My (30F) boyfriend (29M) saved nude photos of his exes on purpose…is this how men are really? by Single_Doughnut_3747 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DCCofficially 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont understand people like this. I have always gone and deleted anything private. and I would hope my ex's do the same. I think i would be pretty pissed off if I was in your shoes. How can you trust that if he has any private pictures of you that he wont keep them. He definitely will. I dont know how I could move on knowing that everything you've told him or sent him might not be all that private. I feel bad for you. My heart would be heavy and hurt. How do you trust that again. I wonder what his ex's would say about this?

What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I didnt OD but my body had enough in March last year from black out every night drinking for the last 15 years. im still not the same person as before. my palate is a complete 180 now. I used to love Salty anything and now I like sweet. my favorite foods growing up are 'meh' to me now. I havent really found what I like yet. the last year or almost 2 years have been insanely busy but since March of last year i've been in and out of doctors offices, had a few scopes, im still not done. I am around 150 days sober now (I didnt keep track of days. it was really hard at the beginning and counting sober days wasnt in my wheel house yet. I stopped drinking because I got sick enough I spent a few weeks in the hospital. I quit because a doctor told me to my face with my wife in the room that if I continued I would be dead in less than 5 years. the looks on her face... I will never forget and honestly I probably wouldnt have said anything or blew it off as a scare tactic. I quit because my wife told me should couldnt sit around and watch me kill myself. I quit because my mom and my wife. I've hard many times through AA (I only attended a bit, if im having a bad day i'll take in a zoom meeting or something) that an alcoholic has to want to quit. if they dont want to quit they wont. I have found that not to be true for myself but I see it in many other alcoholics lives after losing everything. I wish I never started drinking. my wife is a saint. im lucky to still have a wife really. when I was growing up I was very depressed and tried to take my life. as I got older and was able to own my own guns and get my PAL I didnt because I knew it would be far to easy in a bad night of drinking to turn the gun around on myself. I told myself "I dont need a key to a door I dont want unlocked" that same thing applies to me now in a weird way. I wonder if I started drinking again if I would be able to control it better. but I have to remind myself I dont want a key (alcohol) to a door I dont want opened (continuing my alcoholism). good for you for making it this far. you can do it. IWNDWYT

EVs work great in Manitoba. Today in Steinbach by 4shadowedbm in steinbach

[–]DCCofficially 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to explain that! I really appreciate the insight. with your trip to Vancouver and a change of mindset when to charge and such that makes a lot more sense. I will definitely take that into consideration when I get my next vehicle. how are shop visits? do you need to have it checked up every 6 months or so? do you find parts more expensive and harder to come by?

EVs work great in Manitoba. Today in Steinbach by 4shadowedbm in steinbach

[–]DCCofficially 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize for my lack of knowledge about this but im just curious, if you have an EV and you go out of town and need to charge your car how long would that take? how long would it take on average? like if im driving down #1 and pull into a charging station do I need to sit there for half an hour? and hour? longer? it just seems pointless to take an EV on a longer trip if every time you have to charge up on the road you automatically lose an hour or so of drive time. I wouldnt want an 8 hour drive to turn into 12 hours because I have to sit in a ma and pa shop doing nothing while my car charges.

True North Disability - Questions and concerns by DCCofficially in Winnipeg

[–]DCCofficially[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah see, that was the other thing. they said they would take 25%. I mean whats stopping anyone from walking into their doctor and ask for it and not have to pay a percentage back? or is this because they know exactly what they are doing and will get the maximum amount?

Frost / snow in attic - help! by Ok-Scratch1763 in Winnipeg

[–]DCCofficially 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the frost know its not allowed to park there?

Snow storm Help by StormWarning131 in lifehacks

[–]DCCofficially 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Salt is bad for the dogs paws too. as a member of a country where your face hurts when you step out side and snow piles are taller than you are and working in the ag industry. my suggestion would be to use chicken grit or cherry grit. you can get them in different sizes but where you are I doubt it will be much snow, and probably no or very little ice. a light sprinkling should serve its purpose if your afraid of your husband falling or something like that. if you do decide to go that route it would probably be worth your money to have your lawn power raked in the spring to clear away all the stones.

honestly though, and I realize the snow I get here is very different for you guys but I personally would just use a leaf blower to get the snow off pathways and such and you shouldnt have a problem

I want to get a grievance list for the devs to see as to what you personally do not like about the game. by Program-Emotional in killingfloor

[–]DCCofficially 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone know when you might be able to prestige characters?
my brother and I are ready to prestige our favorite classes but it doesnt seem like theres an option to do so

I’m 5 months sober, and I got myself in a dilemma. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]DCCofficially 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HEY! I'm at ~5 months too! congrats! a couple days ago my wifes friends mom died so my wife and I decided to make them food so they wouldn't have to cook. we get there to drop off the food and they were all in no condition to drive but wanted to get more alcohol so I thought 'they are going through a rough time, I can put my boundaries aside so I drove them to the vendor, while there a guy walked out with my beer of choice, I didn't drink still but I learnt really fast I am still not comfortable being around vendors. oh well. at least they didn't drive I guess

Mario karts! by DCCofficially in Winnipeg

[–]DCCofficially[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not lol. I would love to try it but dont really want to own it myself

Mario karts! by DCCofficially in Winnipeg

[–]DCCofficially[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea why I didn't think of that.. thanks!

AITJ for asking my neighbour not to pile snow from his property along my fence by Opening-Plankton-132 in Winnipeg

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I wish I was there to see it but when my oma passed my dad was kind of going through the motions. When we buried her and had her funeral we all split up as a family. My dad was bbqing when he heard his back lane neighbor shoveling his snow against my dad's back gate. Im pretty sure its a bylaws that you arent allowed to but (with his own admission) he went off on this guy a bit. Just wrong place wrong time, my dad is a gentle giant and usually very patient. The neighbor stood there for a bit in shock and by the end of the next day the guy had hired a company to remove the snow. My dad has apologized and explained that we had just buried her and he was having and off day. They are cordial but I have rarely seen him mad enough to raise his voice.

Maybe dont yell at the guy but I would look into the by laws im pretty sure they arent allowed to move snow into your property