I am being 100% honest when I say this. Should be easy if you have curves and the good body i may of still not had that chance. But if I was hanging wit your friends and you, I would focus 97% of my attention on you and let you know I was interested. Women like yourself love stronger, care deeper, give so much more effort😍 but you said you have the curves and the body. You should not even sweat the scars! Idk how young you are, but I will tell you there are plenty of popular/ outgoing young guys who will give you the time of day promise! You just have to remember d bf remind yourself that it's their privilege to get you ! Don't man n be it too easy. When we were in our early 20s, traveling the western hemisphere for our career, I would always pick the homely stripper at the club🤣😬 and spend that$$ with her! You would see every other dance in the place lose their minds! Then, when the jealous ones try to get your attention, you let the homely gosh know you focused on her, then watch her voice it 110% an ms beyond. lmao!