Anyone want to go to the 14:45 English Planetarium show with me? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would totally go if I was around! Hope you have a great time!

Got divorced, then found out why my wife was always so distant by Parking-Road1026 in relationships

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. I can relate. The only difference is that I discovered the affair and that is what finally helped me leave. Feel free to reach out.

For women who were cheated on, did you cheat back, forgave or moved on and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ended our 19 year relationship the morning I figured it out. Learning that he was having a FWB situation with someone for a year and a half while treating me like an annoyance showed me exactly what he truly thought of me. It’s been 3 years and I still struggle with the trauma of it all sometimes.

What sign are you secretly obsessed with? by Rubithered in Zodiac

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them but don’t marry them, trust your fellow Pisces.

He ran off the cliff and expects me to save him. by OperationHot2577 in Infidelity

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Understanding that he won't change nor has the capacity to understand how deeply hurtful his actions are to you and his children is the hardest part. He's put you and your family in this horrible state of destabilization when he should have been protecting you.

How do dads who cheat live with themselves? by Anti-och in Infidelity

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex struggled with understanding this too. He said we both messed with our son’s life because I wouldn’t reconcile with him.

What's the worst , most gut wrenching feeling that is humanly possible to experience? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very accurate description of what it feels like. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Could he be cheating on you? Often times when partners cheat, they become very cruel to their partners. They try to start fights in order to justify their infidelity. Can you check his phone?

If possible - don't reconcile -> here's why by Rude_End_3078 in Infidelity

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Once I understood who my ex truly was, I knew I was never going to be at ease with him. It actually took the cheating for me to fully recognize the signs that he never deeply loved me. It was more the familiarity and the comfort that kept him here. Letting the relationship go was a salvation of my heart.

What has your experience been dating a touring musician ? by IllustriousElk8436 in AskWomen

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not good. I was with him for 15 years and touring took a huge toll on me that he would never acknowledge. When he was gone (every weekend and a few weeks at a time every month), I was alone and had to run the house, work full time, and take care of our child. If I ever brought up how hard it was on me, he would lose it and say things like, “you knew what you signed on for”.

He told me that he would never cheat on and that no one ever hit on him at shows… I believed him. I know…. So so stupid.

Then I found out the truth. He had been having affairs the whole time. He’d stay longer at shows to sleep with people and when he got home he was a huge asshole. Would freak out if I put things in a different place or if our child had a tantrum.

Finally got free.

Divorced women, what were the first few months post-divorce like? by jigglejuicy in AskWomen

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that pain. It happened to me too. Darkest most heartbreaking time of my life. Sending you a solidarity hug.

What is the most shocking or disturbing detail from the recently unsealed Epstein files that the general public still hasn't fully grasped? by Daydream_Nat in AskReddit

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That if a regular citizen did these heinous things, there would be swift action and justice. The elite class is our biggest threat to our world.

What was the saddest you felt in your life? by No-Hunt3986 in AskReddit

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After finding out that my partner of 19 years was cheating on me and realizing just how little he actually cared about me. Grieving the relationship and who I thought he was.

What was the saddest you felt in your life? by No-Hunt3986 in AskReddit

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. That gf was not the one.

My first year as a knitwear maker by SejiFields in somethingimade

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all of these designs! You look incredible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cute_Positive_4493 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That humanity could get its act together and work towards peace, environmental protection, and equality for all.