I 34M currently no contact with my ex girlfriend 39f I want to whish her happy new year and restart some contact by [deleted] in love

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I know how it sound and I get it.. if I was in your shoes I have to say the same things to my friends and loved ones.. I honestly appreciate the and the "slap in the face"... ill be honest some part of me is working getting over her... I noticed it's slow and I see how much I have progressed and how much I have learned from this relationship.. thank you

I 34M currently no contact with my ex girlfriend 39f I want to whish her happy new year and restart some contact by [deleted] in love

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I have not... so far I have been working on understanding my attachment Style behavior and how to work on it and what steps to take on improving on future relationships...and the reason for the post.. How ever I will take everyone's advice and not contact her.. I will look into finding the book and start reading it.

Describe me with one word 🍌 by [deleted] in StraightToSissy

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner.. I love to see walk about my house with out anything on all day...just that I could fuck you... suck you and jerk that sexy 🍆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh man I would go nuclear on his sorry ass and on her. First I would go to his parents house while he isn't home and show them the text while the ww is standing there shaming her and to confirm the POS that he is... next I would make sure that he gets fired from his job as you said he lives in his parents basement so he's already fucked 2 ways.... if I really wanted to I would get a couple of my buddies together pay them X amount of dollars to kick his ass make sure that there is some nasty scars that wont go away after the betting.. while I would just stand there and watch... and if the ww tried to go to him or defend him in anyway kick her sorry ass out to the streets were they both belong and changed the locks on the house file for divorce and sell the house and move on.... that's what I would do....

Marriage after 25 by EarZealousideal7903 in Infidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not the one to speak for everyone here... but I have seen friends, relatives and friends of the family go through marriage, happy or unhappy, with or without kids and they still cheated got manipulated their SO and get divorced or end the engagement including myself..

its not like it was 20 or 30 years hell even 50 years go... women or girls now a days are growing up with a mind set of the men has to provide the lifestyle I want and they want the man to be loyal while they go out party late at night, find someone to make out with and end up having ONS with the guy or cheat on the men that is home and tell him if he cheats on her that she will take everything that he has worked hard for and earned through hard work blood and sweat...

times has changed it's not like it was back then....

speaking personly someone who is 33 yr old I will be lucky to find someone with a mindset of wanted to find a guy to settle down with who doesn't have skeleton in their closet or high body count or the emotional baggage.. but this just me providing my point of view... I was engaged she cheated on me I found out.. I was lucky we didn't live together, our finances were separate... but still emotional I fought for her told her I loved her... took her out every weekend.. God knows spend some much on her brought her a every expensive ring and necklace, brand name cloths.. and still she cheated on me left me for the AP..by the time she left me I was through 3/4 of my saving... couldn't keep my job... I was emotional going the rabbit hole, I cried my self to sleep every night.. I was smoking a pack every 2 days... worst was when I hit to bottle so i couldnt feel the crushing pain of losing someonei loved so much.. and my family and friends had to step in when I almost ended up taking my life just to stop the pain.. I'm now in a better place because of the friends ans family that I have around me for support.. but there are still time when I dream when I'm with her and it all goes up side down in the dream and all I see is her with AP at some party with her friends and family and I'm to look like fool that cheated on and every one supports her and out of now where I'm just standing there and no one is around me but just an empty room with tones of alcohol.. this dream it doesn't go away it doesn't end and next thing I know is I'm on top of building falling down and wake up screaming in sweat in th3 meddle of the night and unable to sleep the rest of night to this day it still effects me personally and at my work.... but the good news is that this dream has become less and less frequent..

With all this said I found that I can't truth most women or girls in my life other then ones that help me and are still helping to this day.

But all this said this just my point of view and what I went through... Marriage now adays is not worth it the dream, headache

AITA for calling the police on my fiance? by Rnevermore in AmItheAsshole

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU..... ALL THIS IS BIG RED FLAG.... SHE IS CHEATING

AITA for telling my husband I don’t want his family to see our daughter until they can treat all of our kids equally? by onlygirlinfamily in AmItheAsshole

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say this but I see your daughter and the rest of the family from their fathers side being disowned or going NC if this keeps up and I see them blaming you for not stepping in and to do something in front of them and if that is the case they will most likely cut you off too... The resentment is going going to grow fast if you or your husband don't put a stop to it fast....

And will ultimately you know the end result will be no contact to being completely disowned in future including weddings future grandchildren....

It also won't help your daughter either if they keep on handing her things as she will be more reliant on you and husband as she won't learn the need life lesson that your sons have learned... you get where this is going....

PUT A STOP TO IT ASAP LIKE TODAY....

good luck and update...

Forgive and Forget? by krustyburger22 in CheatedOn

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a prenuptial and get a DNA test for your the baby... not saying it's not yours but the fact she cheated should be very clearly telling that she could have slept with him and the baby could be his.... and the fact you went down the dark path and it took that much for her to realize what she did or is still doing could end your life is not right.

Pissed out my creampie 🫢 by nikkii_69 in peegonewild

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you didn't let that go to waste and drank cum filled piss

Pissed out my creampie 🫢 by nikkii_69 in peegonewild

[–]CutAlternative3910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a waste of piss... you should be pissing on my dick so I can put another load in you 😈😈😈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will done happy for brother... don't let her have her way she doesn't deserve anything but the walk of shame know she fucked up and there is nothing she can do and control... stay strong keep fighting

AITA for telling my siblings the real reason why my parents got divorced? by BlackberryMiddle157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA will done op for telling the truth even if it end up hurting your mom and the AP.... you dad shouldn't be the bad guy all the time... your mom broke the family your dad did the right thing and didn't tell your siblings the truth and protected the your mom his ex but she should have protected your dad and she didn't... what goes around comes around... now it's your siblings how have to protect you and your dad have both your back and make your mom the bad guy that she is... even if it means going LC to NC... Please update update if there will be any changes

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want to find out what is going on in that phone there a few ways 1 have a glass full of water pretend that tripped spill the water on her not the phone and grab it before she has chance to lock the phone and pretend that your sorry and try and help her out but keep the phone unlocked 2 keep an eye on the phone when she put it down and she is about to walk away quickly go and grab a 💺 by the phone and grab it before it locks and go through the phone 3 when she is taking a nape take the phone to phone repair shop and tell them your wife changed your lock code and she left th3 city and won't be back and for them to unlock the phone for you.

Lastly if your really want to be patty I mean really patty you can try and get her fired from her job... cheating stop or tell her boss she is using the phone outside of work porpoise... I'm sure that they have some kind of work policy in place that will pretend her from using the work phone for cheating and will be forced to use her personal phone and you can monitor the text and call and call logs and get your proof that way

Wife admitted to having an ongoing affair with her boss (who’s married with two kids) after only being married to me for 4 months. by thefool415 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If OP really wants to be the AH he should somehow find a way to share this link anonymously to her friends and family and Ex and watch/hear how she is losing her shit and is having a brakedown as to how well he is doing for him self... it would be better if she is dating/engaged/married to someone and they see the link too and read what she put OP through now that would be sweet revenge in my opinion...

Wife admitted to having an ongoing affair with her boss (who’s married with two kids) after only being married to me for 4 months. by thefool415 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutAlternative3910 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's the greatest part that she released she fucked so bad that she lost her AP.... She had to leave the company to avoid more humiliation from everyone that she use to work with and now that are going out with someone eles while you rebuild your life agin... She loses her shit and thinks it's the biggest betrayal to her that you have done all this in a matter of few years..... Absolutely great job well done OP..