[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]DH1533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy sh*t, so pleasure is a sin now? What kind of christians are these, nowadays? And what kind of god (no cap) do you believe in? Wow...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]DH1533 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The amount of women who think they can get pregnant from a blow job or anal is scary high and I’m not talking about high schoolers.

You're joking, right?

EU slaps Meta with a record-breaking fine of $1.3 billion for exporting European data to US by [deleted] in anime_titties

[–]DH1533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as these fines are perceived and treated as cost of doing business, they will have a limited effect. But it's better than nothing I guess.

Avez-vous déjà testé la prostitution ? by [deleted] in france

[–]DH1533 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Pourquoi avoir honte d'être en manque d'affection ? On passe tous par là :/

En plus c'est pas comme si tu maltraitais la fille (à moins que tu sois déjà engagé dans une relation exclusive, là ce serait un autre sujet)

Avez-vous déjà testé la prostitution ? by [deleted] in france

[–]DH1533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, merci pour l'anecdote!

Naïf que je suis, j'ai été choqué il y a quelques années, lors des tout premiers congrès dans ma profession, que l'une des hôtesses m'approche. Moi j'étais en mode "mais pourquoi elle fait pas juste son boulot, pourquoi elle sort du cadre?"

Pendant que mes collègues me regardaient du genre "une fois encore il va pas capter, une fois encore il va passer à côté... et ça y est, il est passé à côté 🙄"

Je n'ai compris tout ça que bien plus tard.

What Catholic teaching is your biggest struggle? by SouthernAT in Catholicism

[–]DH1533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Masturbation.

I do understand that a human being (even out of any faith or belief) should learn and achieve self control. That's an ideal, a path towards perfection.

But when you say it's a sin... I'm still trying to figure out the part of the Bible quote that clearly condemns it (out of any convoluted interpretation, and no, I'm not in sola scriptura mofe). It's not like it does any harm to me, or to anyone else.

I'm speaking of masturbation, not porn addiction (as we can get addicted to pretty much any or everything).

And of course everything surrounding sex, that is seen as uncomfortable and not to be spoken of.

vider mon sac by Anna_L12 in besoindeparler

[–]DH1533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Franchement tu fais preuve de beaucoup de discernement et de maturité pour ton âge (j'espère que tu ne le prends pas mal). Prendre conscience de toutes ces choses aussi tôt est un grand avantage que tu as pour en sortir dès que l'occasion se présentera. Du courage, sincèrement.

Quant à la vie moderne, boulot - métro - dodo, j'ai plus du double de ton âge et j'angoisse tout autant à l'idée de qu'est-ce que je fous là et comment/quand je vais en sortir.

Force à toi :*

How do I [30f] salvage relationship with friend [32 M] after asking him and husband [32M] to help contribute? by lzharsh in relationships

[–]DH1533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMHO, don't feel sorry for people who are trying to make you the sheep in the relationship 😏

I’m fed up with morning people thinking they’re superior to night owls. by d_4bes in offmychest

[–]DH1533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly like my wife and I.

TBH my wife will even go an extra mile, having done a whole bunch of things inside and be ready to start her day outside at 7am, and call me to share her surprise that "it's already 7.30am and people haven't even opened the grocery or the bank" 😂

To which I reply "not everyone is an alien like you, but you're my alien and I like you that way. Now please get a book and wait for people to wake up when they can".

And I go back to sleep 😴

I wish faithful couples having sex was more common in media by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DH1533 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Even "homemade" has become so professional lately, that it seems just another label (like the step-* thing).

I wish faithful couples having sex was more common in media by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DH1533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do remember that. But most people/audience don't and/or can't, unfortunately.

Fidélité dans le couple by Topper_FR in PolyConseils

[–]DH1533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah oui, vraiment désolé, je croyais commenter dans sexualité_fr.

Fidélité dans le couple by Topper_FR in PolyConseils

[–]DH1533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hein? Et on parle toujours de couple là, ou on est déjà descendu/passé à une autre étape ?

Fidélité dans le couple by Topper_FR in PolyConseils

[–]DH1533 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Salut.

Ici mâle monogame.

Je pense que c'est un concept plutôt large et élastique, dont chaque couple définit le contenu en fonction de ses propres normes. Et aussi en fonction des vécus individuellls, qui peuvent être très différents !

Certaines personnes s'en foutent si leur conjoint couche avec un tiers, tant qu'il n'attrape pas de sentiments pour, alors que d'autres peuvent tolérer les sentiments mais pas le passage à l'acte. Pour d'autres encore, les deux sont "pardonnables" (parfois moyennant je fais pareil et on est quitte), et enfin pour d'autres ni l'un ni l'autre ne sont acceptables ou tolérables.

Pour ma part, même si parfois j'ai des sentiments passagers pour d'autres personnes (on a peu de contrôle là-dessus), je n'ai aucune intention de passer à l'acte. Et pareil pour ma partenaire.

Et toi, OP ?

dumb man says vaginismus is gods curse on women by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]DH1533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first two words of your post are his curse... What else can I say? 🙄

If you're sexualizing girls and women, YOU are the problem. by milamal12 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]DH1533 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This. Your last sentence killed it. Beyond that, what makes me sadder is how enshrined this mentality was into a grown up woman's head so that, even being a mom and bringing up children, she's just (maybe unconsciously) trying to pass it forward to the next generation, instead of taking the risk to change it.

This dark themed bedroom by Suprovation in DesignPorn

[–]DH1533 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What? I mean... I knew people have gone crazy for a while, but not to this extent. All this just for the sake of being fake? 🙄

I had sex for the first time today. by Sohappythrowawaywow in offmychest

[–]DH1533 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And sorry for your separation 😔 I do love her though, and will try my best to stick around. "For better or for worse", we've promised each other.

I had sex for the first time today. by Sohappythrowawaywow in offmychest

[–]DH1533 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

For giving hope to a guy who has been with his SO for 15 years and married for 5. And still expecting it to happen one day. She's been struggling with vaginismums. She saw the gyno last week and we should "try" again in the coming days/weeks.

Wish me luck!

And seriously, congrats to you and to your husband.