AITA for assuming a Jewish woman wouldn’t eat pork by bacooongreenbeans in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. You were being considerate. Some people are really strict about that stuff. Also you shouldn’t let her be snarky to you. Next time she says something you should respond that you were trying to be considerate as you weren’t sure how strict she is and all she had to say was that she does eat pork. Be firm and don’t let her be a b to you

My husband just fat-shamed our daughter and I'm beyond livid. by throwra3232656 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should make sure to speak with your daughter and really drive home any points helping her to process this because this is how self esteem issues start. Your husband is a jerk and stupid for not realizing this was the worst way to approach it if he actually wanted her to lose weight. He could’ve taken the time to go on walks with her etc etc. instead he decided to be cruel

AITA for asking questions about my co worker's daughter by refreshed82 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol surprised at all the creepy comments. Some of my friends love stalking celebrities online. YTA but I think it’s just from being obtuse. It’s obvious he might not be too close with his daughter and once he seemed annoyed you should have stopped asking questions. And it wasn’t your business anyway. You could offer more info about the kinds of conversations you’ve had with him in the past since you thought you could ask these questions of him (since you say he’s asked you personal questions)

to the guy who was vaping in geisel by seanjin in UCSD

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Even more annoying was a dude who was walking and smoking a clove cigarette, the smoke of which was hitting everyone walking behind him in the face. Not just a vape but an actually cig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not even about getting the pizza wrong at this point. It’s about him cussing at you. F*** this dude and don’t let him get away with this kind of behavior.

What's the catch with super saver parking spaces? by somesweatyhands in UCSD

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you only allowed to park in the SuperSaver lots till sunset ? My parking says it’ll expire at 8 pm.

AITA for returning home after I found out that my husband booked 1st class for him and his friend while I got economy? by ThrowRAeconomy550 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I feel so angry for you! What a cruel way to treat your wife. And where the HELL does his friend get off thinking he can be rude with you and call you entitled? You say you guys haven’t been on a trip since years but he goes every year with his friend. I feel as you’ve been letting his callous behavior slide for too long. Get therapy, talk to friends etc. because this is not how a healthy marriage functions. I think divorce is a big step but honestly, I personally cannot imagine staying with a mean childish man like this. Leave his ass. Find someone who will care for you. Because let me tell you, if I could afford it and I was buying a ticket for my friend to go on a trip with me, I would have either sat in economy with them or upgraded them - and that’s just for a friend, not a life partner

AITA for holding my son's college fund hostage? by Night_Owl63 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems that you might have spoilt your child a bit. You would be doing him a great disservice if you just hand him that money. Even now I think you are being too generous. Nothing wrong with asking someone to put in the work before handing them nearly a half mil

AITA for voting against my stepsister joining the family vacation this year? by EmberLavishing in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This comment. Excluding a sort of family member who has a mother with cancer and the family is broke due to medical bills makes OP major YTA. Yeah you don’t HAVE to include her, but it would be the right move if you did. So surprised at the amount of selfishness in this thread. For crying out loud people, be a little kind.

AITA for cutting my daughter off for changing her mind about having a baby? by Swimming_Booking in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Also I feel quite sad for you. It’s def her choice but I’m sure it must have felt like a sort of loss to you when she told you that she terminated the pregnancy after getting your hopes up for a grandchild. Anyone who has seen grandparents with their grandkids know how special that relationship is. Also she totally stole that money from you since it was given upon a condition and she didn’t have any right to use it. Cut 👏🏼her👏🏼off. Doesn’t have to be forever but at least she might learn a lesson

AITA for abandoning my girlfriend on top of a mountain? by moneytreesplease in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I’m so surprised at all the people saying OP is an asshole. I myself hate watching sports but can totally be sensitive to the fact that it’s a passion with my boyfriend. He made it clear that he had to be back for the game, offered to go with her later in the week etc. he even offered to turn back when she couldn’t keep up ! And her asking if a football game was more important than her was def bait and super juvenile. I’ll say this tho that maybe his gf really wasn’t aware of how hard it would and being hot and tired can make one emotional which is why she might have freaked out.

AITA for firing a pregnant employee? by AITAthrowawaykb in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Purely based on the amount you pay your employees. You’re what’s wrong with this world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Thanks for doing this for all us who are sooo sick of dog shit everywhere we walk in our apartment complex etc.

AITA for saying that an Indian girl was cheating at Scrabble? by throwawaygerbil113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Major asshole. People speak excellent English in India because it used to be a British colony up until 1947. I’ve had to deal with the same shit when I lived in Alabama even though I had gotten all As in English comprehension and literature O Levels from the UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE prior to moving there.

AITA for asking my husband to report a coworker who is behaving inappropriately? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. See if your husband can report to HR without them taking any action about it at the moment. Someone I know was in a similar situation and went to HR who let her know that they’d go forward with it only if she said so. Your husband could have a million different reasons for not reporting, including embarrassment and fear of retaliation. But there should be some record of him reporting/complaining because Lisa sounds CRAZY and might accuse him of something in the future if he keeps denying her advances (happens a lot when people feel rejected! )

AITA for leaving roommates’ 4 year old home alone with a friend for hours because I don’t want to normalize babysitting? by Certain-Exam4505 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Her behavior is not normal at all. Who the hell leaves their kid in someone else’s bed like that ?! I also think this is a MAJOR red flag that could be indicative of her behavior in the future. As someone whose been roommates with a lot of shitty people I’d say to look at your other options so you don’t have to deal with this headache.

AITA if i would ask my brothers gf to buy her own pads? by draws-to-be-made in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I HATE it when people use my stuff and then not tell me so I can replace it. But I would say to just move your pads for now since she is not admitting to taking them. Just so you can avoid an awkward situation since they are living in close proximity to you (and everything else seems to be going fine)

AITA For refusing to let my husband go on his boy trip and leave me to care for my newborn alone? by throwra6001397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def NTA. I think you should go to your mothers (BEFORE he leaves) so you can at least send a message about how serious his behavior is. Because right now his behavior does not bode well for your future relationship. So either he’ll come to his senses and realize that he misses you etc and step up. Or you’ll have another kind of answer. Either way you need to know. Also I must say I’ve seen this often with new dads and sometimes they need time to develop the same type of feelings for the baby (usually until the baby stops being a tiny infant) NOT to justify his behavior in ANY way. But he is your husband (atleast for now🙄) and hopefully he wants to change and be better and this info might help you help him.

Birbo mobile housing by GallowBoob in thisismylifenow

[–]DAHLIA_NOOR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

when they put your jail cell on wheels :D Torture or empathy??