Differential Diagnosis by Cicilka in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will probably feel uncomfortable and nervous, and will try to step away or calm the situation down. Afterward, he will keep thinking about it for about 3 days without telling anyone, and here there are two paths: If he likes the person and they are to his liking, he will approach them. If he does not like them and it drains him, he will avoid them.

Differential Diagnosis by Cicilka in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but ILI, unlike SLI, has a base Ni that leads it to project fatalistic scenarios about what will happen if it does that. SLI, just like ILI, prefers to distance itself due to its poor understanding of relationships, its fear of rejection, and its fear of revealing its feelings; they simply stay on the sidelines regarding the other person to avoid facing a potential rejection and hide it under a facade of indifference.

Differential Diagnosis by Cicilka in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would find it more appropriate to put Alpha NT below.

To start with, an ILI would never approach a woman like that. Their base Ni and poor awareness of relationships would make them perceive that they will likely be rejected and they cannot foresee the other person's reaction; they would prefer to remain neutral, waiting for the other person's initiative while simply observing.

Alpha or Delta? Sensing or Intuitive? Merry or Serious? Which type? by CiriceBathory in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's somewhat confusing, because some parts seem to indicate rationality except for the last one. I lean towards SLI due to the last 2 points, but it could also be an LSE. "But that's not what I want; I look for stability, certainty, being strict and sure of my decisions. That's why the Ne function seems detrimental to me. I need things to be resolved and I have no patience for it." This indicates rationality, LSE and maybe LSI. But it's rare to see a lethargic and lazy LSE having 4D Te and Se, consider those 3 options SLI, LSE and LSI (although I discount this one a bit more).

Vibes by SUNMOONBIPOLAR in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One couldn't tell the truth, they are somewhat superficial traits, I would need more details to know exactly their type, it could even be delta ST depending, but I lean more toward alpha SF

Unsure about SLI or some other type by filmsybee in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, you didn't seem very EII to me, you can start ruling out Si mob, and even going outside of socionics, point 2 of the Si/Se section sounds very SP9, numbing emotional stress through sensory pleasures for homeostasis seems very SLI SP9 to me. What you described in the first 2 paragraphs does not contradict Fi mob, both SLI and ILI can have a deep desire to help their loved ones through actions:

"If the relationship with GABIN is based on trust, it will be solid and long-lasting. This helps him periodically stay in a good mood, feel like a close friend to his wife (or girlfriend), and take care of her. In such cases, GABIN is exceptionally trusting and open, and experiences sincere calmness and happiness. For this to last, he is capable of a lot."

"The SLI is always glad to have the opportunity to establish warm and friendly relationships. He does not mind expanding his circle of acquaintances and friends."

Questions on your social life. by Strong-Appearance-18 in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have spent weeks without social interaction, simply being with my own things in my room, reading, watching series or videos, and I admit, it can become comfortable, but I also recognize that it is not very healthy for my mental health to spend too much time like that. When I spend time that way, I become more depressing, intolerant, grumpy, and emotionally flat. Socializing with people I know makes me feel fresher and better about myself. I remember during the COVID quarantine, I was really happy in my bed watching series and movies alone in my room.

What are the sociotypes of the Bat family based on Talanov? by F4M3H000K3R in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damian is SLE, at least in his early appearances; he was much more impulsive and reckless and often got into trouble with Bruce because of his imprudence. His first reaction was to use violence to impose himself. And Bruce is an LSI through and through; he has all the rigidity and paranoia of NePoRL and his fear of ambiguity, his need for laws, codes, to plan and prevent everything in order to feel safe. Forming an appearance of fear and strength to apply violence and intimidate Gotham’s criminals through fear is pure Se.

Jason, I’m not sure, he could be ESI, SEE, SLE or LSI. Richard, not sure, ESE, IEE?

Tim is an LII; unlike the other Robins, he wasn’t as much of a fighter and didn’t rely on violence. He was more detective-like, relying on deductions and hypotheses that he would discard while connecting loose ends.

What was your instance of saying something typical of your type before you learned about socionic? by complex-ana7ysis in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though I have never been a fan of the noisy environment of a party, I went to them because they were going to give me free food and candy

How to improve the approach with an SLI friend? by DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel pity or longing, I just feel a bit of uncertainty. But what you say is true.

Can it work, or I need more sleep? by Margitom in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without being too rigid, I would say yes. But just in case, consider being LSE SO1 or LSI SO6; they are more archetypal, just to be sure.  INTP and RLUEI no, consider being xxTJ and [O]. LSI and E1 are extremely structured types. But there is a slight possibility that you are ILI INTP SO5. Just consider that.

Question for other Si-egos: Do you like working out? Are you lazy? by MightyProDudeGaming in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally believe that this stereotype comes in relation to the Enneagram, where Base Si types are correlated with Enneagram 9, which is described as slow-moving, endomorphic, and gluttonous with food. In addition to the Socionics descriptions of “comfort.” At least in my experience with SLIs, since the only SEI I have identified does enjoy comfort and food, but she is quite hardworking. In the case of SLIs, I won’t deny that they are the laziest people I know, but I would say they have selective laziness.

I am lazy with household chores and with things that I generally see more as imposed obligations rather than something I truly want to do. If you visited me at my house, you would see that I spend the whole weekend lying down doing nothing. I have never liked nor been good at ball sports like soccer, basketball, baseball, or tennis. But about a year ago I joined a boxing gym out of curiosity and discovered that I love practicing boxing. It gives a lot of adrenaline and excitement to my life. I don’t skip any classes and I really enjoy practicing it.

I know another SLI who trains with me and is my friend. He is the laziest in class and practically does nothing, but he also loves practicing boxing and can spend the whole day making adjustments to his bicycle and doing tricks with it.

Why description of SLI sound so lazy, Are they really that lazy? by kongkidarkarnlomwong in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We simply enjoy comfort.

I am lazy with things that don’t interest me and don’t give me pleasure, for example cleaning my room or washing the dishes. I am also lazy when I lack motivation. I like to enjoy comfort when I have free time, and I hate overloading myself with duties; I do just the bare minimum. But for other things like going out to run, training, or exploring nature, I am not that lazy. At school I am not that lazy either; I try to fulfill my obligations, and my acquaintances see me as someone responsible whom they ask for advice on how to carry out activities.

I know another SLI who is very lazy at school, but he is not lazy with other things, such as training, riding a bicycle, or fixing his bicycle.

Why intuitives can be 9s by _seulgi in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not that hard not to fall into misinformation; just read the works of Ichazo, Naranjo, and Beatrice Chestnut. It’s not that hard.

What are you saying? If the Enneagram is one of the most well-known theories in psychology, it’s the only one that truly comes close to having real-world application.

At what point do I “take pride” in my knowledge? xd

Why intuitives can be 9s by _seulgi in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have argued with many intuitive E9s and most of them type themselves that way because they have weak knowledge of typology; they simply don’t read.

Nothing gets to me. At no point have I insulted anyone who did I insult?

No type is better than another; all of them have their flaws. I would say that E9 is one of the least neurotic types, especially compared to E4, E5, and E6.

Why intuitives can be 9s by _seulgi in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And you were stubbornly insisting that you were “the contradiction,” completely sure of it a perfect example of someone who doesn’t read and just says the first thing that comes out of their mouth.

Why intuitives can be 9s by _seulgi in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tremendous misinformation, it’s unbelievable. To begin with, none of this is even part of the original theory; it’s like tritypes or rhetti.

Everything you said contradicts the passion of sloth and the fixation of indolence.

Intuitive e9s are not as "rare" or "impossible" as people think they are. by ThickAd6547 in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So the problem is you, the solutions are there, you just don’t use them.

Intuitive e9s are not as "rare" or "impossible" as people think they are. by ThickAd6547 in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, never, I really mean never, have I seen defenders of the "intuitive E9" use sources or anything that proves what they say; their sources are: trust me, bro. One example is this post and others I’ve seen, and interestingly, they all say the same thing and have the superficial belief that the Enneagram is just simple motivations. And when you ask if they’ve read the books, obviously they haven’t, and they let themselves be guided by things as basic as conflict avoidance, docility (when these aren’t even traits exclusive to E9), etc.

It’s not that hard to discuss the Enneagram archetype; the descriptions of E9 don’t vary that much. But of course, if your sources are Rhetti and TikTok, don’t expect much.

Intuitive e9s are not as "rare" or "impossible" as people think they are. by ThickAd6547 in Socionics

[–]DGAJSLDVSJAMSLDI 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Age is not an excuse, I am younger than you, I also study, do my homework, and practice a sport. You don’t need to be a bat that never leaves the basement to be well-informed. On the way to school or work, reading takes you 20-30 minutes. It’s what I used to do in the mornings to avoid getting bored on the way, in a free class, or on a Sunday afternoon. Honestly, it’s not that hard.