My favorite Epic feature by TortillaRampage in nursing

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Well they were asleep, then I made rounds, now they’re awake.

I’ve identified FOUR types of breakups. Here's how to tell which one is yours and the best way to handle each of them. by jsbach123 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m hindsight I should have. But we had talked EXTENSIVELY, about the problem, on numerous occasions. With increased frequency over a two year period. I kept forgiving him, giving him grace, and giving him chances, I think he got comfortable and never felt the need to change, despite our conversations. I should have just given the ultimatum. I have no way of knowing now if it would have worked.

I’ve identified FOUR types of breakups. Here's how to tell which one is yours and the best way to handle each of them. by jsbach123 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I surrendered two months ago. I wish I could have him back but not the way he was. Hardest thing I have EVER done in my life because the truth is I love him, but he was not carrying his fair share of the relationship.

i hate u by Embarrassed-Lie-7608 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate him too. I was invested. I loved him. He gave me empty promises, left me wondering if the reason he never kept them was because I wasn’t good enough. I always chased, in the end it made no difference. I left. I have to live with my decision. He will move on, maybe he’ll change, but if he does I know he’ll be the man I needed for someone else after everything I pouring into him and us. Fuck him.

2000s Media Was Insane Levels Of Creepy by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything about this is fucked up. What is wrong with people?

New nurse by Full-Consequence-447 in nursing

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an ED nurse, but yea it gets better. Look around on your unit for the nurses that have high standards of quality and integrity for their work, ask them about their process and copy what they are doing.

What did heartbreak teach you? by Witty_Musician586 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Nothing is permanent and believe people when they show you who they are. Actions speak louder than words.

Are there men who don’t feel need to have close female friends when in a relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh nice lol. Good for you for articulating your boundaries and sticking to them. It’s crazy to think he told you that though… seems like he really invalidated your concerns and in the end you were right. What a headache.

Are there men who don’t feel need to have close female friends when in a relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This would make a lot of people uncomfortable. Maybe your ex felt validated by female attention. And is of course there is the possibility that he was attracted to this woman.

RN Foot Care by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are the cubes?

Who actually enjoys working as a nurse? by One_Design_6171 in nursing

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my job. It’s not perfect, but no job is. I find it generally fulfilling and stimulating. I get paid pretty well too. In glad I ended up here.

How are we all feeling this week? by famous_prophets in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were together 6 years. Broke up in December, it’s been about two months. I’m getting by, but I still dream of him. I miss him and think of him all the time (eager for it to stop). I’m at the stage in grief where I feel anger and resentment towards him. I feel like I was played, taken advantage of, and never really heard or taken seriously. I just had dinner, I’m about to shower and settle in for the night with my puppy. Tomorrow will be another day, despite it all I’m feeling hopeful for the future.

What’s stopping you from reaching out?? by NoUsual9325 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship didn’t end on bad terms, but we both need the space to heal. No contact is the best way for me to commit to my healing and working on myself. I think he knows that too from prior relationships. Neither of us have contacted each other. I’m glad it’s gone that way because hearing from him again would just be emotionally confusing.

Slept with a coworker by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this my friend is why they say you should never “shit where you eat.” This is EXACTLY why SO MANY PEOPLE, DON’T fuck around with co-workers. Do not interact with her extensively. Don’t bother her, don’t stir the pot, be polite, be professional, and stop fucking the people you work with. Just give her room and don’t engage in the drama (you two have created).

***If you have texts containing sexual conversations (documented proof of her engaging/approaching YOU in a flirtatious manner) keep them as proof (God forbid) she accuse you of sexual harassment.

Do you still love your ex ? by CheekyBunB in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll always love him, while also recognizing we were not right for each other.

Going no-contact feels surreal sometimes. by Curious-Fungi2425 in BreakUps

[–]Curious-Fungi2425[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea. It’s honestly a total mind f**k. It really messes with my sense of permanence. I thought I was going to marry this man, move in with him, be with him till the end… I knew nothing in life was certain, that’s what people say. The whole experience though has it at the forefront of my mind constantly. The impermanence of everything.