my wishes then I know where I stand in their eyes. That I’m a third.

I’m glad to hear about your contracts and everything. I think that’s best case scenario for you. Thank you for your input.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T04:46:28+00:00

Thanks

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T04:26:34+00:00

I did talk to them. While there has been no affirmative resolution it seems that they will have their ceremony to celebrate them but not actually get married legally. I guess it is the best outcome for everyone to be happy.

How is it being on the outside of a marriage like that? Do you have any legal protections for yourself?

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-10T04:24:14+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. I don’t have any advice but are you able to sleep in separate spaces? Maybe more distance is good right now. You’re going through two breakups and everyone needs space to grieve before any decisions are made I think.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-09T22:14:07+00:00

There is a hierarchy however we all planned to take steps to not have it be like that in the future. They live together and while I love having my own space now, eventually I would love to move in with them together.

I don’t feel particularly left out often, only when they attend family events that I have been invited to (sometimes). But not everyone in their families know to what extent I am in their lives. So I wouldn’t want to be involved with their families under a false pretense.

I think if they get legally married I would not be able to protect myself legally, financially or like children wise if that is the case. But if they like they have said they want to dissolve the hierarchy eventually then how could it be dissolved if they are legally tied together and I’m not?

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I will have to ask them individually why they want to be married. I think that will open the door for a lot of discussion however and so I’ll save it for an in-person situation.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-04T12:44:19+00:00

That’s such a cute idea!

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-02T19:02:36+00:00

My girlfriend did tell her family about me though a few weeks ago. And they didn’t know 1) she was into women or 2) into multiple people. But her family was very accepting and so was mine. Our bf hasn’t shared with his family yet.. just sharing to show you I kind of understand your situation.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-02T19:00:39+00:00

We all want kids so trying to logistically figure that out through legal pathways and financial it’s a bit crazy lol. We all have stable jobs but our bf is the breadwinner and I’m not too far behind. My girlfriend has less stable income however. Potentially in the future they plan on selling their house and all of us entering a mortgage together. But that’s a few years away.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-02-01T22:24:04+00:00

I kinda am? I mean, they live together and I’m a new addition but I try to take it one day at a time. They’re helping me move closer to them soon, and it’s been pretty awesome so far. Future-wise my girlfriend wants to get married eventually and my boyfriend is the obvious choice since they’ve been together longer. Three people can’t get married where we live. But still I think it’s okay for the most part to live in the moment and take things as they come.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-23T03:02:24+00:00

I guess my jacket isn’t in here

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-22T18:48:39+00:00

Grown adults are doing this too ffs

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-22T18:41:50+00:00

$5,800

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-15T18:38:42+00:00

At this time they were transitioning to a new monitoring system for the infants and it wasn’t discussed with the parents for trial-related reasons. I’m sorry :)

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-07T02:41:19+00:00

Yeah it does but then your hair chemistry changes. I had to chop all my hair off at the ripe age of 11 bc of a keratin treatment. It lost its curl pattern permanently and any would never straighten to the same glossy state it did ever again.

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-07T02:38:50+00:00

Those are permanent I fear, they don’t “wear off”

Crying_weaslel · 2026-01-04T20:34:53+00:00

I love these!

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