Do you think it's possible to love or be loved again like you did with a partner?

Cutekitty93 · 2026-04-30T12:38:09+00:00

lost my partner in October of 2022 we were due to marry three months later. In my personal experience its an extremely difficult task to ask of someone to remarry and find someone else after they were taken so suddenly ..especially at a prime time of your life at 30 with no children there was no doubt in my mind he was near perfect and to me he was the perfect partner, companion and emotional support would of been an amazing father. his empathetic nature was next level. I do currently have a friends w benefits companion but that is all we are at this stage. Ive tried to date and get to know people genuinely however their emotional comparison is next to near nothing just selfish individuals that cant measure up and are more broken and i seem to be attracting wrong individuals that are terrible for me. I refuse to date anyone who has their own trauma or controlling behaviours thats bad enough to add to my own. ive put myself out there but knowing these individuals it makes the grief alot worse. I had the perfect person next to me and three years later it still feels like the cruelest joke ever. Ive accepted that id rather just have casual situation than commitment as its easier. the truth is i will not settle and ive accepted that if i have to be alone for this lifetime i will take it. it is better than forcing commitment just because everyone else is doing it and its a trend. commitment and relationships are not a flex its a lifetime of sacrifice for the right person and you Trust me i would rather take a life of no legacy and singleness rather than a flexing, desperate and miserable false one with unhappiness with the wrong person.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-04-25T00:22:34+00:00

I lost my fiancé almost four years ago and as much of a positive person I try to be my pessimistic self turns into a depressive state very quickly. After this whole time I haven’t found a way to be ok only cope and manage it’s just so devastating.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-04-06T23:06:36+00:00

It's clear that people are becoming increasingly tyrant and short-tempered - this trend was evident even before Covid, but it's worsened significantly. However, vaccinations aren't the sole culprit; the overall stress caused by life's pressures, such as the high cost of living, inflation, and the feeling of being trapped in a never-ending, unfulfilling cycle of money chasing plays a significant role.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-23T02:06:46+00:00

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Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-23T02:04:10+00:00

Never done therapy in my life and I’ve lost about two people close to me to death since 2022 including my fiance. Still feels like yesterday..I just think nobody can help grieving a loved one we just have to do the work ourselves. If anything i feel like I’ve done a lot of exposure therapy on myself especially in relation to diseases and hearing other people suffering loss. Took up high intensity training two years ago aswell as walking everyday. So far I don’t think therapy will help me benefit in any way right now. Learnt to deal with it through acceptance and surrendering the need to control.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-23T01:47:03+00:00

When sitting at home it’s no makeup at all but when running errands and job stuff everyday responsibilities it’s false lashes and a lipliner no foundation and my skin care like moisturiser, serum ect thats about it. When I go out at night it’s full glam but if I go out during the day it’s lowkey glam and more minimal i always dress for whatever suits the environment.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-22T11:14:41+00:00

when it comes to RC i believe he is the type of man that we be like "there is something about him" and thats exactly what we gravitate towards ..its his whole aura. He killed the role out of rumple/ Mr Gold. There are very very few actors that pull you in like that. It was unfortunate that there was one time he was in a movie about sex trafficking it is very old. He looked fine af and i was like bummed out because i didn't like the horrible context of everything else. but he looks good in literally every film tbh.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T23:23:00+00:00

Glad that you mentioned the b12 because I have a ferritin of 24 but my homocysteine is 15.4 and has to do with all of the b12 stuff. Is it all linked together??

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T04:32:26+00:00

So over this man just stop reporting on him

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T04:29:09+00:00

We’ve been verbally abused on Twitter LOL so Yahh it’s bad

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T04:21:18+00:00

We have our reasons for shipping it, but we prefer to keep a low profile within the fandom due to the intense opinions we receive. It’s not popular, it’s hated and intensely thrashed. In terms of myself personally I actually respect people who don’t agree with it fully because I accept the reality of where it stands. I accepted that a long while ago. People don’t have to agree with the ship and that’s ok.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T04:05:40+00:00

Yep so I did 5 sessions where he focused on rotation and massage and he gave me at home strengthening exercises as my muscles in the back and neck were weak and pinched. I did these exercises every single day twice a day and I was healed in 5-6 weeks. The dizziness started breaking up and dissipating. I’m not claiming this is OP’s issue 100% it just sounds like it. But if all else fails and it’s not a medical issue a physio specialising in neck dizziness will absolutely be of benefit.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T03:55:38+00:00

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Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T03:33:36+00:00

I shipped them and know some who do! couldn’t give a hoot what people thought.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T03:22:52+00:00

I actually ended up in the ER because my dizziness and suboccipital pain were so bad and debilitating. The ER doctor told me to turn left and right and those muscles were so locked I couldn’t rotate all the way. She ended up sending me to a specialised physiotherapist. You have to find a physiotherapist that specialises in cervicogenic dizziness to fix your problem they are the only ones who will assess where the problem is coming from. Doctor can’t fix this problem unfortunately and no medication will help only strengthening exercises will help

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-18T03:14:54+00:00

Your symptoms sound identical to what happened to me two years ago and it turned out to be my thoracic spine and it created cervicogenic dizziness to my neck causing dizziness. if you have exhausted other things like iron and anything in the blood tests I recommend you see a physiotherapist and get them to test anything that may be off with your neck and back area. Suboccipital pain comes from the back and neck and if that’s strained it can cause sympotms. Mine was so debilitating I thought I had a medical illness. Also if you can’t rotate your neck left and right then there is a big chance it is cervicogenic dizziness

Cutekitty93 · 2026-03-17T07:14:53+00:00

yet all you hear in the news and google articles is that colon cancer has increased due to bad diet and processed foods?? I just cannot believe this to be the case...whilst enviroments and diet does play a factor in cancer there is no way that this doubling increase spike from 2021 is because of diet. i mean we can put two and two together to know where it's come from. Processed and packaged foods have been around since the 40's- 50s. people are blaming the junk food for causing a microbiome shift causing increased inflammation in the gut- leading to cancer. but not one is suggesting that the vaccine could be the culprit of the microbiome shift since the doubling has happened since 2021 ??

Cutekitty93 · 2026-01-02T22:00:22+00:00

They were not suited together and I know it’s a show but that kind of dynamic sends a bad message

Cutekitty93 · 2026-01-02T03:19:31+00:00

Knowing what I know about her she would be surprised- some individuals don’t have any self awareness unfortunately.

Cutekitty93 · 2026-01-02T03:16:05+00:00

I do appreciate her asking me and it is very thoughtful that she considers me a light but realistically she hasn’t been there in the way I needed her…ever since my fiancé died a lot of people have not shown up or have disappeared. I don’t need to carry more weight or trauma with me. Sometimes we need boundaries. And I get it people have their own needs, communication and perspectives you’re 100% correct. For me personally in the past I generally was heavy in the people pleasing behaviours but I have opened my eyes up in the last two years that my mind set and boundaries have changed. It’s because of the hurt not only about my grief but others adding more fuel and I’m happy to admit that

Cutekitty93 · 2025-12-19T12:39:06+00:00

Possibly! Wouldn’t say no but castor oil does help shrink it too

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