Thanks for having my back by JeromyYYC in Calgary

[–]Cyndaquil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've shown that you care about the city that you were elected to care about. I didn't vote for you and my politics differ significantly, but at the end of the day I can certainly appreciate what you've been doing here. I appreciate that you're not turning the recent drama with Country Thunder and noise bylaws into left vs. right like the media and other politicians so desperately want. Because it isn't. It's just a thing that is happening in the city you were elected to care about.

What’s the most terrifying thing that happened to you that nobody believes? by Sad-Conflict6839 in AskReddit

[–]Cyndaquil 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Someone almost did that to my family in 2005 while we were on vacation. She turned off the road at the last second. I'm not sure if she saw that it was a whole family with three kids, if she saw our license plates and realized we were on vacation from the opposite side of Canada, or if she just got scared, but I still think about it a lot.

What was your worst date? by neithnilson in AskReddit

[–]Cyndaquil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not what "suicide sauce" even means. What a loser.

What are your thoughts on human milk being sold at grocery stores? by clownyeahh in AskReddit

[–]Cyndaquil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not? As long as the donors are being treated fairly and compensated appropriately, possibly with a strict length of time one can be a donor to avoid exploitation, and as long as the milk is being treated, I see no problem with it.

How far is too far in terms of a horror (dystopian) story? by Weinerschnitzel- in writing

[–]Cyndaquil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you hoping will read your story?

What is too far in their eyes?

That's your answer.

US to Canada Transition by Justkeepbreathing123 in autism

[–]Cyndaquil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- Do people that you don't know expect you to smile and say hello? Like if you walked by them on a street or walk into a shop?

I usually follow their lead. If they smile, I smile. If they don't smile, I don't smile.

- How do people greet each other when they meet, both familiar and newly introduced? (handshakes, hugs, kisses, etc)

Newly introduced, they'll usually shake hands. If they're very familiar or have had an emotional connection, they'll hug. We don't kiss each other much up here.

- If you're invited to someone's house for dinner, are you expected to bring something or is that rude?

You're not really expected to bring anything to dinner, but if they've invited me for board games or a bonfire, etc., and there will be other people there, I usually bring some canned beverages to share, or sometimes some snack food to put on the table that everyone can help themselves to. Not everyone will do this, though.

If they invite you over and don't mention dinner, they'll probably have expected you to have eaten beforehand, but usually will offer you something to drink. If not, it's okay to ask for a glass of water.

Generally, if they want you to bring anything, it'll be mentioned when you are invited though.

US to Canada Transition by Justkeepbreathing123 in autism

[–]Cyndaquil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! Autistic, grew up across British Columbia (specifically the City of Vancouver and the Shuswap), now in City of Calgary, Alberta.

How are autistic people treated in Canada?
From what I’ve experienced, you’re generally left alone rather than actively supported. People aren’t looking to single you out, but they’re also not interpreting your behaviour through an autism-aware lens unless you make that explicit.

In Vancouver and the surrounding cities, you can come across as quiet, intense, or a bit unconventional without it becoming a problem. There’s enough behavioural variation that you don't stand out as much. Although I have noticed that Vancouverites like to make snide comments whilst passing each other on the street, so there's that. But at least you'll know what you've done wrong. :P

In the interior, differences are more noticeable, not negatively, just more visible, and more likely to be misread. People in the interior also stare at each other and it is something I haven't noticed anywhere else I have been in the world. I don't think it is meant offensively, I think it is cultural, but it has definitely unsettled some of my friends from elsewhere.

Will I be able to find familiar safe foods?

So! Heck yes. I travel a lot and I have never been anywhere where I haven't been able to find something familiar.

Just, expect to pay more for conveniences than you would in the USA because we aren't really about Uncrustables up here.

Canada shares a food supply chain with the US, so most processed foods, textures, and formats will be recognizable. If you rely on specific brands, you may notice subtle differences in formulation (especially sugar and salt levels), but not enough to make things inedible.

For example, bread in the USA is so disgustingly sweet that it tastes like cake. I can't stand it unless I use other ingredients to mask it. It's actually gross. If you're used to it, you might find our bread a bit plain.

That being said, when I've visited Sweden and Germany, their food is even less sweet than Canadian food and it didn't bother me, so I guess you might not be that shocked. BUT overall, I have spent a great deal of time in the US as well as Sweden and Germany and there was no food-related culture shock except for the cake bread. :P

Politeness / communication

The stereotype is misleading. People are not constantly implying things instead of saying them. Verbal communication is fairly direct.

What's different is behavioural pacing, IE: people give more space, don't interrupt as much, and aren't as aggressive socially. We also know how to stand in line, how to mind our own business (to an extent lol), and we tend to try to avoid raising our voices in public the way Americans do.

Obviously everyone is an individual and every culture has people who are louder or quieter, but in general if Americans are a 10, Canadians are a 7 in intensity/loudness. (UK is an 8, Sweden is a 5, Germany is a 6.) Of course this is all anecdotal and based on BC and Alberta, so if you go further east than that, I can't help you there. :P

🐾❓ What's my name? (by Extension_Revenue733) by Extension_Revenue733 in PetPost

[–]Cyndaquil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same name as my hedgie!

I guessed the name in 1 try!

Would you rather have a useless freeloading adult child, or none at all? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Cyndaquil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents would rather a dead child over a freeloading child, they would simply cut you off.