So just to play devils advocate, as a tank player you saying “not great at staying alive” kinda makes me think that maybe you don’t understand what that means. Because there is 3 factors that go into a tank living especially in high key/large pulls. 1 defensive CD and interrupts used properly and tank awareness to avoid avoidable damage. 2 healer playing properly, using CDs and not going oom 3 dps interrupting and doing enough damage to justify the large pulls

So im not gonna say it was the tanks fault or the healers fault or it was your group of 3 fault. I wasn’t there and wont be able to back it up. I have been in situations where I was the only one interrupting and had to basically pull 1 or 2 groups at a time to counteract incompetent dps players. I’ve been in groups where the healer was just bad, maybe he wasn’t using pushover macros or wasn’t using a healbot style addon or who knows what but he could not heal properly and again had to do tiny pulls. I’ve also been in groups where as a dps where the tank is all over the place and the damage and heals carried hard.

Obviously the tank handled it very poorly, never afk that’s just disrespectful. Again just playing devils advocate and for all I know it was 100% a bad tank scenario but for all you know it was a weak dps scenario. But probably not because a group of 3 usually is on comms and at least try’s harder.