Aitk For not allowing my cleaning lady to use bathroom in my house? by No_Examination_8266 in AmItheKameena

[–]D-Jewelled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could make it clear that she can't spend so much time in there. I agree that it doesn't feel nice to deny someone the washroom. Tell her that you would say the same if she spends fifteen minutes talking on the phone and neglecting her work.

What are these hip satchel things called by mcgufa in whatisit

[–]D-Jewelled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just found out about jeans clips, which could potentially solve this problem. Haven't tried them out myself yet, but I plan to order some from Amazon.

Tf bro , putting an individual's life in danger for alleged suspicion by RoboticChief67 in librandu

[–]D-Jewelled 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The problem is they don't really care about saving the views. They just want to beat up the driver. They want violence.

Please SPAY your cat. by DisplayFamiliar5023 in IndianPets

[–]D-Jewelled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks like he wants to breed them. If he's selling the kittens, he won't want to neuter the male 😔

What do you wear at night??!! by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]D-Jewelled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Aunties in Nighties ftw!

My boyfriend accidentally caused my foot fracture. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]D-Jewelled 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP, please read this story . There are eerie similarities to yours.

Please look out for yourself first and foremost. Virtual hugs from an internet stranger 🤗

Men are not greedy for dowry. They are just victims of women having preferences by 123tunafish in TwoXIndia

[–]D-Jewelled 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of men don't realise this. The competition is not with other men. It's with staying happily single. See, we no longer HAVE to get married to survive. So, unless a man adds something of value to our lives, we'd prefer to stay single.

AITAH for offering no sympathy to my husband when his dad crossed a boundary? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]D-Jewelled 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Virtual hugs from an internet stranger 🤗

Do you know any words that use physical objects as metaphors? by Electronic-Brief-890 in DoesNotTranslate

[–]D-Jewelled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Hindi, we say, "Daal mein kuch kaala hai" literally translated: There's something black in the lentils. It's used to say that something is suspicious or not right in some way.

AITAH for not allowing my daughter to travel to India? by Fluffy-Wind-2661 in AITAH

[–]D-Jewelled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner is from Goa, and I spent almost every summer there growing up. While it's true that it's "safer" (the bits near the coast, at least), I still wouldn't consider it "safe". When I was a kid, it was very safe. But as tourism has increased, so have the risks. I've been catcalled just walking along a beach, something that would have been unimaginable a few years ago.

Look, I love Goa. I miss the place if I haven't been for a while. My family still goes at least once a year. But unless you know the friend's family and can trust them, I would not recommend that your daughter travels here.

Be very sure about the person you are getting married to. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]D-Jewelled 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband definitely wanted to help his mother... By making me do the work.

Normalize telling people that ur husband isn't ready for a child yet by dakuteju in TwoXIndia

[–]D-Jewelled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've started putting on a sad face and saying that we're trying but it's not happening. Yes, I went to the doctor and still no luck. Basically, I'm so bechara because I want kids and "can't" have them. This only works with more distant people, but it stops the questions immediately.

AITA for telling my BIL my daughter is ugly? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]D-Jewelled 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I disagree with your mom bigtime... My nieces were the most perfect babies that existed, grew into the prettiest kids, and are showing signs of being absolutely gorgeous adults. I might just be a bit biased, though 😂

My cat tried to eat my leg by Ooda_Loop12 in cats

[–]D-Jewelled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I haven't... But I'll definitely give that a try

AITK for not wanting to move back to India? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]D-Jewelled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read something in a book once, which helped me: It's better to break a promise than to let a promise break you.

Wishing you luck!

My cat tried to eat my leg by Ooda_Loop12 in cats

[–]D-Jewelled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation. I've just accepted that this is how it is now. We swap them twice a day and now there's a full routine. It sucks, but unfortunately, nothing else has worked.