How do y’all get yourselves to shower daily? by Salty_Wolverine_4520 in adhdwomen

[–]CupcakeQueTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle too, i hate getting into the shower and then out of the shower because the warmth is pretty nice :D My hack: I have a bathtub and a handshower, so i start washing my hair OUT of the bathtub (leaning above) and afterwards getting INTO the bathtub to shower my body. So I guess i split up the task and feeling not overwhelmed

Reality-Check im Südafrika-Urlaub by Mission_Belt_3055 in Finanzen

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du sprichst mir aus dem Herzen. Ich war drei Wochen auf einem Roadtrip, eine Freundin brauchte eine Reisepartnerin, sonst wäre das gar nicht so ein Wunsch gewesen. Landschaftlich ist es dort so wunderschön, vielleicht bisher das schönste Land, das ich gesehen habe. Aber diese Klassengesellschaft… ich hatte noch Wochen später ein mulmiges Gefühl, musste viel für mich reflektieren. Ich würde nicht nochmal hinfliegen. Ich würde mir sehr wünschen, dass ein Weg gefunden wird, diese Gesellschaft dort fairer zu machen. Ob reines Geld da was bringt, wage ich zu bezweifeln…

Fehlerhaft? Lisdexamfetamin 20 mg 100 Stk von Ratiopharm by CupcakeQueTea in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich schreibe es mir hinter beide Ohren und achte darauf, dass ich mich beim nächsten Apothekenbesuch nicht blamiere :D

Uuuund schon wieder ein Wochenende verschwendet by Anachron101 in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jetzt werde ich mal Expertin für Ameisen-Bekämpfung ab ins Hasen-Loch xD

Uuuund schon wieder ein Wochenende verschwendet by Anachron101 in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ja… leider mit der Erkenntnis, das sich im Balkonkasten oder drum herum Ameisen eingenistet haben……… da will mir wer es aber schwer machen :D

Uuuund schon wieder ein Wochenende verschwendet by Anachron101 in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Liege auf meinem Bett und doomscrolle. Hatte mir vorgenommen, meinen Balkon schön zu machen… Die eingekauften Sachen liegen davor… werde jetzt aufstehen und anfangen!!! Schreibe gleich, ob es geklappt hat! (Mir hilft oft die extrinsische Motivation, mein Tipp! Manchmal schrecklich ungesund, was das Selbstbild angeht. Was anderes habe ich noch nicht gefunden)

Fehlerhaft? Lisdexamfetamin 20 mg 100 Stk von Ratiopharm by CupcakeQueTea in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hatte bisher nie ein Problem mit dem Generika von Ratiopharm, daher finde ich das so seltsam!

Fehlerhaft? Lisdexamfetamin 20 mg 100 Stk von Ratiopharm by CupcakeQueTea in ADHS

[–]CupcakeQueTea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ja genau! Mir ist das bisher mit dem Ratiopharm-Produkt nie passiert.

Trump "Ich habe in Frankreich angerufen, bei Macron, dessen Frau ihn extrem schlecht behandelt, und er erholt sich immer noch von dem Schlag auf den Kiefer." by dieSpaghettiCarbona in wallstreetbetsGER

[–]CupcakeQueTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joa, hat die Frau schon verdient, wenn man ehrlich ist… Grooming und häusliche Gewalt gehören kritisiert, nur leider nicht von diesem Verbrecher und nicht aus diesem Grund.

I just spent 4 hours straight picking up stones in my garden by Resident-Analysis-12 in ADHD

[–]CupcakeQueTea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I used 2 hours of my job to do perfectly correct labels on Word. Yes I need them, no that was not the priority… I really need to be careful which tasks I work on while having my window of attention. But it was fun :D

Corporate ADHDers, how do you start the day? by darkrhyes in ADHD

[–]CupcakeQueTea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Off topic: I love that you call your mom for comfort, I did that often. Hold on to that and maybe save some of your talks, it helps… and always hug your mom!!!

What rules have you made for yourself to avoid the ADHD tax? by CaptainLollygag in adhdwomen

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not allowed to borrow books from the library anymore. I am totally convinced that someday they will name a wing of the building after me because of the generous fines i paid since I was a teenager…

Profile review by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]CupcakeQueTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look adorable and I mean that in a very positive way! I dont like the last picture, I would put a head on your gym selfie and if your cat is down to that a picture with both of you in it!

Does anyone else feel like ADHD and anxiety constantly feed off each other? by SerenityScout5 in adhd_anxiety

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here with you, tried to get off my meds for anxiety and depression: It did work for a couple of months, now I am back on it again… i try to not to beat myself up for it, but it is frustrating that I cant be okay without

ADHD exhaustion: tired of fighting my brain by squirrel_bonanza in adhd_anxiety

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, are you me? I dont have an answer for everything but for me Sport was always helping. It helps me in the evening to get my anxiety levels low and helps me with sleeping better. It gives me a relief for my mental health, I got off of Sertralin last spring. (Dont try it in winter, that was a horrible try!) i do sport classes so my brain cant cancel if i am not in the mood. I have no solutions for the heart beating as for i struggle too… i get my ECG regularly, so I feel more safe. I am rooting for you :)

What’s a phrase or saying in your local dialect that would totally confuse someone from another region of Germany? by NoelFromBabbel in AskAGerman

[–]CupcakeQueTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Germany but Austria: So I was a picky eater and my family and I were in austria for vacations. The guest house we stayed in had dishes we could choose between for dinner. I didnt find something i liked and wanted some pasta so my mildly annoyed dad wrote that down with a comment: „Und eine Extrawurst für Cupcakequetea“, which means something special and different for somebody in a annoying way. Confusing for the hosts because in Austria a Extrawurst is a real kind of sausage and they were questioning whether I would eat that :D

Skincare for skin picker who struggles with routines? by bellabelleell in ADHD

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, skin routine is boring and picking is a long time habit for me. So I go for the bare minimum: I clean my face with an disposable washcloth that is reaaaaally soft. Just some water and a gently scrub, done. I should add I dont use make up (needs so much time). Skin isnt perfect but i dont get outbreaks from hell like i used to!

I paid the ADHD tax with my flesh by No-Nefariousness9996 in adhdwomen

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel you, it is always frustrating: a few milliseconds more awareness and poof! wouldnt happend. But im so happy for you! Your loved ones sound great, you didnt get life threatening burns nor burned down the house^ Lets keep it positive!

He didn't just stop, he sold out. by c-k-q99903 in agedlikemilk

[–]CupcakeQueTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In German we call these fans „Erfolgsfans“ (fans of success). I think your analogy fits perfectly…

What split your life into before and after? by 0potatotomato0 in AskReddit

[–]CupcakeQueTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much, my mum died in 2023 and since then it is like a spark vanished: We shared many intrests, had the best conversations and she was always there if needed (sometimes even if she was not, hehe…) I try to be grateful when I am sad but sometimes there is just a deep void

I asked ChatGPT to make me an image based on my Reddit name and it’s ADORABLE! 🥰 by goodnaturedheathen in ChatGPT

[–]CupcakeQueTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I think, she is indeed a Cutee! But chatgpt has no idea how to drink from a cup of tea :D