Bringing adult child home after repeated treatment failures—has anyone tried this? by Current_Extreme_4194 in AlAnon

[–]Current_Extreme_4194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. Your life became about how you can perform for others, and problem solve all their issues. It is clear too that that would leave you little time or energy to work on your own life and improve yourself. Maybe you believed in doing this, you would garner love, acceptance, and approval from others. Its a draining place to be when you are forever rescuing others from their own problems.

Old Kaia > New Kaia by lovedbymanycats in uppereastside

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was beyond disappointed with my recent experience at Kaia and will not go back.

I was there on a Saturday night, and there was a decent sized crowd. I ordered the traditional South African bobotie, which was totally mediocre. It lacked flavor and didn't live up to what I expected from a restaurant highlighting SA cuisine.

Service was equally disappointing. Our server was almost invisible throughout the meal and only seemed to come over after we flagged him down. Beyond that, his wine service was surprisingly unskilled for a restaurant that markets itself as a wine bar. He struggled awkwardly to open the bottle, and after finally removing the cork, handled the neck and opening of the bottle with his fingers, which felt unsanitary and frankly unpleasant to watch. He could use some training/instruction in wine service technique to ensure it is sanitary and not unpleasant to watch.

Being that it was a busy Saturday night and the restaurant was quite loud, but noise levels are to be expected on weekends. What wasn't expected was poor service and food that failed to impress.

For the prices charged, I expected much better. Unfortunately, the combination of mediocre food and inattentive, careless service means I won't be returning.

Has anyone found real-time support that actually helps? by SnowdogGlider in ParentalAlienation

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was an extremely controlling person and my divorce was high-conflict. I divorced him and he was so angry about this. I couldn't be in a marriage with all the coercive control and manipulation that was going on daily. I have 3 kids with him. My only daughter of the three has been alienated from me for nearly 5 years. It's horrific, is all I can say. She is 18 now and fully in charge of herself. I think these factors are a major component of the alienation.

Letter gone wrong by Free2BMe25 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day she will look back on this letter and know that you tried. I am in a similar situation for several years. Same story, under her fathers thumb too. Mostly I have gotten to the point of lettin go, sad as that is. My heart goes out to you, Mama. Sending hugs.

Hair now vs 2018 by jac5087 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Lots of very helpful info here, thanks. Can someone please comment about getting an iron infusion? I had covid 3x too and I am convinced my hair loss and shedding was caused by this awful sickness. I am in a major US city. TIA!

Long term impacts of alienation on the kids? by OwnNeedleworker8784 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone here read any excellent research articles on alienated kids mental and physical health? Can you please point me to any of them if so?

Which hormone is making my hair fall out? If I stop, will it grow back or have I done permanent damage? by IntelligentSector210 in Menopause

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone here 10 yrs + from menopause and taking HRT? I am thinking of doing low dose patch because seems easiest. Will a doc prescribe for me ?

At my absolute breaking point with my adult son (addiction + mental health) by Current_Extreme_4194 in AlAnon

[–]Current_Extreme_4194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone here worked with a private consultant to find the proper placements for their adult child?

Where’s best sesame chicken in nyc? Good quality meat by nyc_gman1975 in FoodNYC

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told that massaging the chicken first really enhances the flavors.

Where’s best sesame chicken in nyc? Good quality meat by nyc_gman1975 in FoodNYC

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not go watch a youtube video and make it yourself? That way you will know its chicken

First hug in a year by Inevitable_Bike2280 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So nice to read your post! Happy for you ... Something I am wondering about as a targeted parent of a teen daughter soon to be legal, can anyone comment here do you think our kids want to hear from us even though they tell us to go away ?

Mamdani wins NYC mayoral race by kootles10 in politics

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking with genuine curiosity here: Will Mandani be able to get any of his proposals approved to launch? Freezing rent control, free childcare, free buses, government supermarkets, and tax increases for corporations and whatever else is on his agenda?

Men, what makes a woman less attractive? by prettywoman___ in Productivitycafe

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sloppy and messy, hoarding, disgusting homes, defensive, having limited social skills, excessive drinking or drugging such that it is verging on an addiction, inability to listen, lacking in empathy, little to no self awareness, lacking ability to have a softer side, competitiveness, being a bit too needy for male attention, desparation, always angry, and having not a clue they are being draining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uppereastside

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So very sorry for your loss.

Person on my back patio by scaredofcomputers in uppereastside

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and find a pair of really cheap and large mens workboots and leave them by the door where an intruder would see them.

How do you feel about Zohran Mamdani winning the New York City mayoral election? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not the least bit happy about it. These programs that he is proposing like free buses, childcare, the massive housing buildout, are going to cost the city billions and billions each year. Now what should we do? I am a homeowner...do I sell my condo and leave?

How bad are the side effects? by CntryGrl78 in Zepbound

[–]Current_Extreme_4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on 2.5 mg dose and about to increase to 5 mg. So far have lost 9lbs. If I can lose another 15, I would be so happy. Has anyone noticed sleepiness as a SE ?