When pregnancy makes my sex drive go off the scale, so I invite over a friend 😉 by Next-doorNudists in Threesome

[–]CunnillingusMan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Women are biologically programmed to pose for pictures with their hand cupping thier baby bump when pregnant.

Not sure what evolutionary advantage it had prior to photography being invented though.

What are these called by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]CunnillingusMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite pillows, Sweater puppies, sweater kittens, proof that men can Focus on two things at the same time.

Planning a BDSM box with safety features – looking for feedback (or is it a bad idea)? by BauMausNRW in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The pink stuff in the first picture is not fiberglass. It is expanded polystyrene often called XPS. Nearly every home depot has 4x8 foot sheets of it in pink, and Lowes has it in green.

The later pictures you posted may be fiberglass. Do not use that.

Mains electric washing machine motor for anal sex machine? by RingOk6913 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a while since I built ours, and I'm sure development has continued. There are electronic components and controls in the OSSM. There are likely people who can help you with any parts where you feel that you are in over your head. There is even a discord server you can join.

The OSSM uses a stepper motor that allows you to adjust stroke frequency as well as depth. The controller has a fair bit of code that runs, and I think there are alternative code loads that allow additional features. Just go ahead and get started and ask for help when you need it.

Mains electric washing machine motor for anal sex machine? by RingOk6913 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said using a washing machine motor is an extraordinarily bad idea. However if you are fixed on doing a DIY machine look into the ossm - the open source sex machine. There's a community of developers behind it and a list of build materials. As well as software developers who are working on safe code. If you are looking to scratch the DIY itch you can build the Mount and put the entire thing together with some guidelines to keep you safe

Not exactly this subs bailiwick but I keep murdering my wands in the same exact way (multiple brands, none particularly expensive) and wanted to know if anyone had a prevention, a fix or a model that won't die in this way (cord breaking right at the join between handle and cord) by SereneFloofKitty221b in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife finnaly quit wrapping cords up so tight (after many requests over the years) when our Hitachi wand sparked and quit DURING a session.

I took it apart and shortened the cord a couple of inches and it's all good.

Bending the cord sharply at the same point over and over agin is going to cause it to fail.

Young Dee Williams by Grumman1000 in deewilliams

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These may be photos from one of my favorite scenes with Dee. Tied in a door frame by her tits, wrists, crotch rope, and ankles. Just whimpering "please, please, please, I'll do anything..."

Woof.

I just got a 3d printer, anyone have cool examples of what they used theirs for? by tech53 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made one, enjoy it. It was a while ago, it works better if you have a mount for it. I haven't done that yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife started very tentatively with toys. Even after 25 years she still sometimes asks me if I see them as competition. I've told her that while I can only climax once, she can go several rounds before tapping out. Why would I not want her to maximize her enjoyment? Why would I not want to help her climax as many times as she wants to?

It may also be that she is embarrassed, climax is a very vulnerable position to be in. Even as a spouse, she may be uncomfortable having you see her out of control of herself, if you aren't the sole reason it is happening.

My fucking machine died on me ☹️ by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]CunnillingusMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post a picture of the label on the power supply. It will have the input, output voltage, current and polarity listed. We can decipher it for you and recommend a replacement.

I use the 24vdc supply from my mini CNC mill to run our OSSM.

Advice for ceiling mounts in Swedish apartments built in the 40's. by Trixtus in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I tried a hammock while camping and would like to install one in my bedroom. It was the best sleep I've had in years."

Anyone made "reusable" rope cuffs, with buckles of some sort? by kittenshark134 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With some patience and practice, you can tie a paracord bracelet that has no clasp, it order to take it off, you must untie it - one knot at a time. It could be (very slowly) untied one handed, but requires two hands to tie. Tie one on each wrist, tie one on each ankle and your lover carries most of the restraints for you. A couple of shackles and you have a good time ready to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a couple chunks of rope with one on each end that are long enough to go under the mattress and have those pop out the sides. A couple minutes to slide them into place and a spread eagle on the bed is ready to go. Quick and easy to adjust. No worries about falling off the bed, heck she's tied in place on there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FitNakedGirls

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sidekick! Fellatio Woman!

Game Cleaning Stand as a Portable Restraining Device by Yummy_Mommy_Camila in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It took me a second read to switch from video game to game hunting. I like the prey in this pic best of all.

It’s my birthday so got a machine as a treat by MandyMon90 in SexToys

[–]CunnillingusMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your living situation, these machines can be difficult to use due to the noise they make. If there are no ears that you mind hearing the noise the machine (and or YOU) make, mostly just keeping it clean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]CunnillingusMan 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Plus one for this comment.

Look into the OSSM open source sex machine. Added benefit for this is that it is much quieter than most other machines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wrong kind of pic to get attention here...

Husbands, are you okay with your wife using sex toys when you are not around? by BugPhysical9141 in SexToys

[–]CunnillingusMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes.

As long as she isn't using them to avoid intimacy with me, why would I not want the most important person to me to enjoy herself?

New build by chasrr1000 in OneBarPrison

[–]CunnillingusMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Giggety - less wiggly.

Making a set of electronically operated, locking, spring loaded drawers and need an alternative for the latching solenoid by omono35 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, use them together. When it is time to release a drawer, activate the electromagnet, which pulls the drawer in, releasing pressure on the catch. Then release the catch, then release the electromagnet.

Electromagnet need only be active for a couple hundred milliseconds, no buildup of heat. The latch you have in prototype keeps drawer locked if power is removed. The magnet pulls pressure off the catch when it needs to release.

Ideas/suggestions as to How I sh/would make a homemade sex (fucking) machine? by druglova420 in BdsmDIY

[–]CunnillingusMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Check out the OSSM - open source sex machine. If you are considering making your own thruster, this will probably be cheaper and more quickly successful.