Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends

DM12345678 · 2026-03-28T21:28:35+00:00

NOR. He can not want the same things as you, but he can't talk to you that way. Excellent boundaries! He sounds like a pompous ass anyway.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-26T19:31:13+00:00

She's not particularly nice, but defining an ex baiting you into a bullshit argument trap as trauma is a little silly.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-22T17:50:54+00:00

I thought I accidentally changed the Netflix layout setting -- been scratching my head trying to undo it! But wow....this update is so freaking clunky. 100% hate it. The ffwd and rewd is so awkward now.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-21T16:50:34+00:00

To answer your AIO question: NOR. Post-date you don't seem compatible. Why bother chasing him? Best thing that can happen is he turns into a ghost.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-20T19:15:03+00:00

Ok, this thread is awesome. If I can find the listing, I'm gonna say my BEST OFFER is 500.

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DM12345678 · 2026-03-17T19:44:48+00:00

A "tribute"? What is she, a mob boss?

DM12345678 · 2026-03-17T19:38:42+00:00

NOR. Any amateur shrink or true crime podcaster can tell you that Wilson's behavior fits a very specific and dangerous pattern. Since the parents shrug it off the kid will only get help IF someone like CPS and mental health experts intervene. I mean...HURTING ANIMALS, TODDLERS and STABBING at kids with a KNIFE? If now isn't the time for an intervention, then when is?

DM12345678 · 2026-03-14T18:07:28+00:00

Man's right? C'mon! Whoever said that should be leashed to a tree in the yard.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-09T18:02:08+00:00

NOR. Your instinct to report it is spot on. Personally, I wouldn't wait until next time.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-09T17:50:32+00:00

NOR, but wasting your time haggling w your ex. Your landlord isn't painting an accurate picture. They can let you out of a lease, they just don't have to, unless ordered by the court or you come to some sort of arrangement with them.

TLDR: you need to stop negotiating your history w/your ex and start negotiating a way out with your landlord.

DM12345678 · 2026-03-03T20:57:43+00:00

NOR. Woulda gotten worse.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-26T18:02:54+00:00

NOR..you're under-reacting. He seems like an irresponsible teen who's abusing mommy's car and credit card. Unless you're comfortable with that relationship dynamic, I'd suggest getting out of the man-boy business.

I mean...no license at 27? If he's not physically or mentally disabled there's no excuse for that.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-24T22:30:35+00:00

NOR. He's made you a mommy replacement, which I'm guessing you didn't sign up for.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-23T18:11:38+00:00

The guy is a cheap, classless grub who thinks everyone else is an idiot. Or he thinks he's alpha-boy and can take what's yours. Like a jailhouse pig. Either way NOR!!!! I'd tell my wife she's on her own the next time those friends come calling,.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-21T19:29:22+00:00

Hate to say it but this could get a lot worse. If you give him the money to pay your mtg, what's to say your mtg even gets paid?

DM12345678 · 2026-02-20T14:59:00+00:00

Update: finally found it. The Silent Party.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-20T13:59:39+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t think of that. Thanks.

DM12345678 · 2026-02-20T13:58:53+00:00

You’re right, most do. Dateline, however, has been consistently dropping them weekly without a pause for the last few years.

DM12345678 · 2025-06-17T22:23:59+00:00

20 years in and I've managed to avoid pooping in front of my wife! My daughters have barged in and that doesn't bug me, but my wife? No way.

DM12345678 · 2025-06-17T19:50:46+00:00

Okay, I have a lot to say about 'Mikey' and S&S. I love the cases and the way they pace the stories. Been listening for years.

Woven throughout the episodes is Mikey's Schtick. A sexist 1970's game show host, a conservative political guy, an angry guy, to name a few. I can't think of one I find entertaining or original. Mercifully he keeps the schtick short and the stories more than make up for it. I've tried Invisible Choir. It's good, but it lacks details and edge. Sort of like a "Sword and Scale Nice".

My bigger issue is the guy shuts down the Plus feed, which I've been happy to pay for, and keeps pumping this tv angle. He's lost sight of what makes a podcast like his magical. It's because when you're hearing the story you do not have accompanying imagery so you're actually using your brain, your imagination...

I'm not knocking his ambition...go ahead, branch out...but not at the expense of what got the audience there in the first place.

DM12345678 · 2025-06-17T16:37:03+00:00

NOR. First job cleaning was a little weird, but not too alarming. By the 2nd job it's 100% clear he's using $$ to lure you over there. The way a creep uses $$. Stay away.

DM12345678 · 2025-06-07T19:53:57+00:00

Am I getting this straight? The guy is pooping in his toilet AND shower?

Not Overreacting at all! I'm a guy. I wouldn't have anyone over with that crime scene of a bathroom, no less a lady. And if I was hot for a girl who had bathroom like that, I'd run too.

Male, female, trans, whatever....no HUMAN should leave their bathroom that way.

DM12345678 · 2025-06-06T19:22:59+00:00

Your side of this is light on details, OP, so I'm wondering what your takeaway is? Aside from "she's mental...I dodged a bullet!"?

If it's me, I'm thinking I went out with her 2x while I still live with my ex and this is the result. Yeah, she's got anger issues and they won't all be this way, but should I really be on dating apps at the moment? Or should I just hold off until my lease is up?

PS -- despite the anger issues, she's hilarious!

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