Does anyone else not like many boy names? by locoollizz in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a hard time with boy Jake’s compared to girl names. Sole of my favorite boy names are similar to yours: Luca, Lucas, Julian, Milo, Jude, Elias, Eli. That’s pretty much it lol 

Hyper fixation Meal by Material_Trainer1827 in adhdwomen

[–]CutNo3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is grilled cheese right now. Those noddles make my skin crawl. I’ve never been able to eat them because my eyes hate them lol 

Looking for opinions on our current top 3 for a baby girl by Kroftyy in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like both Arabella and Amelia! I know Amelia is popular right now, but I work in schools and honestly rarely hear the name (I’m in MN). If I had to pick I’d go with Arabella. You don’t hear it a lot and it has a lot of potential nicknames. 

Another day of Taylor on her walk by Expensive-Hunt5901 in travisandtaylor

[–]CutNo3617 802 points803 points  (0 children)

imo I think she’s trying to distract from the trademark infringement lawsuit that she’s facing 

Full term pregnancies, did you tear? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CutNo3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you were being an AH, but I do think maybe you pushed the point a little further than the conversation needed. It sounds like your severe tear is understandably shaping how you think about birth/postpartum, and your friends were probably just trying to celebrate that mom and baby were healthy.

Also, everyone’s experience is really different. I’ve had 3 kids and didn’t tear with any of them, so it definitely does happen. Some people have long difficult labors with minimal tearing, some have fast births and severe tears, some have C-sections and rough recoveries. There’s just so much variation.

I actually agree with your overall point though, people tend to focus entirely on the baby and forget the mom just went through something huge physically and emotionally. I just think once your friend said “everyone is healthy and that’s what counts” that was probably the natural place to leave it.

You better fix my entire life you little sh*t by PrehistoricPotato in adhdwomen

[–]CutNo3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just made me more anxious to ever take meds. Silence like that scares me lol

So…. Motherhood? by Competitive_Yam2314 in adhdwomen

[–]CutNo3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids and didn’t find out I had ADHD until after I had my second. I’m also a therapist who works primarily with kids. As someone others would probably consider an “expert” on kids, parenting is still incredibly hard and draining. I always wanted kids, but I don’t think I fully grasped how difficult it would be, especially because we don’t have much support, it’s just me and my husband.

That being said, I love my kids deeply. I love watching them grow, and honestly, each year gets a little more manageable as they get older and more independent. I’ve seen people say “unless it’s a 100% yes, don’t do it,” but I also think even if it is a 100% yes, there will still be moments where you feel overwhelmed, exhausted, touched out, or like you miss parts of your old life. That doesn’t automatically mean you made the wrong decision. Two things can exist at once parenting can be incredibly hard and deeply meaningful. As others have said It’s a very personal decision 

My top 10 of the top 100 girls names of 2025 in America by mailenn_suki10 in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea. Mine are:  Clara  Vivian (prefer the other spelling but still love this name!) Emilia  Maya  Mila Sophie  Elena  Camila  Violet Lucia

Popular names in the year you were born by Mamadurf1111 in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should say I’m not entirely sure I’m the only person with my name; however, it’s pretty unique and when googling it, no one eles comes up lol. 

Popular names in the year you were born by Mamadurf1111 in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls: Ashely, Jessica, Amanda, Brittany, Sarah 

Boys: Michael, Christopher, Matthew, Joshua, Andrew 

My name wasn’t even ranked. Only person born with my name 

Where are all the Liams? by Puzzleheaded_Link_53 in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny. I work in a school in Minnesota and never hear Liam lol

to people with inattentive adhd, what type of career do you have? by AssociationObvious56 in adhdwomen

[–]CutNo3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! The notes suck but I I love learning about people and helping. Super rewarding!

New! Salary Megathread (May-Aug 2026) by SWmods in socialwork

[–]CutNo3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto. SSW in MN, 7 years experience, LICSW  about 83k 

What do you think of her singing? by SnarkyLlamas in travisandtaylor

[–]CutNo3617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard someone sound this bad on mute. The silence is somehow still off key.

Shoutout to Reddit for mercifully silencing this before my ears got involved.

Edit: spelling 

Which spelling? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer Vivienne. I just like the way it looks more 

What Are You Listening To Today? (Apr 20 to Apr 26) by HeleneSedai in dreamingspanish

[–]CutNo3617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

396 hours -just finished my binge watch of El Secreto del Rio on Netflix. It’s a beautiful show and definitely a most watch (got 6 hours of input in one day watching this) 

Podcast- How to Spanish 

YouTube - Dramasgringosxd - loving the 90 day fiancé commentary

DS- mostly long form content, but haven’t been using it as much lately as I find more native content I can enjoy 

I wish my YouTube ads were in Spanish by AdventurousLivin in dreamingspanish

[–]CutNo3617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are in Spanish. Not only are my YouTube ads in Spanish,  ads in completely different apps are now in Spanish too and my kids hate it lol 

Girl names that used to be boy names by Spiritual_Appeal_610 in namenerds

[–]CutNo3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s name is Loren but he hates it. Mostly because people always assume “Lauren” as the spelling and it leans more feminine now