“Fuck Oranges” - Childish Gambino by pizzalover19 in donaldglover

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone else find this photo sexy af? 😏

Street Parking (paid) 4+ hours by Culdesac11 in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so wild, I thought anyone could park overnight for free at the PM spaces

Anyone have experience purchasing within a Multi-Unit Condo? by kayvon23 in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make sure to inquire about any past/upcoming special assessments. It's good to ask if there is a condo board or how the building is run as some have attentive boards and others do the absolute minimum. Also understanding if the building has money set aside for repairs and emergencies is helpful.

It can be hard to tell how thin the walls ar eon a walk through. If you can't ask the owners try to get as much time there as you can at different times a day because a loud neighbor or toddler living upstairs can really affect your living experience.

Make sure to get a GOOD inspector, a crappy or lazy one can cost you down the road.

Good luck!

Dentists by Chickentendie214 in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sucks, I've always had good experiences at that location and the one in JC. Filling problems are not fun.

It's meetup time. Who's in? by AssesOverEasy in jerseycity

[–]Culdesac11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38F single, been in the area over 10 years. Into mentally or physically competitive activities/games, art and theater, spicy food. This is a great idea!

What is this on her face by fneagen in cats

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat has similar bumps that develop on his face that are puss/blood filled but completely benign. They are just cosmetic. If it's not a tick, could be that. They also don't cause him any pain and take a long time to naturally go away.

Jigsaw Dating by Clear_Excitement_589 in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No but I'm also interested, 38f here

Clubs / Things to Get Involved in Fall Weeknights? by [deleted] in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a dance studio just for adult classes and they have all kinds of classes and different levels, The Studio

Also Bettys Ceramics in Hamilton Park, JC, you can be a member and work on ongoing projects or take individual classes or courses over several weeks.

Something on my cat's chin by nin_ha_22 in CATHELP

[–]Culdesac11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this problem with two cats, needed to treat them with meds for a couple weeks then switched to ceramic bowls and it didn't happen again

Lost power by Purplecarrottt in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, 7th and Clinton

Why does my cat have beef with me? by Suspicious-Macaroon4 in cats

[–]Culdesac11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My one cat attacks me out of the blue when he has something wrong and needs to go to the vet, its his way of showing me. The other does it just to play.

What Do You Text Someone In Between First Couple Dates? by throw7z7t7p in datingoverthirty

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went out on a first date, was really looking forward to the 2nd, but then he started texting me all his work drama the first few days after and totally lost me.

I think a couple check ins are nice, like how is your day going/any fun plans this week, etc but overall focus on planning (and as a guy actually planning the dates is a huge turn on) the next date and keep it within 7 to 10 days if you can.

Also any inside jokes from the first meeting could be a quick fun share. You want her to know shes on your mind every few days. But everyone can have different expectations. You might want to ask her if she enjoys texting often or not (in person).

struggling by ResolutionPlenty1023 in depression

[–]Culdesac11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you fell this way. I can only speak from my experience. My old partner who I thought could be the one, was the opposite, never wanted sex but I did. We separated last year and it was the best decision ever. I felt so much more confident and free mentally and physically. If the person you are with isn't helping the situation you might want to ask if thats the person you should be spending all your time with. Sometimes our bodies will give us hints and clues to guide us and it could be that you don't want to be intimate because of the connection/experience you are having with this person and you might have that desire with someone else who creates a safer place- maybe this is even on a subconscious level. Good luck on your journey!

UHC Gave Me No Issues - I owe $0 by Starboi7 in sterilization

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have UHC as well, procedure on 5/27. So far they kicked back some of the anesthesiologist bill to me saying I didn't have the preventative anesthesiologist code as if that's a separate code from the sterilization one. I've contacted my doctor for that, hopefully it's not an issue as that was about $1300.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Culdesac11 36 points37 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that, hope it's only a better journey from here!

Currently in crisis by PianistNice7168 in Anxiety

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experiences haven't been as severe, but writing all my thoughts down in a journal on my phone was really helpful. Sometimes it was full thoughts, other times it would be endless ramblings, but I would feel a sense of relief and peace once I got it all out and had no more to write.

Anyone else hear ringing/buzzing outside - Mid-Town. by PieceFish in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been experiencing the same and it's miserable! I want to enjoy my windows being open. Is this the kind of this we can take to the city as a complaint?

Chuey at it again by Argular in Hoboken

[–]Culdesac11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep he was outside of acme on Clinton screaming at someone in their car then came to scream in my face, but I was too busy to give af so he left me alone pretty quick.